Redpill Content RUINED Her Relationship?

A girl’s story of losing her boyfriend after he discovered “redpill” content from the likes of Andrew Tate, Fresh N Fit, Pearl Davis, and Sneako has gone viral on TikTok and X. Did these creators really steal her future husband, as she alleges, or does she bear some responsibility for the breakup? Let’s watch and react.

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[andresuaza]

Social media is creating a division among people that has never happened before, my wife and I have NEVER argued in 5 years of marriage, and we were starting to feed on different content on social media, and started to develop some bizarre arguments based on NOTHING. Thus, we understood that these "influencers" are getting into our heads, placing inflammatories ideas that made people just get mad towards each other for no reason. Creating problems just for clicks.

[Thumplewart]

My girl got Femanazi pilled in the middle of our relationship. She started out normal but over time she developed a toxic self entitled attitude where she felt she she should be allowed to do whatever she wanted and I would have to accommodate her because "men historically oppress women". I asked her if I ever oppressed her and she said "that's not the point".

Also suddenly every show I watched became "problematic" and had misogynistic undertones and if i enjoyed the movie or show, even if i watched it just for the plot or world building she would say I was misogynistic for "letting misogyny slide". I'm talking shows like Sabrina, The walking Dead, Firefly, Falling Skies, Supernatural..

Finally had to call it quits when I saw on reddit she was active on a bunch of Feminism subs saying things like "I know my BF is problematic, but I'm working on changing him lol".
As a regular guy that cooked, cleaned, drove her around since she didn't have a car, carried the heavy things like her art supplies, and only ever pushed back on her when she would outright disrespect or disregard me. - I took offense to that!

[ruckusbeblack]

I’m a man. I think anyone stuck on any “community” or “pill” tribalism is lost. However I’ve seen men and masculinity degraded for decades so I understand these young men. Men are not tOxiC and this narrative needs to stop.

[quinnS]

Red Pill makes my relationship stronger because every time I see a video and read through the comments I love my man more and more for not being one of those sheep

[nayiabrooks]

I went on a date with a Red Pill guy and i was so uncomfortable and walked on egg shells the entire time. It was extremely weird. He kept flaunting and talking about his money expecting me to be impressed and when I would try to redirect the conversation he'd get mad and say things like "This the problem with women you want to act like you don't care about my money but I know you do." It was like he was upset that I wouldn't be an easy lay and wasn't living up to the "modern woman" red pill caricature. In the midst of our convo he stated that he wanted to spoil and take care of me and I told him that wouldn/t be necessary and tried to tell him a little about the work I do and he completely shut me up and said "this is why black women dont get married, If i told a white girl I wanted to spoil her, she'd blush/giggle and say thank you. But you want to be a strong black woman." He was so unnecessarily argumentative, he did not care about making me feel safe or comfortable. It was like he invited me out to argue. The date ended with him trying to spend the night with me and me telling him to go spoil one of the white women he's so fond of because he clearly hated all women but especially black women.

[-Aurumn-]

I'm weirded out that she started going with gender neutral pronouns. And I don't think it was because of the breakup.

[offsides..]

Any podcast that has a group of unmarried men or unmarried women giving advice about relationships and marriage should be taken with a grain of salt. Just my 2 cents. I love that you had a neutral take on this topic and were able to objectively see both sides. Great job as always!

[nicolenery]

Red pill in relationships can become an issue depending on the guy. There's good points in red pill...But if your guy comes home asking you to rate yourself, then proceeds to honestly rate you although you never asked, and starts talking about how men are better for this that and the third all while never actually working on or even acknowledging his own shortcomings....this would cause big problems.
Some men take it too far and start to sound very similar to women who think men aint ish and think of themselevs as queens no matter how many faults they have.... They're two sides of the same coin... There are channels out there that give much more mature, balanced and healthy advice to men and women without the hate/disgust of the opposite sex.

[Michael-gdop]

Amala missed another important term the poster used in her description of the events.
She referred to men's issues as useless.
I don't disagree with anything Amala said but it is revealing that this woman believes men's issues are useless. I'd say a lot of women also hold this perspective because I see it in the majority of women.
If her man prior to engaging in red pill content was caring and thoughtful to her, and in return she considered issues that might affect him to be "useless." It's not just her that dodged a bullet.

[taahibbchs]

When my husband started getting into the red pill content. He and I talked it all through and started to look deeper into it together. He still cracks jokes, but he knows that these people aren't people to look up to. That though they have some positive messages, some valid points, some agreeable messages, that doesn't mean they should be idolized. Not everything they say should be taken as gospel.

[kaoruhanawa]

Since many refer to how the girl describe her ex with "they/them", I agree with the point Amala made. I think that's just her way to distance herself from him. I'm guilty of this as I'd refer my ex as "they" when we just broke up... nothing liberal, I just wanted to put as distance as far as possible... it doesn't make any sense tbh but yeah... it made sense for me back then...

[Scottish_Rose]

Same thing happened to my husband. We've been together 23yrs, married 21 and have 4 children. in the past two years he's been consuming this crap...turned him into someone I just could not live with. He became emotionally and mentally abusive as well as financially...we were walking on eggshells 24/7. I fell in love with a man who was the complete opposite of the man I left 7 months ago. I didn't recognise him at all anymore. I didn't feel safe at all with him, I wound up with two autoimmune disorders from the stress, teamed with working 13hr days and him resenting that, but his job was 3 days a week pizza delivery, because he refused to get a regular wage paying job yet wanted to be the breadwinner...I got £25 a week of my own pay check to spend on myself. He controlled the finances entirely. When I left, I had to learn how to manage money. It was ridiculous looking back what I put up with. So long as he keeps this red pill nonsense up, I'm not even looking back his way. They're not safe or stable people these Red pill guys. They hate women and themselves. just sad.

[cjgroove]

If I had friends that believed as Tate does, they would no longer be a friend.

[MaxskiSynths]

"It is never my fault.. it has to be mens fault!!!" Where have I heard this before?

[phily]

"Self sabotaging episodes"

If that means flipping out over nothing then she should be alone. People like that cant seem to understand being in a bad mood isnt an excuse to treat people like crap

[Stargarl]

My ex boyfriend also turned redpill, and I also thought I was gonna spend the rest of my life with him. He changed and I couldn’t imagine living my whole life with somebody who’s emotionally unavailable.

Even worse, he was broke and I was the one who was already earning money since we were both in college, we didn’t leave together though. Him being broke was something I didn’t care for until he started being insecure about the fact that I earned money. One time we spent a week together and I begged for us to go out and when we finally did he was mad the whole way to the date and I gave him my card so he can pay cause I felt bad.

This is something that was never an issue until he started obsessing over gender roles. To make matters worse he wanted to move in but he was gonna drop out of college, I just saw the misery and emotional abuse I’ll endure so I broke up with him.

[Callmeromain]

The fact that she goes online to share her problems with the world is in itself a red flag.

[teeateea]

The part about how people close to you often notice your red flags in your relationship is so real, when you are in love with somebody you can be a little blinded. Once I was out with a friend, her bf and some other people and her bf literally started flirting with me like grabbing my face to kiss me and stuff and I wanted to tell my friend about it and she said nothing and I could feel that she was mad that I bought it up. Literally the next day she tells me that her now ex bf broke up with her. Like I could feel that something was wrong, not just the fact that he flirted with me but how he treated her in general, he didn't seem that interested in their relationship.

[finflwr]

All these ideologies are so divisive and destructive. They destroy authentic engagement and replace it with paranoia.

[fitaria]

I used to have arguments with my husbands about redpill he watched on YT, the pearly girl and the two nearly bald guys who always have hookers on their podcast. We argued alot because my husband start to pick on the ideology when we actually don't need it. We re muslim btw and we have clear guidance on what to do as man and woman, as husband and wife, as a daughter or as a son, as any member of society we are in. So really redpill idea is no use for us yet it affects him so much. He tried to tell me that the value of woman are this and that. The way he mentions it was as if he was brainwashed by the narrative. Because He clearly disregard any of the goodness his woman around him have. It makes me sicks actually to listen how he used to say it.I prayed to God to save him and to make him back to Allah. Alhamdulillah it works, no arguments ever since and we both live peacefully by following the guidance. Sorry for being off topic. Just sharing my experience. For my muslim sister and brother, we don't need redpill, we need Allah and His Guidance. May Allah bless you all. Amin.