r/AITA for Bringing an Uninvited Guest to a Wedding?

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00:00 Intro
00:16 Story 1
04:10 Story 2
07:46 Story 3
13:05 Story 4
18:47 Outro

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[Resilient_Sage]

Guy shifting sole responsibility of fertility treatments to the wife would for sure be the type to be like "You had the baby, it's your responsibility." If getting pregnant is a team effort, so is parenthood. He's not being a team player.

[lostshadows]

Story 3: You didn't bring an uninvited guest, you brought a travel companion who had zero impact on the event.

[lostshadows]

Story 1: It's actually worse, since OP says he was uninvited, not not invited in the first place.

If you're going to make age restrictions for your wedding, you need to make the decision before you start sending out invites, not backtrack later.

[Gothymothmoth]

The 3rd story: the hell!?!? So no one else is allowed at that hotel!?! The title made it sound like he was AT the wedding not a hotel

[outside]

Story 3, the MoH definitely though she was in with a chance. Why else would she walk her back to her hotel room

[EluneAnzu]

Story 3: Even *if* others had a problem with it they wouldn't have had it a problem with it if the she didn't tell others about it, since it like she was the only one knew OP's boyfriend was even there, meaning the maid of honor would have had to tell people for them to even know he was there.

[_ksm]

Story 2: I *really* hope OP leaves their husband. That is NOT the person you want to have kids with. They’re beyond selfish and immature.

[DaBaseBallZ]

Story 2:Wow, Does this guy even love his wife?
NTA, Watch him drop that attitude the moment cancer rolls around to him

[DaBaseBallZ]

Story 3:He didn't go to the wedding, What's the issue?
I literally don't understand, NTA at all

[alexdelaossa]

Story 2 - I saw it last night and people pointed out he doesn’t have “the right” to be a father with that mind set. I also said he could be the problem with his swimmers for all he knows

[lostshadows]

Story 4: I had a better business plan than this guy, and my coffee shop is a Barbie one being manned by a plushie toy.

[LunaMane]

The brother in Story #1 is setting himself up for a life of mother's rules. Anything he wants to do will have to go through his wife, and he's clearly so spineless he'll even let her not allow his own brother at his wedding.

[ms.annthropic]

11:35 At the beginning of the story I thought the problem would be that OP had brought a +1 to a small wedding without asking, but nope, the “problem” is just that OP didn’t travel out there alone.
WTF, that’s such a non-issue, stay in your lane MOH!

[NotAnIlluminatiSpy]

Story 4. There are literally no reasons to stay. Leaving will improve her life in literally every way.

[AuroraPaintBrush]

Story 3
Destination weddings in general should except "people waiting in hotel rooms"

Usually its the invited parents, leaving their kids in the room with a babysitter. Or maybe a traveling nurse for an older relative.

Heck I could even see the odd scenario of the wedding guest usually using a Service Dog, but leaves them with a pet sitter because the Bride, and other guests are allergic to dogs. And the guest is *perfectly fine and willing* to go to the wedding, as long as their dog has a pet sitter. Because allergies are a nightmare. And again, thats if everyone is willing.

So TLDR
Having someone waiting at the hotel is perfectly reasonable. Heck I almost assume so. Not everyone wants to travel alone.

[MorganVsTheInternet]

1- The drinking age in the US is ridiculous! You can get student loans and sign up for the military at 18 because you're a legal adult, but you can't drink or smoke because you're too young!

[TheArnaa]

Story 1: so OP couldn’t go to the actual wedding ceremony because alcohol was being served during the service? At a bare minimum he should have been at the church. NTA.
Story 3: from the title I thought OP had rocked up to this small wedding with boyfriend in tow. Nobody even knew he existed until the MOH decided to cause drama. OP needs to ask the MOH if she’s upset about the other guests besides boyfriend who are staying at the hotel without being associated with the wedding? NTA.
Story 4: run OP run, far and fast. You are being exploited by someone who only cares about working you to the bone. You will be the NTA to yourself if you stay.

[zombieparrot]

My wife and I did IVF, because of *me* she literally paid for it. I Picked up a side cash job to help. Some men are such children, and I’m glad this guy showed his true colors before they made an expensive baby together

[ricebeansrockroll]

"Take responsibility for my infertility"
Dude I'm taking about as much responsibility for my wonky uterus as I am for anything out of my control, like my height.

I hope that man never gets the chance to mess a kid up.

[Holliswoud]

Story 3: First thing I thought when MoH weirded out upon seeing unexpected BF was: The MoH had "plans" to hit on OP after the event (some people are bi, or pan, after all) but that was obviously foiled by the presence of OP's partner. It's not the only possible explanation for MoH getting all worked up over a non-issue, but it is a possibility.