I’m being forced to leave Ghana

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[marilynnward]

I have 5 suggestions for you. (1) Sell your things in storage. (2) Inform your brother that you must reduce expenditures and that he is only to call once or twice a month for 10 minutes each. (Can you rent your building out in Texas? If so, do so immediately. (4) Let your daughters know that you are on a budget and you will no longer be able to afford their high expenses. (5) Put all your expenditures in writing and then speak with a professional financial manager. Remember you have earned your place in life and everyone else must learn to earn theirs.

[thinkingabmel]

hiii daddy !! this is your 14 year old daughter😂. i 100% understand and i feel for you a lot because you have to take care of me and on top of that a 24 year old who DOESN’T LISTEN😤. i don’t want to move to ghana because that’s such a big change for me. i am also willing to move to ghana because i know me living here is a part of the reason my father can’t enjoy himself in his dream home and that really gets to me. so if i have to go i’ll go, but i wouldn’t be the same. i’m praying that whatever happens, things work out for everyone involved in this.

[pamela]

Sell everything that you have in storage that you are not going to need and you can put those storage fees to better use.

Tell your brother to call you once a month or he can write you letters.

Tell your daughter that she will have to come and live with you in Ghana because its too expensive where she is. She's a minor and the decision as to where she is to live should be yours. I know that you want her to be happy but she needs to understand that Ghana is home for you and when she turns 18 she can decide where she wants to live and work.

[pamela]

Amelio, I have two grown sons. I had to put them out due to their lifestyle when they were 20 and 22 years of age. They are now 26 and 32. I gave them everything they needed and wanted when they were home with me. They've been living on their own since then, struggling, but they're making it.

I said all of that to tell you that you have done what you needed to do for your children, they are adults; except for your 14 year old. The other 3 need to work and help themselves, that way they will know the value of a dollar instead of asking you for money.

Me personally, I had to cut my sons off from asking me for money because I was their crutch to lean on, but I had to show tough love and constantly pray for them and ask Jehovah God to watch over them.

I hope this helps and I'm praying for you and your family. ✌🏽❤️🙏🏽

[mskimjackson]

I’m in Houston if you need help with getting your issues together in Huntsville… I will be visiting Ghana in August looking to relocate soon… praying for you brother… I learned my lesson don’t put yourself on the back burner… put you first hun

[HughJass-]

My man a prisoner of all his possessions....
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[pamela]

My condolences to you and your daughter on the loss of her mother. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[kwesiassabere]

Consider renting out your Ghana home whilst you are away depending on how long you will be away for. It is a good idea not to leave the house unattended. Good luck to you.

[africarizn]

As an African here in Africa, having lived in the States, you've done one "excellent" thing that I luv, you started your house in Ghana, we all knows America is all about "Bills" and they never stop coming, when you get back to the states, try and make some money, give yourself about a year, and try and get the house completed while the dollar is still strong.I haven't seen the videos of your house, but I can tell you, you have so many money making options once the house is completed. Just let the kids, brother and the rest of the fam know your only staying and busting your behind for a year to finish your project...so ma brother, you still in the game, don't give up, don't throw in the towel, this is a plan for the rest of your life, in Africa you got no mortgages, car payments and at this stage in your life you don't need any of that stress....stay strong💪 ma brothe
r, you know deep in your heart Africa's where your heart is.

[talishak]

If all those stored items have been untouched for 7 years you don't need it. Write your brother some emails & letters let him no the phone bill is overwhelming. You are the boss not the 14 yr old she will kick & scream, miss friends then grow to love it like we all do😂. All the rest of the grown folks need to put on notice that you're putting you first.

[Roy_MO]

There is something about Africa that when an African American gets there it feels different, it takes people with deep spiritual connections to understand this! Wishing all the best 🙏🏽

[shell]

Tough spot brother, family is important and fathers are one of the most important parts. Sorry to hear about the issues but you have a lot going for yourself, you should proud. Passive income, property that you own, no bills. You’re where most of us who feel trapped, wish they could be. Even if you can’t balance your family expenses and need to go back for a short time it’s not an defeat. You still have the pathway you’ve built available anytime your want. Good luck and well done.

[QuiltJoy]

😂 this is not hard to me. 1. Move your daughter to Ghana, 2. Stop taking calls from your brother until you can afford the calls. Tell your brother you won’t be able to receive any calls for a year and then block him. Also tell him you guys can write letters to each other. If he doesn’t like it, move on with your decisions and be happy. Don’t let people run your life. Be the captain of your ship. Man up!

[bornflytv]

It will work out 4 u bro. Stay focused and keep grinding. Hopefully we can link up when u get back 2 Ghana. I'm a brother from Minnesota

[queennefertiti]

Brother glad you had the courage to leave the US to Ghana. You are actually living my dream. I wish you the best in your situation and may God continue to look after you and guide you. 🙏🏿🙏🏿

[matmat]

Brother my advice is don't go back to the state you will regret it ! I made the same mistake, I'm from UK moved to the state texas San Antonio in 2013 also lived in Boston Massachusetts I was working and happy making better living but becoming my kids from previous relationship I ended I was forced to come back. But remember kids got their own lives, this might sound mean to any parent, but when kid reaches certain age they won't have time for you, kids in theses countries takes friends more important than family and they won't have time for you after you but friends come firt. And for you will be already left evening you built because of them, I'm in the same situation like you. Do not make the same mistake like I did.

[MsPrice-pnpy]

*If you have to buy stuff, to store your stuff, maybe you have too much stuff! A professional organizer wrote this last week! Very much an eye opening moment* ❤

[ServingtoLiveYah]

Brother I've lived in Ghana for 3 years now. My suggestion is sale everything(Like I did in U.S) and focus on building here. I made a very good salary, big home and to very nice cars(All of wish was still on credit). Then after 5 years get your dual citizenship and move on. As far as family again offer them to stay in Ghana, but let them know (accept for your underage daughter) the rest of your family they must grow up and longer stress you over funds, because you are trying to build something here(Africa) for the generations to come. If they need help you can help finance them if they bring what they have and come to Africa and help you on this mission. That's what I did and I advice you to do also. Yes my home is 90% built and my businesses are doing fine. I hope this help because you will have to let Erica(America) go, because she is like sponge and will continue to suck up all your funds. Also call your brother on what's app on your Ghana phone. If he don't have what's app then demand he get it to save you money.

[MariposaMaat]

I lived in Ghana for 10 years and I understand how you feel. I had to return in 2010 due to family issues. Now i am living in Mexico. Praying that God will guide you to your best outcome.

[BragseAfrica]

I feel you fam, going through that right now I had to get back to America to get some bread. It's stressful, comes with a lot of anxiety especially seeing how those who stay in Africa are doing but in the end everything Gon work out