Getting REAL on Getting OLD

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[RobertMcGlohon]

Hey guys, I have been watching your videos with great interest for sometime now. My partner was 31 and I am 66. I say was because he passed away Monday the 15th from Liver and Kidney disease. We had a great relationship as he was an old soul who loved older tv shows and country music. He was my rock as I survived cancer, a heart valve replacement and a stroke. He was there and took care of me as I did for him in his time on earth. It was wonderful to find someone as well adjusted for his age and knew what he wanted in life. Age was never an issue. He will be missed dearly. I just wanted to say that life is how you live it. We had 8 years together. Robby

[dlrbsf]

I’m 67 and take care of myself - never know when someone might come along and connect.

[garyparker]

Aging is a gift and the most important relationship all of us have is the one we have with ourselves.

[diazjr]

Hey menz! So, my hubby and I are 15 years apart. I am 49 and he is 63. We love each other and aging as been a crack up. The knee and ankle cracks, and getting off the couch slow😂!

For me aging has been great. As a former dancer, spin instructor, baseball, softball player. My body has been through hell. But, I have taken care of it. The glutes and legs are fine 😀. I have learned how to embrace all of my grey hair on top and bottom 😝! I just need to get my mental back in order! You two are great and love every video you put out! Age gracefully, and love every change that comes

[graydenscott]

Well done. When you guys do these types of Vlogs, you’re doing a great service to the community.
At 66, I’m still working my 4th career full steam as a Tour Director (11 years now) … taking my guests on vacation all over the world. My guests think I’m in my late 40’s, low 50’s … do what you love, love what you do … be authentic to your spirit. Am I single? Yes. Lonely? No. Would I like to settle down again after 21 years of being partnered (single now for 13 years)? Of course … as many commenters have said already, it’ll happen when it’s suppose to … and for now live life to the fullest …

Brian is correct about the body changing and staying healthy through great care.

[robertmdaniels]

I have been down on myself for a while; I'm 71. But I have to keep remembering that there is an autoimmune disease which will not go away, diverticulitis surgery which went haywire, dehisced twice and no belly button now, broken foot 3 times, kidnapped and beat up badly, had Covid before the shots were available losing a lot of lung function and almost not making it, and finally having Covid again. Yeah, I was really hard on myself. I bet if you look at your life you can find many things to be proud of too! Give yourself a break!

Excellent video and shining a spotlight on a topic which affects all of us survivors!

[StarLord-ov]

Hey guys, 73 years old, 37 of them with AIDS. I had 34 years with two different men 14 and 20 years, the last one died in 2012. I was fine in the beginning but that was 12 years ago. Being old, gay and alone sucks. I’ve tried to connect once again, no luck. I don’t have enough sugar to lure a younger man and older men want younger men. I was devoted to both men, they died from AIDS. I never expected to be alone at this age. And honestly, I just don’t know how to move forward. I don’t need therapy, I need a man.

[mhollick]

Great conversation. 61 here and aging gracefully (3 times a week in the gym). Have a a husband who's 69. We make it work.

[Freddy-b-chillin]

Love the mentoring wisdom you both share. Motivates those of all ages to ask questions, explore, and look to good people to help navigate life. As a mid 50s guy who is just now starting to be better about being my authentic self, I appreciate your insights and perspectives. I actually attended my first pride recently and truly appreciated the opportunity to be part of the community and continue to live life.

[Mml]

Thank you! So great to have these conversations out loud! I’m 45 and single and have great gay friendships that keep me feeling loved!

[jamiescott]

Great conversation. Luv you guys! ❤ wish I had friends like you

[dennis-qubs]

I really appreciated the insights from the older guys!

[dianepancel-pierce]

What a joy it is to see how much love and respect you have for each other. Sending you both lots of love 💕

[neilschipper]

Attitude, keeping a positive attitude and staying active surrounded by friends. Keeping a gratitude journal also helps. Lonely or bored, get out of the house and change your environment by taking a walk and enjoying your surroundings 👍❤️💕🤗

[cmacmenow]

Another thing Bri and I have in common....cider!
We produce major tasty cider here in Ireland.
I'm 65 as you know. Because of my 30 plus years of hitting the gym,
regularly, I eat like an Italian, have a small number of
lovely friends in my life. I am blessed. My road always
has been "the road less travelled, " challenging and lead me
to many different and interesting themes and adventures.
Therapy and the talking therapies have considerably helped me
down the years. I got lucky back in my 20s! Got into TA and Gestalt
Psy and have used my skills and knowledge ever since.Invaluable.
These are the best days of my life, hands down.
Incidentally...sunscreen is vitally important for everybody.

[jeremiahcoopersmith]

Amazing conversation!!! Lucky to call you both my close friends:)

[ramper-Ken]

"Do not go gentle into that good night,
Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage against the dying of the light." -Dylan Thomas

[dramonmaster]

Im 45. Getting Older is both good and bad but ultimately it's what you make of it.

[Ravenmachine]

Excellent video and agreed. My husband and I have 18 years between us but as you mentioned, he has an old soul and I a younger active even though I’m the older. Staying active is the game changer as you age. Keep the great videos coming 💪❤️

[richardurch]

Society as a whole isn’t interested in oldies, im in a relationship of 48 yrs, but i know one of us is going to be on our own one day . But I think the thing is to make sure you keep friends close, so you dont become isolated .