What Are The Signs of Codependency?

The disempowered codependent is overly dependent, they unrealistically expect to be taken care of at all times. They give themselves and their power away to others in the hope that someone will notice them. It is an exchange, but it is manipulative.

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[WTZ]

Boundaries are so essential when recovering from codependency and believing that no other person gets to define your worth except for you.

[antiracism]

Damn I realized recently at the age of 30 that all my life I had a major codependency issue. It ruined all my relationships, friendships, and family ties due to this. First step is to recognized.

[jacqueline]

My parents think I am supposed to tell them everything. And they WhatsApp me everyday telling me play by play what coffee shop they are in etc... and any argument or financial problem between my parents was always dumped on me ....from the age of 7. My dad says like "they are the parents" and they gave me amazing Christmases etc....despite the emotional abuse and mind games I wouldn't dare say how it affected me. They actually shout at me if I try boundaries....It's too late now. They are old. There's no point.

[akkshayadwivedi]

That's me sir. I have started saying a no, I can still not say a no at some places.

[catherineband]

Thank you for your question. In the dysfunctional cycle of the codependent and partner, I became controlling . It was a cycle in which i no longer participate.

[jamfean]

How to cope up i used to stand up on my self . I gave my power away

[catherineband]

This is interesting to me. When the concept of codependency was brought into the mainstream in the 80s with the book, Women who love too much. The concept expanded. We then started to invest more time into cour own interests, we became falsely empowered. It's like a n evolution to interdependence, the goal.

[couldbe]

I had trouble understanding this clearly.

[dmknight]

That is not what they mean by having poor boundaries. You need to get a different book maybe? Whatever it is you’re drawing examples from us just completely wrong. Their poor boundaries are then being unable to draw lines for people taking advantage of them. It doesn’t mean that they guilt trip you. That’s just ridiculous. It sounds like you got hurt by a narcissist and you’re just desperately trying to find anything to relate to. You’re angry. Try starting with narcissism. I think that’s what you’re actually looking for.

[toxic_city]

Is it wrong? To be this way? To NEVER say no? To do whatever they say? To want them to love you? To notice you too? To see you try to be an angel, in ALL that you do? That for them you'd go to the ends of the earth. 🌎 & you KNOW nobody wants to do it for you, & that's why it hurts. 💔