8 Uncomfortable Truths About People Who Hate Being Alone

Here are some uncomfortable truths about people who hate being alone. For introverts, being alone is just fine. They enjoy their own company and are perfectly content with having no one around for long periods. Even extroverts are okay with spending some time by themselves every now and then. But for some people, solitude is a nightmare. They fear it, avoid it at all costs, and even feel anxiety when spending time alone.

In some cases, the fear of being alone is so intense that it’s diagnosed as monophobia or autophobia. Now, there can be several underlying reasons for hating being alone. And more often than not, it can be traced back to a deep-rooted fear of abandonment that stems from childhood.

Of course, there is a difference between being alone and being lonely. Lonely is a feeling of isolation or loneliness caused by a lack of companionship or meaningful relationships. But sadly, people who hate being alone go to such great lengths to avoid solitude, that sometimes this leads them to unhealthy relationships.

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[stormchaser]

Many people who are always in need of being around people are also in abusive situations they won't leave. They would rather be abused than be alone.

[tonytaf]

People drain me, unless we reeeally get along

[TrinhNguyen-shfj]

I like being alone and being with people I like. I am an ambivert so I can bend either way. I used to really value fitting in but not as much anymore. I am getting a bit more introverted as I get older since I realize how scary and untrustworthy people can be. I don’t like social media and need peace. Social media is such a curse.

[princessc]

This is me.. me. me.. me! It has affected every single relationship and component in my life. I fight it daily. I'm trying to heal. But I really don't know how. I can't begin to tell you how much this has held me back in life. Pls help!

[losrajvosa]

It's better to be alone rather then with ego driven personas with a lack of intelect and emphaty.

[sudevsreekumar]

When a video describes u head to toe
As much as I hate saying this this is typical me

[walkingwithdogs]

Ive worked alone for years and been happy to do so, having dogs then 99.9% you are not alone. Yes there is a very sort time that you may feel to be with someone, thing is nothing is ever complicated when your on your own.

[coolepic]

Why do i hate people but i hate being without people, why does every thought i have contradict eachother like its a checklist for bad things

[treborn]

I am not wanting to be around a lot of people . I’m lucky I found a woman that is like me, we are home bodies . We interact with other everyday, but, we are both loners . Sometimes I feel suffocated and like when’s she’s gone and I’m totally alone . I’ve always wanted a lady that lives like me . We go to work, we fit in, we converse with many people everyday, but, at the end of day we want it to be just us

[barbarahall]

Brainy dose You nailed it again! If you’re not ok being alone and being happy alone, you can’t be with anybody else. Keep my distance from people who can’t be alone; it’s a big red flag. 🚩

[sarahhurst]

Ok now I will tell y'all this right now lol...I value my solitude & extreme introversion 🙄, but tbh really, it gets on my own nerves all too often lol😅! So, I always enjoy gathering here together with others around your wonderfully sagacious vids! Appreciation & mad respect!😘❤️💜🌍

[naturalfreeness]

Awesome video it shows how Insidious the problem is people who are socially addicted. Who have no self identity

[rhennabell]

I love being alone but also get anxious when I’m not doing anything stimulating!

[Peaceoutman]

Now I have a better understanding of my friend

[annahilliard]

I like having the company of friends, family and co-workers once in a while, but I enjoy spending most of my time alone. I don't feel lonely at all when I'm alone.

[mignoncat]

I am only truly happy & content when alone . I have been this way forever . Bliss .

[gauravsinha]

In life’s incessant din
As I search for peace within
Lone spaces I desire
And stillness I adore
Then silence is my mate
And noise is what I hate

Closing my eyes to the outer space
A window opens to my inner space
I begin to find solace in my solitude
And look up to Heaven in gratitude
Enriched with visions pleasurable
I enter into a realm so delectable
The vault of Heaven gemmed and bright
And the Earth and sea overwhelmed in light
The disquiet within me subsides
An unassailable calm slowly descends
I hear a caring voice from somewhere
A faint voice quite reassuring, so near
Then within me the Wider Life emerges
And the lesser life finally submerges
I experience what is true joy and content
And I am so sure it is heaven sent

Oh! What solace is in my solitude!
And how I move into near beatitude!

- Valsa George

[janewasson]

I also love being alone. To putter, draw, read, play piano...

[tbonestk]

After social media became a thing my desire to go out and party declined due to the overposting of pictures and egos to prove their online worth it’s never about the event no more

[kati-ana]

As an introvert to the extreme I can't understand people who always need to be with people like a few of my neighbors who think there's something wrong with me for choosing my own company. I was abandoned as a child, I thought this was why I choose to be alone, distrust in others. Take care of myself because no one else will. One of my neighbors is so needy and can't seem to function without someone coming around or calling her. If even a day goes by she's whining like a spoiled baby. It's so irritating and I consider her weak. These people are always crying how "lonely" they are even with lots of family and friends around them because they're so needy and needing attention. I cannot be around them because I just end up disliking them. My niece is one of these people and she's as annoying AF!