Is there any truth to men being “intimidated” by a women’s money? 👀

[hisforevereva]

You know what though? There is a difference between having things in order for yourself and having things in order for a relationship. You can have your life in order to live a single bachelor/bachelorette lifestyle. You have to bring other qualities to a relationship. Both men and women need to bring honesty, loyalty, consideration, vulnerability, communication, integrity, humility, healing, problem-solving, team-building mindset, etc. So many people are not ready to be in relationship with another person and that needs to be realized, understood, and dealt with.

[scienceandengineeringU]

Sometimes what a man calls attitude is not tolerating disrespect

[sashawd]

Some men don't offer anything but their wallet. They don't offer respect, emotional support, true partnership, and emotional peace.

[ryanleonardpaul]

We should all be striving to be our best selves and not expecting people out here to take us as we are.

[fatimahda]

Yeah...its the attitude and energy. And they are intimidated by the money cause they have no way of controlling or impressing her.

[spiritthest]

SPEAK THE TRUTH BROTHER.
FOR 20 YEARS I CARRIED THE FAMILY FINANCIALLY
ONCE HER MONEY GOT BIGGER THAN MINE, THINGS GRADUALLY CHANGED.

[Iyaleta]

Nah. Some men are simply insecure, and that feeds their intimidation. If a man is turned off, he's likely not intimidated. The woman's just not his cup of tea.

[sherrijeffries]

People who “have their lives together” have cultivated a quality of life for one person. Themselves. The focus has only been their own needs, likes, and dislikes. Sometimes it’s selfish but sometimes it’s due to habits.

My husband gets up at 3am for work. He was used to settling down for bed in a quiet house with all of the lights off. When we first got married he’d get out of the shower and walk through the house checking doors and turning off lights. I can’t tell you how many times he had shut down the house with me still fully awake and needing to do things for another few minutes to an hour. I used to be annoyed because I had lived in my own home running my own lifestyle for many years. He didn’t like for me to get back out of bed once he fell asleep so I learned to adjust everything that I needed to do in the evening around his timetable and shut down with him, because that made him comfortable.

It helps to learn to make adjustments in a considerable, respectful manner. The Bible tells us to put the other person first. Consider the other person higher than you. You can’t go wrong if both people do that.

[TawandaVance]

Some men are intimidated and some aren't. I don't know why people act like multiple truths can't exist in the same space. I've seen the type of attitude he's speaking of, I've seen arrogant people that only had money regardless of sex.

[kayjeffs]

Fellas, you all have to understand that women with money need you for the things that money can't buy...so just because a woman has her own money doesn't mean you aren't needed. Its just like the guy said, men feel like that about women with money because they know that's all they can provide for her.

[MaroonTiger]

Ace hit it on the mark… MOST men arent willing to accept the relationship dynamic if they arent the breadwinner… period

[landrat]

Agree with Ace and let's be honest most people do not have their lives all the way together ( financially, mentally, spiritually, emotionally..etc). Like If they're financially stable they are probably lacking in one of those other areas.A person can have financial overload and be crazy as heck..smh...🤷... I think it's very rare to find a man or woman that has " their life in order". It may appear that they have it all together, most have mastered how to look together/ confident to others but really unstable as heck behind closed doors.

[conscious]

A person who has their life in order has options and doesn't have to deal with anything they're not comfortable with and there's no exceptions

[KessO]

I’m independent asf. N i have yet to see a man get “turned off” by the boss chic mentality. These are broke nicca convos 🙄😒

[Zhane-cenj]

They don't want independent women, but they don't want gold diggers either. It just sounds like they don't want to provide at all, and if they do they want to provide very little.

[JourneyToAUnknownPlace]

The last portion about the woman having money means nothing. Because socially the man is still expected to be the provider whether the woman has her own money or not. So his money is always relevant

[kironkurlz]

Key statement: Men who have their lives in order


But the ones who don’t are always whining about something.

[JulindaLeDee]

I dated a man that was used to people needing him. I had my own and wanted him. He couldn't get it because he had nothing else to offer, including limited conversion.

[JiceJohnson]

There is an assumption that a “boss babe” has a poor attitude. Thanks to the Kevin Samuels of the world I’ve had men immediately turn the other way as soon as I say I’m an entrepreneur without ever getting to know me because they believe I’m going to have a shitty attitude off jump

[iriemo]

Naww, some men are legitimately intimidated because they DONT have themselves in order and they should be.
What weak men call “boss bae” attitude is many times simply a woman who is secure and can take care of her own needs and more. That gets villainized and trumped up into something negative ie: boss naw energy.