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[jason]

I'll never understand why nice guys and nice girls don't just date each other

[CrimsoniteSP]

I remember when I called myself a nice guy... before I knew what it meant in the online space. Now I have to call myself a polite fellow.

[felixmustdie]

god i hate when niceguys refer to women as "females". for me, it personally feels like im being reduced down to my sex characteristics which is really weird

[abbelktheunoreversecard]

3:52 I just searched it up and according to the search results calling a woman a female is to refer only to their reproductive role (receiving seminal fluid from the male and then carrying and giving birth to the child) and that is objectifying women to be only for reproduction, hence why it sounds so creepy. Although I do find it to be okay to call someone male or female simply to refer to their gender (as long as that person identifies as either one), it should be used with caution (eg. saying "I talked with one of my female coworkers about equal pay." and saying "I saw a female walking down that street earlier." has two very different tones as one sounds fairly normal while the other sounds weird and/or creepy).

[noodledoodlez]

13:09 PTA - As a female, I think he could've like just taken her to her own home instead? I don't think he fully did what was wrong in looking out for her safety from Alex, but taking her to his home and putting her in his bed was the bad idea. She's drunk and has no idea that you didn't do something to her in her sleep, and she can't trust you anyway since you overstepped the boundary.

[thnkyufrthvenm]

psa to everyone saying first: the first comment said “pancakes”. you’re not special.

[Mr_Heron]

There should be Badguys and Badgirls that are actually nice people

[msthecommentator]

I dated a "nice guy" once, should have known I was in trouble when his friend had to approach me since he couldn't work up the nerve. I thought it was kind of sweet, so I gave him a chance. He was the most indecisive, unmotivated person I've ever had the displeasure of knowing. I don't think the guy should be the one to plan all the dates, but he literally couldn't muster a single thought on what to do or where to go on our days out together. He verbally fought with me over the most mundane crap and had such a pessimistic attitude over minor inconveniences. Finally got fed up when he started pressuring me for s*x...not because we weren't having it, we weren't having it *enough* for his liking. So glad he broke up with me because I was so ready to jump ship, and now I'm married to the most lovely woman in the world ❤ Genuinely hope he's left his apartment since we last talked

[Impulse]

12:20 What I don't get here is: Assuming the guy is right, and the other dude had bad intentions, why take the girl to his own dorm? Why the hell he didn't just take her to her place and then leave? That's quite creepy, to be honest.

[markthomson]

Normal ppl: kindness is its own reward
Nice guys: i was nice you owe me!

[-Apteryx-]

Been feeling really depressed but I've found that watching emkay is a really good distraction (and yes I am trying to improve my mental health in other ways)

[jasperjazzie]

11:50 this dude's logic is "i thought she was in danger, so i decided to become the danger"

[Crow_Smith]

For taking the drunk girl "out of a bad situation"
Why didn't you take her home? Why did you take her to YOUR dorm.
Y'all were drinking so you weren't on campus ... drive the half hour or w/e to HER place

The fact that you KNEW she wanted to go back to HER place and took her to YOURS is creepy ... especially using that excuse of protecting her. You should've taken her to her house since clearly that's where she wanted to be. So even if the rest of your observation was valid - you're still wrong here.

[delululesbian]

as a former pansexual, a man told me he could make me straight, change me! and he did change me, after that interaction I realised I was a lesbian <3 mwah I hope everyone had a great pride kissies and hugs

[pastel_moth_guts]

Women: scared for physical reasons
Men: scared for legal reasons
Both: scared for mental/psychological reasons

This is merely what I've gathered from both r/NiceGuys and r/NiceGirls, please don't digitally execute me

[treepotato]

bro really wrote and posted a whole essay online about how he kidnapped a woman instead of calling her a taxi/uber like any sane person in the same situation

[sirflimflam]

The whole point in them calling them females is to be dehumanizing.

[Just_a_commenter]

I still can't comprehend the mindset some of these people have.

How can people be this desperate. How can they be so _down bad_ that they gotta clown around like this without a shred of irony in their statements.

Please, someone tell me these people don't exist, it hurts my brain D:

[LyricTheMusicFox]

First one in, if someone has a "monster" they "tame" I'm not dating them because that's the kind of guy to abuse someone

[jisungsbestie]

As a woman I can say it's not that we don't like "nice guys", we just don't like THEM