The Toxic Husband Who 'Punishes' His Wife

Daddy knows best.

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chapters for your viewing pleasure:
0:00 Hello, Sinners!
0:17 Truly has *truly* done it again!
1:36 "I'm 'Punished' If I Break My Husband's Rules"
21:00

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[Tsukini]

Me: Oh, so it's a sex thing.
Her: Neither of us like it.
Me: So, it's not a sex thing?
Post: "...Sub Drop..."
Me: So, it _is_ a sex thing!
Her: The kids know about it.
Me: WHY DO THE KIDS KNOW ABOUT

[unwrittenpaige]

If they didn't have kids it wouldn't bother me so much, but that's bound to screw with a kid's head.

[justaguy.literallyjustaguy]

"Neither of us really enjoy it, but we do it anyway because a book said the other option was divorce" Girl??? Bestie??? Brandy?? Laz?? Someone get these folks a coupon for Couples Therapy

[justrachel]

If she's so sure it's not a kink, why is she talking about experiencing subdrop after their activities? Isn't that an exclusively kink thing?

[zzigzy_]

Why does every wife who claims to like this lifestyle look like she's being held hostage and someone is holding up a sign for her to read

[PinkamenaDianePie]

everytime the wife talks about how much she enjoys this lifestyle she looks like shes being held at gunpoint

[TheGhostieZone]

The person who said she was tring to stay busy to prevent sub drop made me upset. Like girl be with someone who will give you adequate aftercare

[cutaleenamirandeena]

I feel like they read about a Dom/Sub relationship online, got h0rny and did it terribly wrong and way too far

[Flustered_Potato]

The severe lack of mentioning aftercare in this dynamic is alarming.

[lolzraynie]

You can't fool me. This video is just three "Are the straights okay?" videos in a trenchcoat 😂

[Mintzik]

They got the daughter's opinion (which was understandably 'hell no') but were real quick not to interview the boys. What are THEY learning about gendered dynamics and what to 'expect' from any women they may be with in future?

[Magikalic]

It is a kink, it's 24/7 D/s domestic. You can have a D/s relationship without it necessarily being strictly sexual. There's also 1950s household. There are quite a few tradwife influencers who play into the fetish angle of it. It would be 100% cool if they just admitted that it was a kink and not a supposedly sincere effort to replicate "traditional, conservative values."

[kriskross]

I have a request that I haven’t seen enough people look at. Her name is Karissa Collins and she has 11 kids, she’s one of those quiverful people that think god will give them as many children as they want. She exploits her children and has left them in literal DANGER. She left a UTI untreated in her TODDLER that turned septic not once BUT TWICE. She advocated fasting while pregnant, pushes women to have unsafe pregnancies and to keep going when the doctor advises to stop. While her toddler was sick and septic she decided to go TO LUNCH WITH FAMILY before deciding to go to the doctors. She has almost killed her dog before she even had kids. She left wet food in the bowl for TWO WEEKS while she left on vacation, came back and put more wet food on top of the rotting molding maggot filled food. The dog got very sick so she decided it would be best to try and feed it treats and take them on a walk AND NEVER WENT TO THE VET. She has ignored serval concerning symptoms of illness in her children and blames them SINNING on being sick. This is just the TIP of the iceberg. Please do a video on this, she cannot keep getting away with being abusive and neglecting her children. Her 13 year old cannot spell eyes, your, and mommy, and cannot read a children’s book! And she’s homeschooling them!!!

[xSilverEchox]

Biggest thing for me is like: do they have a safe word? Does the wife get a say if things go too far? The wife consented, but does she have the ability to withdraw consent? Those things got to be clearly defined upfront or you're pushing abuse.

[dawn-gktr]

As the man I married ( in 1966 ! ) used to say, " Only an insecure man needs an obedient wife to boost his self esteem. A self assured and strong man wants a partner who he can talk to, work with and walk through life shoulder to shoulder and hip to hip as an intelligent mate. If you want a traditional, subservient wifey, look to your self image . You are not beta, you are bloody omega, " Loved that man.

[Uneclipsed]

This is 100% a kink. Punishment in a D/s dynamic isn’t always supposed to be pleasurable. It’s a form of behavior correction within the dynamic. Consent is the key factor in whether or not it’s abuse, and things should be frequently revisited to make sure everyone is still on board. The one thing I’d say is that it’s NOT okay for their kids to know what’s going on with them. That is where the abuse is.

[samiwilliams]

Coming from someone in the BDSM community: I agree 10000% with the children's involvement or more specifically their knowledge on the subject. Even if the parents aren't imposing these beliefs on them, they are influencing or teaching "this works" and it doesn't for most relationships.
These kids should have 0 clue what's going on and IF they stumble upon it then the parents need to disclose that this isn't what you're gonna expect from normal relationships and we both consent. It should always be hidden from children.

The rest of it I really need more information on how public they do this. Even if they aren't sadists or masochists (it sounds like they arent), the root part of BDSM is the headspace. They are practicing lifestyle/headspace BDSM. If they consent to it, others arent consenting to witness it, pornographic or not. There are quite a few BDSM enjoyers that dont understand this simple rule. It also opens things up to get wellness checks.
The other thing I need more information on is if there's a safe word involved and the ability for both to say: "I'm not comfortable with this, we need to stop and re-evaluate". There are risks to doms as well, not to undermine the higher risk of subs.

They have the right to practice this if both consent and follow the ground rules set ahead of time, but they aren't going about this correctly. I am disturbed by the fact they're bringing gender roles into this, but to each their own...
Just hope they are more safe and private with it. And LEAVE THE KIDS OUT OF IT!!!

Edit to add: these kids don't get to see healthy communication in partners, just that men make rules and women follow.

[TaiyaRivers]

At the pride event in my city, I got a large lesbian fan, and my thought process was "Oh, yay, they have me." Then, "I CAN DO 'WELL HELLO SINNERS *fan* HOW ARE YA??" One of the most exciting moments of my little gay life

[Cbbartelt]

There is a creator on TikTok, who grew up in the kink community where her mom was a sub, and they lived a lifestyle similar to this. She has been bringing a lot of attention to the fact that doing this in front of your children is abuse and it allows really extensive abuse to happen to your children.
And she has been talking about how raising your children in the kink community in a way that they see what’s actually going on in are part of the community is extremely harmful

[lycanycteris]

Little thing but thanks so much for saying "impulsive thoughts", and not "intrusive thoughts". People throw the term "intrusive thoughts" around without understanding that they are a symptom of OCD/other mental illnesses and are upsetting thoughts that cause you anxiety, not just "haha eat leaf" or whatever people are mislabeling it as.