Some people you have to let go #mindset #love #partner #dating

Some people you have to let go.

[rufomco]

In Spain we have this saying:
"You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped"

[RobinA.Vincent]

Thank you it felt great to hear these words. Amen and Hallelujah.

[Vw]

💯 % true, learn to know when to hold them when to drop them or when to walk away. 😊

[PrettyMamaPatchwork]

Been there. Im now alone and I know it is for the best and for my sanity and health.

[Alexandriaslife]

This resonates with me. Great advice! Thank you

[adab]

I just came to this same realisation at this very moment about someone, it blows me away how much some ppl suck and they dont even care that they suck this much😂there is a lesson for me in this too though - i'm also being lazy about changing something in myself, avoiding the work, and therefore asking for my fair share where there isnt any. ❤

[emeraldchat]

Some people resist change, and no amount of effort can make them want to grow. Accepting this allows you to move on and find peace

[lesleysze]

It's not our responsibility to save those who refuse to grow. Not that we don't want to, but it's just impossible.

[jy_]

Exactly…
It doesn't matter how much rehab or help someone gets. You can't recover until you know what your recovering from. That's always the first step, then comes the plan of action and commitment to pull through beyond self-doubt. It is a self-service life, our growth and wisdom is in our hands. If you want change do something about it else stfu. I say it with much love and respect because we are all a work in progress and fighting our own battles.

[tericollier]

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~ I've seen this. He was unwilling to face his past pain. He keeps things on the surface.

[HeliPlanter]

Especially after being put through so much and they still do not care. It is best to move on.

[acek.]

I think the key here that's difficult to accept is that they NEVER come around. It's not that they're being difficult right now, it's that you have to realize that they always will be.

[sararue]

It can destroy you, you have to let them go or you will go down with them

[katatoth]

All my fam is like this. Parents, sibling. They hate me for being the black sheep and trying to talk about things.. I can't communicate with them at all. It hurts af

[kathleenharvey]

Even if it is a daughter or son. Not just a potential partner.

[Jose-cjw]

In America we say you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink it

[elmahyrakanayori]

I even dont have to let go anyone coz i only with yutub whole time 😅.. yaaa i jelouse i want to able to let go if i have one too.

[madhurmotwani]

what about people who have done the work and just want to talk things out? This almost looks like gaslighting to me.