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[Analysis_Paralysis]

"Your person is someone who can meet you where you're at. And grow and heal with you." 🖤
This is so beautiful and it resonates with me deeply. I believe the same. :)

There's no right or wrong time. Someone who's right for you won't make things harder. It won't feel like a hustle to stay together. Someone who loves and respects you will also love and respect you while you're working on healing your trauma. And you do the same for them! And it will feel amazing... 🌿🌼

[tknwindsorful]

It's important to realize every person is different. They're not your ex... They're not the one who hurt you. Give them a chance. I somehow keep picking up their pieces and then get thrown away. 🙄

[Lil-Be]

100% „Your person is the one who can meet you where you are.”🙌

[allenmciver]

Don't be yourself. Be the best version of yourself

[ronneya]

Hi Matthew, You may not read this but you have been the reason why I am still alive and still pushing forward, you give me hope. Your channel is geared towards women but your philosophy and teachings can be used by any one. You are an amazing and inspiring person and I wish you nothing but success and happiness. ❤

[Ingrafre]

finally he says how great Audrey was and is for him. And we all always knew it, Audrey!

[Pia_creator]

It depends upon on how you both work as a partner. If you feel like he is hiding a lot of things then let it. If you think he is serious about you then stay.

[OzYil]

Truth be told, Matthew reads my mind every single time, and sadly, he does not even know how much he helped me over the years. Bless him!

[SophieLovesSunsets]

"You heal together" ❤ I think we have to believe there are more good people out there than bad, I know it's easier said than done, but we have to somehow believe that. Otherwise, the alternative is walking around with a brick wall built around us, not allowing anyone to get close. Sometimes living in fear of being hurt can stop you from meeting someone who you could have a really loving relationship with. Don't tar everyone with the same brush. Give people a chance. You may be pleasantly surprised 💖

[fluentinoverthinking]

I didn’t have any romantic interactions with men until I was 23 because of my childhood traumas (I was really popular among boys starting from kindergarten which made people laugh and as a kid I couldn’t understand why they laughed and came to the conclusion that the attention from the opposite sex causes trouble and shame). Then I was bullied and thought I’m not worthy of love etc. Now after a year of therapy (it was devoted to a different topic but helped with relationships too) I started communicating with men. It’s extremely difficult and I feel like an imposter, as if I’m the only inexperienced person (in this department) on the whole planet. But self awareness helps a lot. Whenever I want to run or shut down I think “if others managed to do this, I can do it too”. Wish everyone luck and meet the love of your life despite anything that happened to you! ❤

[hadiza]

*Nothing* can replace healing people!!!! 💜💜💜

[oambitiousone]

Your person is someone who can meet you where you’re at

[Calida]

"Our New patterns will bring new results." I love that!

[melaniewise]

I love that you've brought Audrey into your Company to give her perspective, (from the Female point of view). You guys are so adorable together and I love how you share so much of your self and are not afraid to admit the mistakes you have made in dating, before you met and got together. I would really love to have the opportunity to meet you in person at your retreat in Florida in October. I've had a really difficult time over the last 5 years, (not just in looking for love, but with the loss of my Mother, loss of Family and betrayal by people I thought were my friends, but it turned out they weren't true ones, as they abandoned me when things got tough! I desperately want to turn things around and find true love with someone who can love me for me, warts & all!

[latashabetts]

I believe In the healing together process. I’m currently in my healing process and although not quite healed I’m aware of my “stuff”. Just Saturday I told the guy I’m seeing that I’m feeling needy. He asked why. I told him

Honestly my feelings are growing more for you and it's scary to me cause idk if the neediness is coming from trying to scare you away or if I just want you to make me feel better and secure in my feelings. Deep I know And even scary to say/text it. Needless to say, he’s pulled away from me. I have to keep telling myself I did nothing wrong for speaking my truth, I didn’t blame him or make him wrong imo. So idk what is going on.

[oambitiousone]

I thought I found someone else who was in my spot, and we could help each other heal. He was everything I’ve hoped for and never quite found, but then he became controlling. As I was trying to work through my stuff, he got more and more distant and dumped me suddenly. So what I thought was a deep, genuine connection and mutual healing was love bombing, devaluation and discarding.

[MT.]

I so needed to hear this message today...ThankYou !!!

[pippa]

This means so much to me. What a terrific and gentle message. Thank you

[MBR]

Recently came out of a 10yr relationship... Heart breaking as it was, wondering why the person I truly loved... One day decided they no longer loved
Had some idea something was wrong.... Took me several months to get the truth.... My person was prepared to live a lie further down the
I walked from that environment which I wasn't comfortable with....

Im no perfect person by any means .... Now a few months have past.... I have to take ownership of what I let slip within relationship...

Can't turn back time....but I can improve on the person I was ...by becoming the best version of myself.... Everyday it's one step

[proudcommulist]

How I see it is if you're sabotaging a relationship what about that person makes you want to recreate your traumas?