A checklist of questions to ask yourself before you break up! #dating #relationships #breakup

[raydaveed]

Basically "are you the problem" ? 😂

[thebeamli]

Sometimes it's not about asking what you can do to fix it because you just know it's time to let go.

[DaigurenXHyourinmaru]

This was literally 12 hours too late...

[angelkat]

He didn’t want to do any of this. He dumped me out of the blue with a list of reasons he had been secretly building up throughout our entire relationship. I had no idea I was “losing points.” I would ask how he felt and he just blamed work for his stress. All his reasons were things he assumed I was THINKING and it stressed him out. If he would have just told me I could have debunked every single one, with proof. But I couldn’t read his mind. So now I’m single and starting over.

[hoghs]

Forget all this and go with your gut and your heart. You always know the answer don’t play games like this. Be honest with yourself about it you don’t need to ask these questions you already know the answer.

[anon]

Daamn dude you're good. Thank you soo much. I feel 100% less terrible and hopeless rn than a minute ago

[ZPhantom-kcti]

I think this just saved my relationship, thank you and have a great day!

[RaquelRavage]

sigh it only works if they ask themselves the questions...it sucks for those of us who didnt want it to end and were just...thrown to the wolves

[cassieng]

Would be nice if the list of questions was listed out on the screen :)

[mcmag]

Only half of these things are things I am capable of really controlling for myself, so I figure the only relationship I can count on is the one I have with myself, if anything else is draining my healthy relationship with self, then it’s time to go.

[Zorriel]

I wish there were subtitles cause im trying to watch this without earbuds to not let him hear

[javiersds]

Have you tried making an effort to solve the problems in your relationship? Or are you running away at the first sign of trouble?

[teddy.rose.]

What if everything is great but you dont feel physically attracted? And i dont need to hear the 'there must be some psychological issue that is coloring the perceived lack of attraction' No. I dont have attraction physically but love the person so much. The worst.

[gasstationchickensandwich]

My family all hate who I'm dating, I feel horrible that I might be losing the feeling of love for them. I haven't felt a spark for them in a long time, I've just sort of been a blank-slate or empty canvas for a while, I don't feel like I have those feelings anymore, and it makes me feel bad. I dont want to leave them; they were there for me through so much, but at the same time, I don't feel the connection we once had. I feel like its my fault, I know we're constantly changing, and it happens, but I don't wanna let them go, so it just is an evergrowing spiral of an on and off relationship. They want attention when I can't give it due to family, and I want attention when they also can't give it.

Any sort of advice?

[HeavyMetalCowboy]

I just don’t want to be with her. She’s great. Just not for me. I knew going in she wasn’t my type, but I tried it out for 6 months. She’s in love and I’m not. It’s time to call it off.

[aletiscareno]

The most important thing is to ask yourself "do I want with all my heart and gut to be in this relationship? Is it what I want? Am I happy?" And then move on to this questions on the short

[iiiiiiigggg]

Sometimes people run to their family and that makes it so much worse, sometimes you just need to grow up on your own and not depend on anyone to make decisions for you, their opinion is bias and of course they'll always be on your side just to tell you red flags that you already know are there or worse they'll amplify them up so that you go to your partner more upset about a conversation that happened that they don't even know about

[ariellaxsteele]

That was a load of questions in a short time

[TheAverageGamr]

Wish my (ex)wife saw this while I was depressed..

[rays-gay]

When it comes to relationships it's always guys and heart over brains unless it becomes abusive and neglectful