Mean Girls Suck! Tips for Dealing With Relational Aggression.

🤔 ⁉️Want to know a little secret? Mean girls, suck!
⁉️And the thing is, the term ‘mean girl’ actually applies to females at any age.

Female rivalry is boundless. It can happen to anyone, anywhere and frequently starts at a very young age. It’s unbiased, doesn’t discriminate, and no age, culture or demographic is off limits. A formal name for this sneaky type of mean girl behavior is called, ‘relational aggression.’

It’s a type of behavior where feeling can be expressed without bringing a lot of attention to oneself because it’s typically passive aggressive in nature.

📘The vlog, “Mean Girls Suck: Tips For Dealing With Relational Aggression” unveils what mean girl behavior looks like, and shares tips about how to address the ugly behavior if you’re dealing with one.

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[lovelylisa-twkg]

I walked away. It was the only thing i could do. I went to therapy too because as a highly sensitive person it impacted me much more severely.

[amyj.]

Alot of adult ass children, behave like this. I catch receipts on everything

[patriciafry]

Building your own support group helps. Not engaging with the “popular girls” also helps. Btw, these are not “lovely girls”.

[maroonpilgrim]

I am in a group situation. In the end, in a calm, confident non aggressive way, I simply called out the behaviour and said "we've got to stop being mean to each other"

[littleboo]

I have 9 sisters and a core group of them do exactly this. If we don't all agree with their outlooks on every subject and area of life, we are bullied into changing our rhetoric. If that doesn't work, the next step is small comments to belittle our views. They use the term 'we' if I'm having a disagreement with one of them as a way of making me feel like I'm on my own and I'm the one in the wrong because the masses all agree with her. When none of that works... full on accusations that are fealty hurtful and just plain lies but said with so much conviction they are generally believed or at least not called out by others because they don't want the spotlight to land on them! They will NEVER apologise, NEVER back down and only get more aggressive the more you try and get them to understand your views. It's exhausting and damaging. I can only remove myself from them and hope that the others in my family (9 brothers) see the truth. Counselling has really helped me to see these patterns.

[omearak]

I honestly struggle with this behavior so much because I always give people the benefit of the doubt and I know people can put their “foot in their mouth” and say the wrong thing so I always dismiss it and then I don’t know if I’m being too sensitive for something being said or what to say since often the conversation moves forward so quickly after the “off” comment. I wish I was more skilled to know when to speak up and how to speak up.

[cheescakeluv]

I had situations like this through all my life but only a few years ago I learned the term to name this. Honestly atm I think I may be on my way to another situation with relational aggression from a person in my circle and the worst part is that even though I know what it is i still second guess myself and assume it’s nothing until *bam* some comment happens and I freeze not knowing how to react. I think a big struggle, at least for me, is knowing when something is actually an agression and when it is just me reading to much into it :(

[doctorberkowitz]

Laugh at them when they start acting up. They realize how pathetic their behavior is and stop. They'll start again later. Laugh at them again.