THE TRUTH NOBOBY TELLS YOU ABOUT LIVING ALONE

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[stellakiin-kabari]

Living alone has made me a planner.... I can plan how to spend a certain amount in a week and trust me, except for emergencies, that’s exactly Wah I’ll spend that week. Living alone has made me realize I’m not really a going out person, I love my company so I’d rather stay at home than go for an outing I’m not sure will be fun

[tobiasmedia]

Game on gonna end like that? (Director)
Skinny girl in transit too? (Producer)
Wow! Worked for a company for almost 7years. Greatness 💙

[e.m.a.]

Living alone has made me see me. I know me more. It’s no more seeing myself through the lens of others but seeing me through my own lens. I know that ok for example neutral colors are best for my nails, I know my character more, learnt how to manage my space without shutting my family out and the list goes on. I never saw me but the people around me. Now I get to acknowledge myself and celebrate my wins no matter how tiny they are!

[komolafeboluwatife]

The most scary thing about watching your vlogs is how much we are similar 🥺🥺
Imagine being lonely but you still push people away cos they don’t meet that standard you have set😒

[growwithstephanie]

I learnt to talk to myself a lot, since i started living alone

[dammyschannel]

Living alone makes you have time to think, analyze and work towards it without distractions from others

[Funmi_Richards]

You've left Ndani, whoa. We are going to miss you but I wish you the best in whatever you've decided to do next. Love & light

[oritsegee]

I love living alone, really do. I'm single and will need to learn to adjust to accommodate my man, but living alone is amazing! Positives include the space to become self aware, more confident and prioritising my needs. The only negative is that I can be a bit selfish and impatient when it comes to my space, however the good thing is that I can be intentional about working on that. I have decided that even after marriage I will have occasional (semi annual?) weekend staycations by myself. Hopefully hubby will like that idea 😀

All the best in your future endeavours Abimbola ❤️

[otofunmi_lola]

Living alone is peaceful, makes you live more intentional, creates more self awareness. Good to hear from you after a while ❤️❤️❤️

[oyindamolaalao]

Living alone is stress less abeg it's one thing m proud about... Left ndani is touching but the fact that it's important to prioritize your mental health means a lot, I really wish I had your courage. I want to leave my job but sis, I still need their money and I am not certain of what the future holds so I just stay with the sad and depressing job and tell my mental health sorry once a while.

Now let's address the part of you changing things abeg who do you give the former stuffs? Send it to people like us too I also live alone o(help us with the stuffs u don't want na)

[emmanuelaagbikimi]

Loving alone is the best thing that has ever happened to me

[misst]

Living alone is absolutely amazing, expensive but amazing and I’ll take the expense and peace of mind it comes with, I love that I can cook dance sing and do absolutely everything naked 😂. I like my things arranged a certain way so I love that I’m alone and be sure to meet something exactly the way I left it. Just amazed how much I’ve been able to work on my self and I am extremely happy, I even started working out!! .I want a man though, an awesome one, someone to spoil with all these plenty love in my heart and so much more!🙏🏼

[VanAddae]

lil sis in my head. Such a great video, even us married people you have to be ok being alone and doing things by yourself sometimes. Great tips you shared. I so feel you on the giving. Just this morning I remembered someone I had always given to and not one time did she do anything. I was able to finally say in the past year or 2 to say no. Its draining!!And you left Ndani? That's the shocker BUT it's a shame cos you'll be missed. Such a great asset you were to them and I know they wont realise it till now that you're gone. Been offline too long but wishing you all the best in the next chapter. You'll do so great!!!😘😘😘

[Opeyemijobi]

Abimbola left Ndani! That was heavy to hear but I wish you all the best 🤗🤗

[Mystyjoy]

I can relate on the loneliness aspect since I live alone... I tend to read, watch comedy on YouTube, Netflix and travel a lot...

[ayindeabimbola]

Wow. This is great. I can relate...like...namesake, are you my twin? Living alone gives peace, you have your time planned out, your money, time, I can sing, dance in the shower, cook whatever, eat whatever, no one poking hand in my eye and space, no bad views or derogatory remarks.
I have to leave alone again before tying the knot abeg.
The experience is awesome... But then it can get boring sometimes, and when you are slacking, there'll be no one to talk sense into your head except you.

[gloriaokoh]

I can so relate to Abimbola Craig almost all the time🤦. She's definitely my senior or (mentor) as she's obviously way ahead of me but really it's so weird. I never pray to be like anybody but I definitely have a lot to learn from her. I so understand what you mean by "your person" "loving family more now" "loneliness" "knowing yourself more" "taking yourself out" "getting too set in your ways" I'm scared watching these videos. I really pray my life gets more structure and I'm willing to work towards that. I know I need to meet amazing new ppl tho. And I would love some community. But I guess I'm still very much in the Workin on myself first stage. Pheww I've talked too much. Btw I love you very much Abimbola Craig. Hah I'm scared of listening. Giving yourself away and then learning from experience. Recently l learnt to prioritize my wellness. I recently lost most of my friends because I felt I was giving too much and not letting myself be happy. And you know what you say about being a hard guy or being to comfortable to let someone in. My friends always say "Girl I wonder the kind of man you'll end up with" "oh I can't wait to see who you'll end up with" and all of that makes me feel very uncomfortable. I kinda feel like you are alrdy in the future so just tell me how to get past this phase I'm tired.
I'm also learning to reach out to my annoying friends sometimes (I don't think it's of much help tho). Infact maybe what I need to be ur twin is having being truly discipline in my decisions and probably getting myself into something I'm into. Nice video Ms Craig I loved it.
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[celestetankou]

For me I enjoy leaving by myself I think mostly because I’m an introvert and never really do feel lonely...I guess no more sgit then wish you the best on whatever’s next

[udemeasian]

I recently started living alone too and I’ve been documenting my journey. I can relate to everything you mentioned❤️❤️❤️

[charisse.c]

I am happy that you have used this time to come into your own. Good luck on your journey to peace and contentedness.

I've lived alone for many years. It can be expensive as other commenters have mentioned, but I like to be one with my thoughts, have quiet time to reflect, listen to my own music and have an overall peaceful atmosphere. It has its benefits.