GRWM for a first date | date night makeup, dating tips/advice, hair, + outfit

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[bbycakesxtv]

Men who randomly bring up their ex & talk badly about her. Men who listen to red pill content. Men who talk about how expensive things are. Men who say women look better without makeup instead of complimenting how beautiful his date looks🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 But more importantly. Men who plan the date in advance. Men who bring flowers. Men who express genuine interest in getting to know me. Men who smell incredible ✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅ btw. Loveeee the final look 😍😍 & the men over 30 statement about rushing is so true LOL!

[streetsz_]

i'm 19 and I've never been on a date, honestly I think the fear of sitting down and talking face to face scares me and I'm also afraid of men in every way LOLLL

[myesha]

Being too clingy is one of my red flags as well. I feel like personal space is really important in a relationship or if you’re in a talking stage. It gives you and your partner time to miss each other.

[seren]

- A man that is overly attached to his mom and relies on her to do basic things for him
- A man that needs to be touching/kissing you all the fucking time, like can't we just talk?
- A man that doesn't even notice you are uncomfortable in a situation if you don't voice it.

[valeriesantos]

My friend always used the saying… ‘there’s truth in a joke’. Disrespect is disrespect… no 2 ways ab it.
A judgy guy many times, sadly has had past issues with abuse or he may have ‘standards’.

[jesstheromantic]

Somebody on tiktok said she doesn't talk otp/text men every day who she's "just dating" because it creates a level of emotional intimacy for her that is unsustainable esp. if they never get together. And that clicked for me. I cannot invest 3-5 hours of my day (outside of an actual date) with you and not get caught up emotionally. So my rule is when it's time to be official, you can get my time.

[paytonjessica]

I agree, be intentional when dating! And yes I hate being on the phone all day, just let me know when are we linking up.

[ShaDeGrate]

Sometimes it’s scary rejecting a man. These men are crazy nowadays. I give out a google number instead of my real number lol

[itstoriambr]

Don’t let your guard down because he’s 30+. It doesn’t make him a man. All the rules still apply.

[vernessapascal]

Best advice I got very early give a relationship 3 months to figure out whether on not you want to be with each other if they not sure at the end then move on to the next and most of all let God guide your heart and the right relationship will happen

[jacquelinescott]

You are such a mature thoughtful young lady. Being in my 70's you provided such insight about dating in the 21st century. It was quite illuminating and refreshing to hear your perspective which I truly appreciated. It demonstrates how women's thinking has evolved over the decades. Your level headedness speaks volumes. I applaud you 👏 and good luck 🍀.

[roxyelly]

I’m the oldest daughter so watching u made me feel like watching an older sister for a bit 🥹

[nefertitixo]

I legit don’t like being on the phone unless I’m completely comfortable 😂

[astraswishbook]

girl you don’t gatekeep anything!! thank you for including the links to everything in the description and for being a good example on how i should value myself as a young woman! i’m graduating hs next week so i really needed this reminder of how people are and how to preserve myself but also be able to put myself out there.

[jesstheromantic]

I need a Tea Renee dating series...tips and tricks and how to stay centered in your grind/work while making time to put yourself out there.

[Tricey.]

When dating, I look for guys who I talk with most of the days, mixtures of calls and text. It is not everyone’s thing, but someone who can easily go over half a week shows me lack of effort or that he is trying to keep up with a roster. When we are in some form of routine of communication, instead of that here & there method, I am more comfortable making plans to see them in my free time because I feel like that is someone who is not only highly responsive when they think they’re going to see me, that they still care to know me on days we both work.

[kamyiah]

ugh I love your voice, you’re aesthetic, your aura just so prim and beautiful 🩷 keep up the great content

[Imanixo]

I think when you meet the right person, even if you’re moving fast, it’ll feel right. But if they’re moving fast and you think it’s questionable trust your gut! Also I think it’s less awkward when you save all the questions for face to face because if you know everything before the date it’s like taking the mystique and fun away. (Side note: I’m gonna test Angel share next time I’m in Sephora)

[ithinkmitchielikeyou]

My immediate “nope” is if they start talking about money/investments 🚩🚩🚩🚩

[zozo_GH.]

she didn't explain why, but gworls, never let a man pick you up for a first date cuz you don't know him. PERIOD. Plain and simple. He could seem like a nice guy over text or whatever, but he could end up kidnapping you, or taking you to his house or just somewhere where you might not feel comfortable, because he might have ulterior motives (I know that sounded very intense, but it's VERY possible). He is driving, in HIS car, meaning HE has the power in that situation (another reason why if you do end up having a man pick you up on a first date, just take a few seconds to make sure the child lock on ur door isn't on, incase you need to jump out if he's being weird)