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[HybridAngel]

I’ve noticed there are two types of those people. One is where they are the problem, they have problematic behavior. The other is through neurodivergence and outcasting, everyone being closer than with you. Pity thing-

I’ve been that second type. That stopped after I started making better friends, and being kind to those that were in my situation. It is hard to tell the difference sometimes tho-

[cccosmo]

its always either because their harmless neurodivergent behaviours are too weird for others and they're labeled as dangerous or weird for no good reason, or they're actually a horrible friend

[ryderopals]

All my friends I grew up with "out grew me" when I was taking care of my disabled father full time, working full time, and still going to school on top of it, after we all graduated everyone else dropped off despite how I would reach out still trying to keep my friends, now I struggle horribly making new genuine friends because I've allowed myself to unmask my autism some and people don't like that if I invite them into my home I'm nice but super quiet and my partner does most of the talking, I just sit and vibe in the company. I can't talk very well in a group because I hate being talked over and ignored, apparently that makes me come off as rude and unfriendly, I don't know how. Did just get the number of one of my coworkers I've been wanting to be friends with since I started this job almost a year ago, so here's hoping I found one that will actually like to hang around.

[IndieDoodlesSometimes]

i was that "all my friends leave me" person cause i had unmanaged/unidentified bpd at the time and i have... pretty bad trauma. i didn't know why i was so angry, so miserable, so unable to maintain friendships.

now, i have a good bunch of friends and i'm slowly rebuilding, tryna get better and be the best i can. as someone who was that kind of person, honestly? they need to realise they're the only ones who can "fix" themselves.

[TheCattishDragon]

I'm friends with that person, but they're actually a great friend- it's just that they keep on befriending assholes that leave them, and then they blame themselves for it

[Cane_Sauce]

Same, there's always a reason.
Personally for me she made everything about herself and was overly sensitive about certain things (broke down crying over being told no, always talked about how no one is friends with her, etc)
If your friends always leave you it's time to look at yourself as well

Edit: I'd like to add that yes it can be the environment you're in which adds to my point, if you surround yourself with toxic people bad shits gonna happen. I'm not blaming anyone as I used to be a person that couldn't keep a friend for the life of me, I'm just saying to try to find better people, don't lie to them, work through your problems as well. <3

[Indigoisaspookyghost]

They’re either the worst people ever or the sweetest neurodivergents.

Edit: oh my god yall are blowing up my notifications lmao

[alincos_]

People always use to leave me and I thought I was the problem for a long time so I just never questioned it, till one day I met people who weren't toxic, who understood me and my weirdness and loved me for me and I them. They helped me understand that it wasn't me that was the problem and I appreciate and love them so much for that. Now I'm very picky about who I keep around.

[xMysticEevee]

I am that person where friends do end up always leaving me, mainly cause they find my personality too much or ''not normal'' cause I can just be myself instead of hiding it, like I sometimes just act like I have 0 braincells or sound like I am trying to become a dinosaur, I am also not that social at the start which ends up making people leave too so it is hard for me to make friends nowadays

[KittyFAN]

I may be one of those people but I can say, at the very least, it's usually because I'm overly emotional, jump to conclusions that tend to end up with me realizing that I'm completely reading people wrong, a drama majesty, and a constant whiner.

And I have communication issues where you would hear from me but then I suddenly disappear until either you reach out or we see each other. (I'm trying to work on this one though)

[RyldsGirl]

Okay Sylus 😂😂😂 using his lines as a thirst trap is pretty epic. Thumbs up.

[saharaliake]

Lmao the love and deepspace audio with sylus and MC

[Alx_Fox]

I would love to have a Danny friend :3❤

[darkestlight]

One of my ex boyfriends said all his friends left him. I told him there could be many reasons and that life happens. Later on, he became verbally abusive and tried to normalize it. He's just not a nice person, that's why they leave him.

[PhoebeHCat]

Yeppp, had this experience a few years ago. I genuinely tried so many times to be their friend but it just wasn’t working. I was guilt tripped into staying multiple times until I just couldn’t take it anymore. It gets to a point where you just have to accept that they aren’t willing to put in the effort to change.

[gem]

Tried making friends with one of those people in middle school, since I also had no friends, but because I was 'weird' (openly ND).

She had to be the most self-absorbed, hateful person I've ever met TO THIS DAY. I am an ADULT, with a lot more years of experience, and I still cringe when I think of her.

She'd verbally and physically abuse you and anyone else she thought wouldn't fight back, degrade anyone if they talked about their accomplishments, and would do the most insane mental gymnastics so she could always be on top of her internalized competitions.

She dang near stalked me all through high school after I cut her off in 8th grade. The principal FINALLY did something when I told him that either the school did something, or I'd call the police and THEY could do something.

[elphabafang]

...alright Sylus's voice and your face was not something I was expecting. And my brain is now just confused 😆
Always a pleasure, love your stuff 💜

[WWYAMBECAUSEYOURBLA]

That's why it's better to be friends with the person no one talks to and dislikes for whatever tf reason.

[crowdcaffeine]

gave that girl a chance and actually she’s genuinely the sweetest girl i know love her!!

[ermwhatareyoudoinghere]

I became friends with the “everybody hates me” person, ended up meeting my best friend. We may have issues, but honestly, we are practically inseparable. Though we are close, I can’t tell him everything, like my identity.