Unpredictability Confuses Narcissists!

Narcissists need predictability to be able to manipulate you. If they don’t know how you will react to something they say or do, it makes it much more difficult to prey on you. The early stages of a relationship with a narcissist, when they are love-bombing you, are all about learning what makes you tick. Once they know more about your deepest fears or most difficult traumatic experiences, they can begin pushing those buttons to get certain reactions for you. If you are unpredictable, that makes it more difficult for them to do. Change how you react to their claims of grandiosity, show little or no reaction when they try to manipulate you, and you’ll likely find they reduce their narcissistic tendencies.

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[jenniferklekamp]

It was actually funny because once they think they got you they don’t know how to react when you mess right back with them.

[AttorneyC.L.Swisher]

If you can go no contact, just do it, because they will waste your life energy.

[CynthiaSchoenbauer]

I am getting my life back from narcs because I know all their tricks now. Thanks for your wonderful and loving help.

[RapturereadyforJesus]

The x was such a fool. He was always trying to make me jealous and it was so obvious. All I could do is laugh at his immaturity.

[audreyroche]

Yea true they just find other ways to upset u

[doris]

But some are so turned on from unpredictabillity so they even try harder to manipulate or gaslighting you because they think thats only a further funny callenge for their grandiosity. They only grave for attention no matter the price is

[CynthiaSchoenbauer]

Wow, this is majorly enlightening. I can identify all the narcs in my life except for one "maybe". Now I know for sure SHE IS! Thank you!

[lashanda]

Absolutely! These are all truths about narcissist.

[jenniferklekamp]

😂 I love this because I played with my exs head every time he tried to insult me. Let’s just say it didn’t last long. I put that to an end real quick.

[keithstewart]

Will mesh well with the Secret Sacred Super Nova Event upon its "THIS SON WILL RISE" event!

[trishparham]

They are very good at mapping. False connection..

[jurimarchesan]

Yes when i start to react differently she went

[hopesanchez]

The narcissist is all ears. They want to, know everything about you Then, use it against you...

[tonystorer]

I don't like a narcissist. They're a nuisance. The next one that tries to approach me will get predictably. I predict that if they try their mind games on me they'll realize they didn't choose their victim wisely.

[blessyaheart]

Or tell them all the abuse from childhood has left you with PTSD and you're afraid you might react in self defense fearing for your life. Yeah stop them in their tracks and you'll get traded in for someone else really quick🤣

[beecee]

I like how they just show pics of men. Like women can’t be narcissistic. FOH.

[billydeverauex]

WHAT'S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT
WHAT'S LOVE BUT A SECOND HAND EMOTION. IT MAY SEEM TO THAT I'M ACTING CONFUSED WHEN I'M CLOSE TO YOU!!!!

[debmccafferty]

Ex texted catfished photos, blew us up and ran.

[ESumner]

Lol no, they actually up the ante and do anything possible to get you to react… flip flopping from love bombing to severe persecution… and anything in between until you finally take the bait…. Be very prepared for retaliation if you stop reacting. A better solution is: emotionally detach so you can control reacting or not… once you’re there, you can turn the tables and react to control THEM… knowing it’s their food supply.

[Marco-yjtl]

I think this is bs. Just in general, in a relationship, do you really want unpredictability? I don’t think so