The secret of affection

Money can't buy affection.

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Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.

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[Omieboiforever]

"FROM THE MEN THEY WANT IT FROM!!!"

[aimeegabriel]

My husbands affection is most valuable and doesn’t cost money.
I love when he holds me tight, creating a safe place for me to relax in my “feminine energy”. Priceless

[srikrishnavasanth]

You're getting where it needs to addressed.
Cherishment is what women crave for.
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Maintain basic financial necessities and show affection.
Guys this will filter out goldiggers and bond good women easily.

[alpachinfan]

Which was the video where you mentioned "a women's i love is momentarily and whatever she says is how she feels at the given moment" i forgot the title of that video but its one of your most important videos imo

[miltonb]

And if you give too much affection or give it too early then that sends desperation like we have too much time and energy to give and not enough individualism

[LaniShelby]

I found The Shadow Game of Attraction by Atruve and didn’t think much of it at first. But as I read, I realized how much we are never taught about attraction, influence, and power. It reveals why some men make women chase them effortlessly while others go unnoticed. Once you understand it, there’s no going back. Everything just clicks.

[jeanettebrooks]

Also, it helps for her to know what she needs to make her happy.

[articulateit-andgetwhatyouwant]

Love and intimacy are like flatulence.
If you have to force it, it's probably 💩

[mensaswede]

Earn respect, demonstrate compentance, give affection. In that order.

[kree]

If it costs time and energy, it costs money.

[sigmatomcat]

Affection always costs lots of money. Men have been paying for it for centuries.

[Sarcasmarkus]

Its also energy.
If you know anyone in the neurodivergent world you might have heard of spoon theory.

[TheMasterhomaster]

You left out an extremely important caveat: women want affection from men they’re attracted to, otherwise women label it sexual harassment.

[banksofbarcelona]

The main thing is getting her into your frame and holding that frame. If you can't do that. You won't get as much affection as you would like. Holding Frame is work. We must embrace our burden of performance, and see it as a blessing not a curse so we do not whine like a lil b.

[Trazynn]

Still bizarre how this advice, or its equivalent, is never given to women.

[ronpintx]

*Girl Friend Experience* (GFE) No! -- I want a _First Love Experience_ (FLE) -- I'll bet _that_ would cost a _fortune_ ! :)

[jansenai]

Real Life uee-case: Tom Brady x Giselle Bundchen

[cmleoj]

What do guys offer who have little to no money?

[nixermwyt]

Well... My real life experience says woman wants affection and money from the guy they love.

[margomoore]

Framing "giving affection" as throwing money at "the problem" is highly problematic. If showing affection, the very basic thing of a loving relationship is problematic, there is a much larger issue with the said man.