Husband refused to forgive me because of a misunderstanding and divorced me. Nine years later, he...

Husband refused to forgive me because of a misunderstanding and divorced me. Nine years later, he found out the truth and showed up at my doorstep.

#redditrelationship #redditupdate -------------------------------------
♪ Tears (Prod. by MX Audio Library)
Licence: Creative Commons Attribution licence (reuse allowed)
------------------------------------- --------------------------------------
Disclaimer:
These stories can be mix of fiction and dramatized accounts inspired by events that may occur in real-life. They are meant solely for entertainment purposes and should not be taken literally or considered factual. We do not recommend taking these stories seriously or using them as guidance for real-life decisions.
--------------------------------------

[oceanspace]

The fact that people in the reddit comments were saying OP was still into Nick is WILD. Like how many times/ways does OP need to prove that she is NOT into the creep?

[lrdapophis]

Something's not right here. So he just left...and had divorce papers drawn up without even trying to talk to her? Nah, he was looking for an out the entire time

[msepiphqny]

I've seen this one, the amount of replies defending Nick, saying OP was probably going to cheat, she still had feelings, blah blah blah were ridiculous. I don't know how anyone can see her in the wrong for being happy and moving on.

[LoudAngryJerk]

"he doesn't seem psycho"

He:
-showed up at her house unannounced
-ignored the fact that she's married
-ignored her telling him she's not interested
-ignored her telling him to leave
-offered to adopt the daughter of her living husband
-divorced her without looking for *any* details

This👏man👏is👏NUTS


HOMEGIRL needs to look into another place to live with her family *at the very least*

[MrTStat]

it is quite possible that he was trying to bait her into cheating only to expose her later and vindicate himself

[chessieray]

How is healing for a whole year and waiting to text your future husband jumping from one relationship to the next? Those naysayers are stupid.

[sparrowflyaway]

the nerve of the guy saying OP "made a mockery" of his apology, after he himself made a mockery of their marriage and OP. Also, that wasn't just a mere apology, that was him trying to get back together with OP like those nine years apart never happened, and OP simply showed him proof why that was impossible.

[bgcno]

Story 1. Nick is a comtrol freak. I also believe he was projecting by assuming she was cheating because thats what he was doing.

[نيشا-دم]

The fact that people are saying that she jumped into a relationship too fast is crazy. She actively worked herself for a whole year, & then decided to get into a relationship. I find it ironic that people find it normal to cry & mop over a person for more than a year. That’s not healthy. Working on yourself is the most healthiest thing you can do instead of putting another person on a pedestal. She let this guy have no power over her nor did she have him on a pedestal, which is why she was able to focus on herself & get over him within a year. That/This is exactly what other people need to do instead of moping over someone who left them.

[DragonNyah]

It is so funny going from a post about a man who got cheated on to a post of a woman who got falsely accused of cheating bc it doesn't matter who's actually in the right, there will ALWAYS be people hating on the woman. Truly a Reddit experience

[JenniferDawe]

I don't think he ever thought she was cheating with Joe. I think he saw a way out to go be a dirtbag and took it, and expected her to be so confused and emotionally devastated that would be an open door forever when he was done being with other people.

[xSoLoDx]

I bet in his eyes he is not delusional but confident.

[igotmyapplejuice]

Nick the type of guy who would call himself a nice and upstanding guy only to flip a switch the second someone says no he becomes an aggressive stalker

[monicasalyer]

Chris is the one who's in danger since Nick thinks he's "just an obstacle".

OP needs to stop being such a PollyAnna and wake the f up. Her ex-husband is not just a narcissist. He's psychotic, and a dangerous one.

[memez_r_life]

How in the heck did redditors think that OP still wanted to be with Nick?! She described an 'instant spark' with Chris and said she never felt happier?!

[sariagrey]

So, they were all friends before. And this dude was still butthurt and jealous when she talked to him even when she left Joe for Nick. This man is a delusional. And that she managed to build a meaningful marriage and have a family and he's so desperate that he comes crawling back for his ex after 9 whole years says A LOT. I bet no other woman was willing to put up with him.

[cameoshadowness]

THE FACT THAT THE SUPPOSED FRIEND GAVE OUT THE ADDRESS TO SOMEONE WHO STRAIGHT UP ABANDONED HER?! Like What the fuck? This isn't something you simply forget about!

[summerglace]

Girl, you ought to move anyways. Canada isn’t very far from the US (assuming that’s where OP lives) you can easily drive or get a short flight. I’d be super worried for your hubby. What Nick wrote in that text about Chris just being “Another obstacle, ” was practically a threat and kind of an unhinged thing to say. And, Nick doesn’t seem all that patient, or mentally sound.

He might come to the conclusion that perhaps removing “The obstacle, ” between you might speed up your returning to him. He has it in his head that OPs in love with him, and that they’re being kept apart by OPs hubby, that’s a very dangerous line of thought…

[wafflestoast]

Glad op cut off that friend. What she did was outright dangerous. Shes never give out her own address like that, shes not forgetfull, she doesnt care about anybody but herself. And its not her first time too.

If the ex was even a little but more daranged, this couldve ended very differently.

[parthcosic]

Personally I think she dodged a bullet, wouldn't want to live with someone that reacts like that