Dr. Vikas Divyakirti on Gender, Sexuality, Toxicity, Loneliness|Nikhil Taneja | Be A Man Yaar | S208

Dr. Vikas Divyakirti opens up about gender roles, toxic masculinity, patriarchy in his house, the concept of women, his love for table tennis, rejections, and many more only on Season 2 of Be A Man, Yaar with Nikhil Taneja, powered by The Man Company.

Captions available in both English and Hindi

This heartfelt conversation is available as an extended, UNFILTERED podcast on Amazon Music.
Supported by Rohini Nilekani Foundation
Associate Sponsor Maybelline India

Tune in next Wednesday, 11th September for episode 9 of Be A Man, Yaar! With Nikhil Taneja, featuring Ankush Bahuguna & Viraj Ghelani.

0:00 Dr. Vikas Divyakirti on #BeAManYaar
3:14 Unboxing Boyhood 🗃️
3:45 Dr. Vikas’ Childhood Memories 🥹
4:52 Stereotypes of Masculinity 🤯
11:02 Gender Roles in Dr. Vikas’ Family
13:01 On Drinking & Smoking
16:01 Dr. Vikas on Wanting to Visit Pakistan
17:59 On Playing Sports As a Kid 🏏
19:20 Noticing Patriarchy Growing Up in Haryana
21:24 Nikhil’s Cute College Story 😬
22:45 Differences Between Men & Women
25:30 Loneliness in Young Men 🫣
27:25 How Dr. Vikas’ Thinking Has Evolved
35:48 Dr. Vikas and Taruna Ma’am’s Love Story ❤️
41:26 Andrew Tate, Toxic Male Ego and More 🫠
50:40 Who is Progressive and Who is Conservative?
52:58 Young Men and Their Anger Towards Women
57:40 The Rise in Toxic Masculinity
1:02:43 Toxic Masculinity in Films 🎥
1:05:55 On Raising Feminist Children 💚
1:08:15 Women Want To Know ft. Medha Shakar ❤️
1:13:09 Kind Shoutouts 🥳
1:19:03 Men Complimenting Men 🫂
1:26:27 BE A MAN, YAAR!
1:26:52 BraveTalk Moment
1:27:25 Episode 9 Preview ft. Ankush Bahuguna and Viraj Ghelani

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Dr. Vikas Divyakirti on Gender, Sexuality, Toxicity, Loneliness

[ankimayadav]

गुरुदेव, एक आप ही हैं जो ऐसे ओपेन प्लेटफॉर्म पर बिना किसी दबाव के खुल कर समाज के किसी भी मुद्दे पर बोलते हैं, वास्तव में आप महान हैं।। 🙏🙏 i'm luckey which i achieved a chance to meet u 🙏🥰

[sarojrakyan]

Dr Vikas,
I am 82 years old but love listening to your videos, each one a fountainhead of knowledge and life's lessons explained with such disarming simplicity! With teachers like you around, there is great hope for this country! God bless you! 🙏🌷

[SaQiB_]

Dr Vikas divyakrti is one of the most educated and learned man in the world. He is very calm person like an ocean. Indeed he is the ocean of knowledge...

[idontknowwhattodo]

जिंदगी से एक ही गीला है तू बहुत देर से मिला है love you विकास सर

[pratikshakumari]

इतना शांत स्वभाव किसी भी बात को लेकर,
सभी जेनरेशन वाले लोगो को सर को सुनना चाहिए।

[tashimaeda]

Most Intelligent Calmness and Compassionate you sir🙏🌷🌷🌷🙏

[Jayjayj]

Interviewer ne bich bich me apni life values bhi share ki h...mujhe bhut accha lagaa...👌👌

[Mamaacat]

Vikas दिव्यकृर्ति sir ji ...sbse phla वीडियो shyd 2K20 me dekha tha ...jo video dekha tha ...tb se lekar aaj tkk jbb bhi jo bhi video dekha mere aankho आंसू न निकले हो ये अभी tkk nhi hua

[officialreetbaljit]

Osho aur Vikas Sir ko dekhna, Sun'na bss Aanand hi aa jata hai !! Dono ki aawwaz me kuch jaado hai aur har baar bilkul clean ❤

[rachnarawat]

Aap jaisa koi nhi h sir haters kitna bhi hate failaye aapko pasand krne wale itne h ki kisi ki Baat ka kisi pr koi asar nhi hoga aap or aage badhenge

[sdhurwey]

मैं गोंड आदिवासी समुदाय का ही लड़का हु जिसके घोटूल के बारे में आपने जिक्र किया सुन कर अच्छा लगा। घोटूल सच में एक हम आदिवासियों की ऐसी व्यवस्था है जो gender equality के बारे में हमारे नजरिए को बदल सकता है। बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद विकास सर

[NishuDasi]

सर आपको सुन कर मैंने खुद में बहुत बदलाव किया हैं अब जब कभी लाइफ में परेशानी या टेंशन आती है तो मैं आपका ही वीडियो ढूंढती हूं 😊 थैंक्यू सर

[ujjwalmittal]

Vikas Divyakirti should do a daily podcast, his knowledge is too much to absorb from different channels

[dailyvlogsvikalp]

जब सर से कुछ महीनों पहले मिला तो जीवन में बड़े उतार चढ़ाव ज़ब सर को सुना और देखा तो पाया कि ऐसे उतार चढ़ाव सभी के जीवन में आते है इसलिए जीवन में खुद को खुश रखे और जिनसे आप उनको खुशी देने की कोशिश करे अंत में यही कहना चाहूंगा फैसले और फासले बहुत सोच समझकर बनाइये... धन्यवाद सर 🙏🏻 चरण स्पर्श ♥️

[BeingUnorthodox]

Since 2020, i started following him, and my life get simpler on many terms.

[Yadavbijnori]

अरे गुरुदेव आप इतने सम्मानित व्यक्ति हो आपकी हर एक बात के मेरे दिल को संबोधित करती है

[sadafmirza]

विकास सर की सोच बहुत बहुत बहुत अच्छी है ये वीडियो उन लोगों को जरूर देखना चाहिए जो लड़कियों या औरतों को लेकर अलग ही सोच रखते हैं

[girjashanker]

"आपको सुनना " is the best experience rather than anything else ❤

[pu]

Only sir understands lonlieness, pain and anger of gen z, Respect for him.

[bishtgolu]

1.5 hour kab nikla kuch pta
So mesmerising and have a lot for us to learn...❤❤❤