Should I Let Him See Others During Our Separation?

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'My husband and I are considering separation to see if he really wants a divorce'. If you look at that question closely you'll notice that only 'he' wants the divorce, and I'd bet my life that the 'trial separation' is 100% her idea and that he's going along with it to make it easier on him. She should definitely tell him that if he leaves at all that's it. A trial separation is a joke, and marriages that are built on a solid foundation of trust and love would never need such a thing.

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You don't wanna know what I think of this, of that, of ... - Let's just take it easy, people. And give up any of your pointless ideas of trying to control or manipulate anyone else besides yourselves. Cheers!

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1 dont seperate to see if u want 2 divorced -separate 2see if u want to b 2gether. with tht in mind, i dnt think its wise 2agree he can sleep wit other womn. Ur clearly compromsng urself. Its fine to set him free & do some thinking, but sex too, thats just greedy. There's no need for him 2sleep around u cant get sex out of ur system, its sex, it wnt set him free & it wnt help either of u thnk clearly abt a v serious situatn. Ultimately u hv a decision 2 make 2, so its in his interest 2 respekt u

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you dont wanna know what i think of this.

first off...."should I LET HIM ."
thats the problem with marriages. the women think they run the show. MEN RUN THE SHOW. GOT IT?

johnwayne