3 June 2023

[yirenandleeknowstan]

there was this girl i knew she bullied me for 2 years, after she bullied me she apologized. I accepted it, because we started to get along a lot more. 1/2 years into our friendship it took a large turn. She started being toxic to my cousin, and my mom, & also some of my friends. She made fun of my mom for having no teeth (my mom got into a car crash.) and when i asked her about it she said “No i didnt, stop lying..” which ofc i didn’t believe her bc my mom *NEVER* lies. I got tired of it. I ghosted her. She then started talking absolute trash about me “kali isn’t a good friend, shes a liar!”, i got sick of it so i became her friend again bc i didn’t want drama. A few yrs past everything was ok, then something went OFF. I noticed she had always been whispering to her friends about me, making my self esteem go down, and absolutely TEARING & TEARING me down. I was so done. I was at the point i was drove depressed and i had GAD (generalized anxiety disorder), i was SICK of it. I know u will probably switch sides but i decided i changed things up. I brought a thing to school. Ofc i wasnt actually going to hurt her. I was bringing it as self defense bc i was already scared of her. She told the teacher and i got in trouble court for 1/2 years, got through it all. Next year of school i was literally so stressed to the point i couldnt breathe, grades, mental health, relationships, friendships, physical health. EVERYTHING WAS JUST HORRIBLE. Everything was repeating again, she was whispering and crap, this time didnt mind it, until i found out she was talking shit about me NOT HAVING A MOM APPARENTLY?? I do have a mom 😍? And i went off, got in trouble (i didnt bring a weapon js mental fights) after all that she does not tear me down and i feel better about myself my confidence has went up and im way healthier. She does not get to me. :) i hope whoevers going thru this stuff gets better i love u & stay safe❤

[Minute.nug]

“It takes 10 times longer to put yourself back together than it does to fall apart”

[allycalleja]

Same like I was friends with her since I was 3 I ended our friendship when I was 10, I ignored hundreds of red flags bc we have been friends for so long

[its.camille]

When I read that I almost started to tear up 😥

[lily-a]

i got over her within a minute, she was horrible to me and i knew it so it wasn’t hard to get over and accept the fact that she isn’t in my life anymore and that it’s better bc she was the reason i felt so horrible and why i had anxiety, my sadness and anxiety went away when she left so🤷🏻‍♀️😭 to help maybe jus realize what he/she did to you and see if that got better after they left.. i’m jus explaining what helped me👍🏽

[audrey.]

a few years ago in church i met this girl named averie. i didn’t really talk to her ever, but then in october i went to this church event with her and we got really close really fast. in december i was getting annoyed by how the only thing she talked about is boys, but she meant so much to me so i just ignored it. in january all my friends started hating me and treating me like i was worth nothing. but every wednesday at church when i would see averie, i forgot all about my problems at school. january to march was a really tough time for me. i was getting made fun of by all my “friends” and my boy bsf blocked me and ignored me. april comes along and school starts to get better and me and my boy bsf are friends again. me and averie are still close but she just seemed kinda off but i still loved her with all my heart. on april 28 she told a boy i used to talk to (i met him from her so it’s not that weird) that me and her were done and we weren’t friends anymore. i asked her about it on imsg and she kept pushing it away and saying she didn’t do anything. may 3 i sent her a long paragraph asking for forgiveness. i wasn’t even sure what i had done wrong but i cried and i cried. i hadn’t cried that hard since january. may third was a wednesday. i came to church and i went to go find her to talk to her ab it, then she was hanging out with a boy so i didn’t wanna say anything ab it in front of him so i went and talked to her sister and i burst out crying. around ten minutes later, me averie and her mom (averie’s mom is a pastor) are all in a small room talking about it. i was crying so hard i could barely talk. she didn’t have any emotion at all. she told me that it was all my fault that we weren’t friends because it turn out i talked about my school life too much. she said sorry but she didn’t mean it. she sounded annoyed and so done with me. the day after averie told people that me and her had facetimed and texted and made up, when that never happened. in front of my mom, she pretends like nothing is wrong vut whenever i see her, she ignores me. i’m really really broken and i need help. i don’t know what to do because church ended so i can’t talk to her anymore. please help.

[Broken-Parables]

Yep. And they all say “You’re just sensitive” im sensitive? One of them constantly cried because they had an ugly friend (me) another started fights with me for not agreeing with her on everything and played victim so my friends and other ppl turned against me too, i broke up with my ex bcs he ghosted me all day every day, etc etc and its all me being “too sensitive” or “too dramatic”

[welovecharlotte]

he mentally broke me, i tried to let go but now i actually have to since he likes my best friend 😹

[sumchN]

Nahh cuz I once had a really introverted friend at grade four or smth, she used to follow me everywhere and I didn't mind it I was always with her bc she was "amazing" then once at grade five she started to become less talkative and everytime I text her she is just so rude and evey time I said anything she used to block me. Then later in one of my friends said to unblock her so did and then she started to "apologize" to me but I didn't budge . Later on when I said " hey did u see .. Bc I want to forgive her since she apologized alot" then my friend (who was friends with her) said that she was only faking and just to see if I would fall for her trap. So if ur out there reading this fuck you

[LeahBoBea]

How will I survive this whole summer with no distractions?

[greenbunny]

As I was with a person that told me to go through with ending my life, yes, yes you did. I left with my pride still intact.

[Austinmoonspancakes]

I waited months for him to come back and when he finally did I was happy with someone else

[Annemmly]

Fr after "bullies me for fun, Making fun of me, saying im ugly, saying my style is bad, hit me, pushes me infront of the public, pulled my hair so hard, kicked me, hurted me, maked me cry, saying shit about me, not even trying to hide that u hated me, mad at me for no reason and im the 1 who siad sorry, fight me, slapped me, doing what people said like hurt me or bully me, almost broke my hand bc she hit me, pushes me off the stair and i hit my head, broke my trust."

[ArtWithAnArtist]

“She’s just someone to talk to so I don’t get bored”

[jurneenaomi]

she said “she can be ur bsf but I don’t want her as mine” to someone when I wasn’t there and acted as if nothing happened

[vlogsbyscar]

can someone please tell me the name of this song😭😭

[averybaird]

Reall like my trust for anyone in the world is gone

[netflixchaos]

There was this girl who’s as my friend for many years. And she has the boy bestie who wears bright colored socks. It’s kinda of like his signature look. One day she decided to wear them and as a joke (bc for a few years she liked him) i said, “ oooo do u still like him” in a joking voice and i waved my eyebrows. Later she called her sister to bring her differnt socks. I felt so bad i told her i was sorry and it was just a joke but before i told her that she told her sister in the high school who told her high school friends then rumors started that i was a mean girl and high schoolers would walk by me and call me names. So now I have to transfer for high school. I have to leave all my friends bc of her. I know what i did was wrong but also what she did was wrong. I have to move fricking schools so i don’t get bullied. So thanks a lot!

(btw i have been going to this school since pre school so i have to leave my friend i’ve known for 6+ years 😭)

[juliasssaccc]

i’ve had 2 of my best friends leave me, both of them thought i talked shit about them even tho i never did, one of them slept at my house for 2 weeks and travelled with me, and the other one knew everythinggg about me, i felt upset for weeks…

[k_money]

i can't even tell her what she did to me and how badly it broke me. i can never tell her anything because of the way she will react to herself and others. she basically controls my life, what i do and say because of how she will react.