NO ONE Cares About Me

NO ONE Cares About Me

Even though 100s of people cross my path every day it feels like no one cares about me. I'm alone a lot and it can get very lonely. I reach out to friends sometimes no one answers.

I know that people get busy. And I could do more to build on friendships. But at the end of the day it feels like no one cares. So what do I do about it?

#noonecares #lonely #alone

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Your life matters. Nobody can question your worth. Whatever it is that you're going through, however it is that you're feeling: It's okay. You are loved.

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[thejennyandandrewextravaga]

I have agoraphobia and ptsd.sometimes I leave the house only once a month for the psychiatrist. I get a fair amount of attention on fb but no friends inreal life. only family. Which I am thankful for. I care about you. I wish we lived closer. Good video!

[noe]

As someone with BPD I totally relate to this. I like what you said towards the end that thinking no one cares is just a thought and temporary and we are not giving people a chance to "defend" themselves. We also should make more time to spend with other people or friends. Things that help me:
- Completing DBT workbook. Spend some time practicing those skills
- Cuddle with my pets
- Meditations about compassion
- Distract myself with things that get me out of my head like walking, tyiding up, having a shower...

[leighn.]

Many times I drop back into feeling that no one cares. I have found the best way to overcome this feeling is to just care more about myself because we can't expect others to give us the love we need.

I have reached out to people I don't know many, many times. In fact most of my Facebook friends I have sent a message just to see where they live, and sometimes to strike up a conversation. If someone is not willing to answer, I don't accept the friend request.

What bothers me most is my apparent "friends" who ghost me or don't respond to a text. But I don't take it personally. I don't expect everyone to like me. I want to make room for people in my life who also choose me... so if someone is not engaging with me, I stop making the effort. I think we all deserve to have people in our lives who can participate /communicate in the type of relationship that we want.

[suterfire]

Ahhhh, I really do care about you and your well-being! Yet, I get that lonely feeling.

[thejennyandandrewextravaga]

I care about you. You are handsome and charming. But I do relate to how you feel. Big Hugs!

[marcospou]

I can relate to the "No one cares about me" and loneliness. Sometimes I feel society feed to this, in spite of social media.

[autismenlightenment]

I prefer to be alone because of my autism and its hard to understand why others dont get off on their own company the way i do. But since finding others online that i can relate to i am more motivated to connect. I prefer messaging and online because its non social. Direct exchange of ideas and information without the scary parts. Online friends can be real. I get it how its hard to keep up the relationship and deal w mental health issues at the same time. But we need to practice with others similar to us. We are never really alone.

[reneabelino]

Omg. I can relate to you ryan. As you get older people come and go. And even though I tried meeting people I feel alone still. They feel more of a distraction.

[COYBIG]

I don’t know you at all but yeah, I care, and more over you don’t realise how many people who are lonely have felt calmed and less lonely by your videos. Your videos imo are brilliant and you deserve many more subs.

[fluxvisionimagery]

Much love to you. Thank you so much for sharing your story & videos with us. ❤️💕

[emosag]

Wow you have described a lot of how I feel too in this video. I do often feel like no one cares and very very isolated...the only things that have truly helped are people in a healing capacity, such as when I get acupuncture, or a massage. Or seeing a counsellor. Yes in a way you’re paying for care but, it’s still genuine in its way.

Thankyou for putting these things out there into the world, you are helping people doing so. Am loving your channel! Thanks so much

[bigt]

It's hard making friends. Some friends will not say they care the way you want them to. They don't express their feelings. But they will always be by your side. Don't force it let it flow. I have I friend who I thought she didn't care. Then I had a close friend of mine die and she was not talking care of her self. My friend gave me the riot act about me taking care of my self. She was angry at me! I knew at that moment she really cares. She won't say I care about you but she will show it. Actions are better!

[shrinkelizabeth]

I spend Christmas alone, lost both parents young, and have been ostracized from my former friend group, so I've been struggling with the honestly not unrealistic feeling that no one cares about me lately. It's helpful to hear other struggle with these feelings too.

[maverdine]

I'm gonna watch this everytime I feel lonely.😭Thanks Ryan.

[Vekren]

Believe it or not I care about you and wish we could hang out but honestly I’d probably just scare you away. I prayed for you Ryan and sub to you.

[juliannacarreno]

I care Ryan. I can relate deeply to what you're saying. I look forward to your videos it's help me get through the day. Not only do I feel alone but I feel afraid. I recently left my marriage to a sociopath I felt trapped for 10 years. Now I have this apartment the support dog I am constantly running into flying monkeys and triangulation if I answer the phone or leave this apartment I'm feeling trapped again. Sometimes suicidal. Constantly having flashbacks childhood trauma marriage torture. The movie Diane Downs it's similar to my childhood except my mother got away with it. So you can imagine what kind of man I was attracted to. Sociopaths. Now I'm 54 years old, he pulled most of my molars that was part of the torture of being a dentist and I weigh more than I ever have. I've got to find a way to survive this mess. Just want you to know that not too many people are as open and candid as you are about your feelings and that's giving me the ability to do the same. What's the stuff that I'm stuffing that hurt so bad.

[Itsgonnabeok]

Ly I’d love to be your friend if I met you in real life

[suhassuhas]

Raise ur hands ✋ if ur lonely right now.