Let Them Theory | Mel Robbins #Shorts

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I just heard about this thing called the “Let Them Theory” and holy crap… I absolutely LOVE this!!!!

Stop wasting energy on trying to get other people to meet YOUR expectations.

Just LET THEM show you who they truly are. And then YOU get to choose what you do next.

BOOM! 💥
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[naziaH]

Just finished reading “the art of not giving a f*ck” … life changing 😂

[lovedandabundant]

This reminds me of something I read this week-
‘Stop expecting YOU from other people’.
I will pair that with Let them.❤

[katesundstrom]

"No expectations,
No disappointments!"

[karenroy]

My new motto. I am sick about worrying about other people. Let them!!!

[almohvn]

My motto... "Let people be who they are".... spot on.

[kellyjoanoberg]

Let them show you who they really are -it’s a gift you give yourself

[eileenwatt]

I learn in my sociology class 40 years ago " Don't have expectations of others you will be disappointed ".

[TheHSoko]

Let them… great advice. Love is not forcing people to meet our expectations.

[yrntruth]

It’s the IDGAF level in life! When you reach it, you will find so much peace and tranquility!😏

[kamhart]

OMG! YOU have just FREED ME!! …after the WORST year of my life!( I turn 70 in 6 weeks)… my children became aliens & turned MY LIFE upside down trying to please them… I have become so depressed! ….but I was to this point & couldn’t push myself quite all over the line in the sand!… NOW.. I can! …FOREVER GRATEFUL for the joy I can live the rest of what I have left!!!❤❤❤

[kanchanspokenenglishchanne]

your video is always touch my heart 💓😍

[randomcommenter]

I've been doing that (let them) over the past 2 months.
You're right!
They ARE revealing who they are to me.

[wendywobbles]

It took me many years to learn this, I am a solitary person but I felt I needed people in my life and would worry about others until I realised they didn't give a heck about me. I am happier now

[hadamerryweather]

Yes, it feels sad that I was left out several times by some friends...I need to let them.

[jenniferoettle]

100% agree…. When it comes to ppl you’re not responsible for (friends, coworkers, family, etc.). However, when it comes to the years of raising kids, the motto should still be: Train them. Once they’re past the years of training, yes…. Let them! Awesome advice!

[jennyanderson]

Let them be . Let them go. Let them alone. Let them take a different path

[haddytaal]

Yes, I have learned that finally, and it is so liberating and less frustrating and stressful. You are not going to be disappointed because you have removed that expectation. You're you, and they are them, period. LET THEM 😢😂😅

[Peri-M]

My mom has this attitude with me and my sister. We're both super recluse and hate leaving the house unless it's for school or work cuz we're extremely introverted. Instead of having to babysit our miserable attitudes for having to leave the house she's just let us stay at home instead of going to events or out to dinner. Saves everyone a headache plus now the times we do leave the house everyone involved is in a much better mood :D
love u mom

[tesslejarde]

I agree to your advice Robin. Don't waste your time if a person is not loving you. 👍👍👍

[ampreps]

I don't have people, because I already "Let Them" a long time ago. Saved me a bunch of my time in life.