10 Reasons You Don’t Believe in Love (and 10 Reasons You’re Wrong)

It’s hard out there. I get it. After years of dating and relationship failures, it’s easy to go on permanent “guyatus,” and throw in the towel on men. Don’t. In this special podcast, I’m going to reframe 10 limiting beliefs you have about love and show you how to turn your glass half-empty into a glass half-full.

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[valentinak]

Thank you Evan Mark for this work - so inspiring. Great.

[michellezhu]

If you work hard enough towards a career or interest, you will get somewhere, dating someone with all your heart and soul will not guarantee they will love you back. Love will make you vulnerable and weak. Why give someone the ability to hurt you?

Edit: thanks for all the likes guys!!I forgot I wrote this 5 years ago when I was in a bad place being heartbroken. Fast forward, I found my forever love now and I love him with all my heart and soul.
I think the lesson I learnt is that there is a lot of risks in loving someone, but it’s all worth it if it’s with the right person. we need to invest slowly and don’t fall in love too fast to protect ourselves though. Hope this message sends hope to whomever is reading this!! True love is really out there!! And once you found it, its life changing 😊

[TheNdh]

I don’t believe in love there more important things then something as stupid as love . All it is brain chemistry and Evolution that it.

[lookaroundyou]

I never been in a relationship and quiet frankly might not want to.
But here is what I think about the matter.
1. We became so awkward and insecure to talk or start a conv with the person we like. ( either fear of rejection, expectations or responsibility)
2. Assuming that all relationships are bad because we grew up only seeing that side of it whether family or friends.
3. Feeling that we are never ready, money, having a place or a good job (accomplishments and so on)
4. Fear of commitments, what if that's not the one, what if I made the wrong decision.
5. The stress, life itself is hard, and i barely have energy to take care of myself, imagine another person.
6. Freedom, no one wants to sacrifice any of their time for another person and do whatever the hell they want.

Am not saying don't be in a relationship, because I saw old family members who grew single all their lives and it wasn't bad but wasn't good either, some regret it.

Point is. Only make a move when the person u like is so worth it, don't just like scumbag and say this is love.
Peace.

[jacintamclaughlin]

Dont believe In love because I have seen and experienced it myself

[islazoe]

i used to dream that i would grow up and find someone i gave up i dont believe in love and nothing can change that

[starz]

I don't believe in love, I only belive in my love that I give to my family

[benjaminoates]

I don’t believe in love and I don’t want to experience I enjoy the single life

[hypewarrior]

I don’t believe in love because I love myself and that’s enough

[Lil_Tweeter]

I don’t wanna be alone but all marriages seem so awful

[SR-mvmf]

Awesome! The way you put it makes everything so clear. You just see things as they are without any tinted glasses. Thanks 🙂

[Eu]

you know....the best and the smartest philosophers, they've could not understand the love. And somebody like you can make that? Why you believe that the love exist?

[mariea]

There’s no such thing as love or being in love. And I am not wrong .

[malisamaserson]

I dont believe in love because its betrayed me

[madeleinefocht]

Don't believe in love because all it does is lead me to heartache and pain so no thanks

[rachelleleblanc]

One of my favorites of the series..thank you

[icysnowcold]

I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.

Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance.

I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse.

People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.

[Thelastwarrior]

I’d rather love a animal than a human being .

[cclmpr]

Love is not about girlfriend and boyfriend husband and wife no, love is something that you feel about that person about a friend about a person you care so much

[PricelessBinkey]

Didn't make it 2 minutes in before I was like "eh, more dumb self help with the same basic premise"