How To Transcend The Patterns Creating Guilt & Shame | Fearful Avoidant Attachment

Advanced Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style Course: Your Guide to Thrive in the 6 Stages of a Relationship

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[martycrow]

This is so compassionate and empowering Thais. It's also delivered in an "on the level" fashion - as if from a friend, rather than "I am the expert here" - which in turn allows space for engagement, understanding acceptance and change to occur. Anyone who has at least in part, a degree of avoidant thinking/behaviour (who doesn't?), will be on the defensive when dealing with deep issues like core wounds. So the language used to explain and space this allows for the exploration of boundaries is very important. You do it so well!

[moulee]

I think having fearful avoidant attachment with social anxiety is the worst thing that can happen to a person!😠

[abbypierce]

Your videos are incredibly helpful - thank you.

[dmguk]

Ive just removed myself from a "situationship" exactly like this..3months of back n forth..push/pull antics..i really did try and help...i knew why she was doing the things she did..but ultimately i couldnt cope with it..my own health was suffering..i tried discussing things from her past and showing why they are connected to now...in the end im "just like the rest" which is exactly where she wanted it to end..im not superhuman...i did my best and realise its outwith my ability.

[MR-pgru]

Unbelievable how much I’ve been able to take on board with your videos even as I wait for the August workshop! Thank you so so much Thais. I’ve been doing therapy and self help for years and the skills you are helping us with I wish I found years ago. But I suppose it’s the right time now after all. So very grateful!

[carrievaleriaalvarez]

Sometimes The Algorithm throws a 4-year old video at you that hits really close to home. For some reason I got emotional just watching it.

There's a lot going on in my case but one thing sticks in my mind. Regarding the trust wound, I did not just acquire it from experiencing an unstable environment with my parents. My father actually used to tell me and my sister "trust noone, not even your father". It's a bit weird that it took me the better part of 45 years to realise just how damaging that was.

[ShieldMaiden]

Geez. Just happened recently and then i go.into the regret/shame/isolation mode

[razvanyke]

I recognize so much from this video, I never knew FA even exists until I met the ex. The ways Thais explains those hard to understand behaviours are scary real, thank you for the clarity.

[annavillalpando]

Thank you so much for making these videos. They’ve helped me so much! ♥️

[wizetek]

When PFC goes offline, amygdala becomes unstoppable.

[b-rad]

Wow that green makes you POP! You were already beautiful. Now you're stunning. Drop dead Gorgeous tbh

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Thank you for the knowledge.

[kericampion]

Thais, i'm a member of PDS! I was wondering if you could please add to your videos the perspective of the partner whose on the other side of this. It would be very helpful to understand the consequences and impact on the other party experiencing this! Thank you for everything you do!

[maggieastrid]

Thais so inspiring! You have touched on so many issues that I have been feeling and I need to be reminded that We can change and improve our situations. Hello Boundaries - making changes Now!

[martycrow]

I'd seen the video, but did the wrong things anyway. This trigger thing is tough, isn't it?

[tulip]

I think I’ve been feeling betrayed in little ways

[cellocello]

I love your videos but the audio is very bad. As a non-native speaker I have to focus really hard.

[angelae.campos]

If the fearful avoidment has enmeshment issues with his mom, will he respect her or reject her ?

[cellbiologyshorts]

What if you really aren't safe around people?

[channellynsims]

What about being emotionally unavailable and death early in childhood.

[angelae.campos]

Are all fearful avoidments aware of there patterns ? or do they think they have normal patterns with relationships