Focus Only On Women Who Like You

Often when we like a girl we are projecting our own attraction onto her expecting her to be just as interested & attracted as we are. Of course sometimes women are just as interested & attracted as we are, but more often than not, women have little to no interest. Unfortunately, most men waste their time chasing women who have low interest them.

In this Coaching Video I answer a viewers email asking what we can do with a girl whom he really likes, but is showing little interest in return. He's putting in a majority of the effort & getting little from her. I explain how he should only be focusing on the women who actually like him & have a high interest. #LowInterest #ChasingWomen #DatingTips #CoachingVideo #LowAttraction
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I'm Erik Peterson, a men's relationship & dating coach, and at Skill of Attraction I provide dating tips & relationship advice, mainly for men, to help facilitate growing & maintaining attraction in their romantic life to where it's fun, loving & relatively effortless.

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These other videos of mine may help --

"You Must See Yourself As The Prize":

"If You Chase Women, They Will Run":

"Indifference Increases Her Attraction":

"Women Love To Be Wanted":

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[alexcanyon]

Excellent video---why waste time on a dead end pursuit with someone
who holds the balance of power and does not value you.

[MosesEmmet]

Some guys like the chase, but don’t have the resilience needed to overcome rejection. You can chase whoever you want as long as you don’t care when some say NO.

[GaldenX]

Very well said in this video, Eric! I've gone from being the chaser to simply allowing the women to come to me at their own pace. I use to think women enjoyed it when you chased them but ever since subscribing to you and a couple of other coaches I've found that it's better to let them come to you. Not only does it show their interest levels but it saves you time that could be spent on self-improvement and pursuing your dreams & goals in life. It's also helped me to filter out women who were simply looking to pass the time or very low. I mean, how great is it to create a system that filters out people who didn't qualify? It's awesome!

[ryguy]

For the past couple of years I took pursing woman to a minimum, I worked on myself a lot with my career, my fitness and increasing my social value. I wouldn't activity pursue woman, but when ever I'd come across a woman at the bar or matched with a girl on tinder, I kept it very light and showed no weakness as in "I haven't been with a woman in years". I was fun, outgoing and was just showing myself off as a good time. Eventually more and more woman crossed paths with me and showed interest in me. I'd make woman put themselves out there to prove their interest in me! I was gaining power over woman with having an abundance mindset and not settling for a woman who I didn't strongly believe would be good for me. Once my current gf showed a lot of interest with me asking me a lot of questions and putting a lot of effort in, she began to intrigue me. I then started to give her my time and attention.

[BrownBoy-xvxr]

Hi, man. I just love your channel & I think it's by far the best dating/relationship advice channel on YouTube.
And the think that makes you stand out is you explain whatever topic you touch in your videos perfectly & you finish the topic you started every time
Cause the problem with most of these other channels are they start a topic and then they move on to other & their description is irrelavant to what they're saying and the worst part is that in 10 to 20 mints of their video they hardly share 1 mint of knowledge & unlike this channel they never give an ending/finish to the topic they started at first place!

[danielbengtsson]

Yes Erik, I have done this mistake many times and wasted my time for too long, and I have seen girls become interested again when I completely moved on. I have also had easier too attract girls who I am less interested in... I think I have learned this lesson now. :)

[teamsafetysalesteamsafetys]

thank u coach, honestly after screw up many time, keep watching your channel, it improve !!, my guess everyone have bad game bad date also screw up before. we all guy must live and learn

[nolagospeltracts]

I appreciate the fact that you don't constantly drop f-bombs like other dating coaches.

[andor]

This is a real good one enjoy your video's Great job. need to donate for all that that you do for us guy's.

[JAKEBrakeModel]

What if they make it easy for you, but once you feel “in” they start slipping away?

[justauserru]

We guys need to learn a lot from our mistakes. I just wanna know how things are on the other side. Looks like girls never bother to lift a finger at all. I ain't gonna do her job for her. Period. Are we not supposed to meet right in the MIDDLE of the path called Relationship or am I missing something?

[hendrikkramer]

Remember what the emperor says to darth Vader in the quest for Luke Skywalker: He will come to you ( and you bring him before me) Let woman come to you. Be a magnet.

[paulmartins]

Well, you said it all but I don't think you should make the state of" give me a call when you are ready" it shows availability ... and women don't want what's available.

[johncena]

I’m going to see my ex for the last time on Thursday, should I text her anything that could put at least a little bit of interest in her? I don’t feel like texting her I just think there could be any good advice if I could say something that could interest her. She was the love of my life. She motivated me to pursue my dreams, encouraged me to go to school until things got screwed up between us, but she says deep down she’ll always be in love with me. She still motivates me even though we’re broken up. I told her it’ll be the end of us because we’ve been doing this too long for over 5 months or 6. I’m not good with the no contact rule I feel insecure everytime I do it with her. I just want to find a way to show her interest again she doesn’t want to see me for a few months because I got jealous of this new guy she’s with, I sent pictures and videos of me and her together to him and she told me “I don’t want nothing to do with you for a while”

[horusaxmand]

What do you think about the following: Giving out your number instead of asking hers, so like this you filter and attract only the ones that have high interest?

Maybe you can make a video on this?

I met a girl yesterday. She was sitting by her own when I decided to approach her very casual. It took some time but eventually she looked very interested, she even followed me everywhere in the club and dumbed her friends. Before she eventually left, I gave her my number instead of asking hers. She looked shy first so now I'm also second guessing if this was the right thing to do, if I'd better asked her number instead.. I had this mindframe this night that I would never ask for numbers anymore, only give so that I wouldn t come of to needy or chasy, but most importantly only attract the ones that are interested.

I found her on instagram anyways so no worries ;)

[elmalanmalan]

How to create a mind of abundance when you don't have much options? 🤔

[Musclespapi]

Hey coach,

How can I get a ex back after I cheated her? She wanted to get back I backed off after I wanted to get back with her she said No.
We are in no contact but she wrote me and deleted the message after. I did not answer. What can I do?

[priscylamello]

Its so interesting when you say guys have to go out with a lot of girls to decide who is better. Its so difficult for a woman to do the same, cause we can’t call every guy out, we have to wait for some interest coming. In my case, I have a number of 0 men to go out with me. I can choose between 0 and 0 😂

[deckbeltran]

Hey there, I thought my ex would never reach out after the way she played games, didn't want to see me when i asked her three times even ignored my invites (she reached out first in all those times). Five months later she sent me a long block of text out of the blue...ill summarize it. (In here the weather has been bad, but that was two days ago)...She has always sent those long texts while we were in a relationship...What does it all mean? And how do i respond to this?