The 7 Principles For Making Marriage Work by John Gottman - Relationship Advice ► Book Summary

An animated book summary of The 7 Principles For Making Marriage Work by John M. Gottman. Explainer Video by OnePercentBetter.

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** HIGHLIGHTS **
0:13 - PRINCIPLE 1:
Enhance Your Love Maps

1:07 - PRINCIPLE 2:
Nurture Your Fondness & Admiration

1:55 - PRINCIPLE 3:
Turn Toward Each Other Instead Of Away

2:28 - PRINCIPLE 4:
Let Your Partner Influence You

3:14 - PRINCIPLE 5:
Solve Your Solvable Problems

5:30 - PRINCIPLE 6:
Overcome Gridlock

6:09 - PRINCIPLE 7:
Create Shared Meaning

** SUMMARY **
John M. Gottman is a professor of psychology at the University of Washington. He has spent his life doing comprehensive studies on what makes a healthy marriage. He offers relationship advice to save your marriage.

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[raymondgirard]

We are struggling in our 30+ marriage. I wish we had read this a long long time ago. It was recommended by our couples councilor. It really hit home for me. Hopefully, time is still on our side. It just makes sense. Ordering the book today.

[PracticalPsychologyTips]

I had never heard of this book until I saw this review. Thanks for bringing us new knowledge! :D

[bobafetttea]

I did all of these... turns out I married a man who doesn’t know who he is and lied to me a lot. To make things worse, he always put me second to everyone and everything else. Things hit the fan 3 years ago when the lies came out. Since then, it’s been nothing but more lying and stonewalling. I have felt completely alone in my marriage for the past several years. Unfortunately... There are some relationships that should not be saved.

[Miwlaplush_alt_acc]

Thanks for making this video, I really appreciate it! I often find myself struggling to read books, as I easily lose track of what is happening and get lost in the specific details and lose the overall picture. Getting to watch this summary was a great way to see things much more clearly.

[holidayadventures]

These are principles we follow in our relationship 😊. It's always good to get tips before marriage.

[gperson]

Thank you so much for this video, and any and all others you make on the Gottman method.

[chrisbarrett]

So Jane's love map revolves around Horses, Drugs, and Religion? I also like how donuts are critical to Ben.

[ChildePC]

Gottman was huge to me in my advanced Marriage class.

[DeborahLorraine]

Very nice. I was disappointed to see no mention of the Four Horsemen. Also, I thought #3, Turn Toward Each Other, might have missed how simple it could be, to look up and acknowledge when your partner's bid for attention might be as small as "look at the bird outside!" But overall, great synopsis. It would be impossible to cover it all unless it was an hour long!

[RobinSampsonMcCarthy]

On Principle 2. Nurture your Fondness and Admiration: I miss understood the statement about negative past-I thought it was my personal past but it is the couple’s past. Scary! but my misunderstanding gave me insight. Even though my personal past is full of negative I can see it as experiences I leaned from.

[ryanweaver]

fascinating stuff... remarkable how other folks have opinions and how past influence matters...

[MaxRunyon]

Great info. Thanks so much. I vlog about my travels, art and life in New York if anyone is into that kind of thing. Cheers!

[MicahBuzanANIMATION]

Insightful video. Honestly, this advice is applicable to all relationships, romantic or not. Keep up the great work man!

[charleswidjaja]

what is name of the background music? seems so relaxing.

[megatronn]

I think the best takeaway from this in my opinion is asking how people view their past... In this world the people we sorround with ultimately affect us and our future, therefore we must must choose the right person to be with. We can do that by asking how they view their past... an easy way to avoid a toxic relationship...

[OnePercentBetter]

Hey guys! Scripts are now available for download as a PDF. Enjoy :)

[JD-xgor]

I really like your work u have great advice thank you

[TheKevomair]

Awesome Video!   (#6, accept is spelled incorrectly)

[SugarMeow]

There are several things for making improvements in your marriage
Try to discuss more
Help each other out more
Try to give and take more
(I learned these and why they work from Pavs partner pundit site )

[vanettahayhurst]

Accept is spelled wrong in principle 6.