Realizing nobody cares about me changed my life…

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[KalpaDewmina]

I am a person like you actually. I dont know what to do, what to follow, i dont have a passion. But I hope that your story will help me to find meaning in my life. Let us do this brother together :)

[Mirthy.]

I think this is the best introduction to a channel ever. Good luck with something or nothing or whatever you’re doing

[g_snipe]

"Nobody cares about you." is a positive message. Nobody is out to get you. Everybody spends most of the time caring about themselves.

[Liam]

Totally agree! We are placed on this planet of millions of others to realize that we are on an individual journey that is really independent from everyone else, including spouses, kids, pets, etc. Learning that others just don't care is really a huge part of each of our own personal journeys. The best advice I was ever given was to stop chasing my passion (I had no clue anyway) and learn to listen to my inner self and what I wanted. When you ask everyone else what your own passion is, the advice is biased toward what their life is. Only you can figure it out. Don't try so hard and let it happen. Journal, learn to meditate to listen to your inner guidance. It is there if you stop listening to everyone else and concentrate on your own thoughts. I am 64. I wish I would have known this at 12!

[INFJparadox]

I just turned 54. I’m so glad I grew up when I did and being GenX. The world is so fkd now and we are all so disconnected. You never stop learning. Keep improving yourself for yourself. Life is extremely hard and flies by. Be kind, compassionate, and empathetic. Help each other and reject conformity and greed. Be authentic and honest and fk everyone that tries to destroy you in words or actions. Raise your vibration and reject all forms of toxicity. We are all spiritual beings living a human experience

[SuperBC]

I used to have tons of passion. Bodybuilding, motorbikes, martial arts, music etc. I’m now 55 and for the last 10 years have had zero passion for life whatsoever. I’m here for my kids because i know they need me. As much as I love them, I feel like my only purpose in life is to be here for them so I suppose that’s good enough. However, I wish I had those times back where everything was an adventure. I think a lot of the problems why people suffer is down to this age of instant gratification and being in a disposable society. We have become dehumanised and are under the control of something else by constantly being plugged in. I think.

[raven]

being twenty-three and feeling like an adult but also needing guidance from adults is very real and none of us know what we're doing

[Somusicais]

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

[karinpost]

As a 56 yo who has kind of “ figured it out, ” let me say I spent several early decades feeling like this. However, hindsight is 50-50 and I see that in high school and early college I took several career aptitude tests that pointed me to the very career I finally chose in my late 40’s. This career is now the greatest thing I ever did. I’m happy going to work and it doesn’t feel like work. The reason I ignored it all those years ago was the low salary. I picked it up with a masters degree and am married so dual income makes that a non-issue. For “who I am”, I met myself in traveling, trying many new hobbies and things outside my comfort zone, meeting an array of characters I would never have had the opportunity to meet otherwise. You have your entire lives ahead of you, so reach out and flex!

[lisag]

I like "I don't know"- I am 66. Live your life and enjoy it. Be kind every day while doing it. Simple.

[rozaliapapp]

63 female here, retired and quite content. I found the meaning of my life some 30 years ago in Scriptures/Bible, I call it "Owner's Manual". Technology took over (not that I don't like it or appreciate it) and minimized human relationships, interactions: respect, discipline, honest heart to heart communications, helping each other without looking for profit. Caring and learning from the older generation. Just simple and happy life. We are so focused on material acquisitions, that we forget to enjoy the simple things in life. If we could refocus, wake up and smell the roses, things will line up.

[antaresvasto]

This is exactly what I'm going through right now... It feels nice to be able to relate, That other people are feeling and thinking the same way. Good luck with you endeavors as I fellow lost human.

[YolandaSmith-sd]

I became very very ill a couple of years ago. I had a surgery and renal failure. When knowone in my family tried to help I realized that I don't matter. I had to pay a family member to bring me to the hospital for surgery and stay with me for a week afterwards. Not one of my brothers or sisters called me throughout this process. My dad visited me knce for about an hour. Im still hurt. You know what, I have something so much greater than any of them. My God, my creator.

[privateprivate]

I’m nearing a young 60. I’ve learned that it’s good to understand no one cares about you, even though it’s initially hella painful. I found that my mother even hated me. Wished I’d die and was pushing for it. Although I never considered myself to be a codependent, especially as the probable golden child in the family, for many years, when you learn that others don’t care about you, it should hopefully help cure any codependency issues. Because you’ll start to reign in that making yourself available and open to people too much. Be scarce and do for you. While it’s a nice idea that we’re all a community singing kumbaya, the reality is that it’s typically untrue.

[EvaWright]

Self love is the most important thing in life. Learning to love and respect yourself when nobody else cares is vital to a peaceful life. People are so busy with their own bs that nobody takes the time to connect anymore with anything or anyone that matters.

[lightyr]

I don't not why, I'm only 16 but I kind of feel like that too. I'm still in high school, and my life hasn't even started, yet I feel like taking the normal route of school -> collage -> work at a corporate job for another 40 years of your life is a waste of time, our finite amount of time we have on this Earth. I don't know what I want to do with my life, but the one thing I'm 100% certain of is that I don't want to waste my life not living to my fullest potential.

[JRZ]

Hi Zach, I'm 56, a high school teacher. I've hated the career for the last 32 years. I put in a 4 year retirement notice to the school district. At 60 I will have a good pension and I plan to reinvent myself and do whatever I want. I will pursue my passions- photography, animals, cars and art. I've had a lot of trauma but have fought through it, even when all hope seemed lost. When I hit 50, I really stopped giving a fuck what people thought of me, spoke my mind. I've alienated most people but my wife continues to stick by me. It's not the quantity of people in my life, but the quality.

[carlin.mp]

a friend sent this to me who stumbled across your video. this perfectly encapsulates those days where you wake up and think what on earth am i doing with my life.

i chose against going to college to pursue some crazy dreams that, 3 years in, are still yet to fully pan out. and you can the quiet questioning from old friends and extended family.

this in-between state is just so wildly uncomfortable

[samamsterdam]

As an Autistic person still trying to transition into adulthood myself I also came to the conclusion that nobody cares...except for my Mom. She rocks! Everybody else sucks. I have a wonderful life right now but I really get concerned about my future.

[DavidStanley-lp]

Nice to meet you Zach! I am in my 60’s have never been without a job . But as far as I know 80+% of people are manipulators. Some subtle and others believe your quiet and thoughtful manner is weak. Avoid all forms of manipulation and your path will become clear.