TSIS TAU LIG - Hmong Short Film 2023

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Movie Title: TSIS TAU LIG
Producer: Hmong Yakia Production
Story & Directed: Sue Vang
Camera: Sian CN

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[sabrinavang]

I have taken in family from both sides and i have the same rules for both sides. If you dont do anything to better your life and just sit around constantly... I cant take care of you and my own kids and spouse. Every adult is responsible for their own selves. If your depressed you need to seek professional help and find yourself. Peace comes only from Jesus. I will help my side and my husbands side up to a point.. there has to be boundaries and lines. They have to be communicated to that person as well. If that person doesnt respect your boundaries you laid out then yes.. they must go fend on their own because life is hard for EVERYONE.... not just them. They are being selfish by being a burden on everyone, not you by refusing to enable their behavior.

Stop enabling bad behavior that doesnt help that person, it will only make him or her continue in the toxic. They will never see the error of their ways if you keep cleaning it up for them..??

[glitch]

Everyone that has read this and watched this video, I'ma sure depression has hit you one time or another. My fellow Hmong community, I have evidenced being homeless more than once. When you become homeless, it's the life's biggest unknown and untold trap. It's almost impossible to intergrade back into the community. Love your family members while their still alive. Don't wait until their funeral to show up and say how guilty you feel for not saying anything or doing something. Never turn a blind eye.

[Moon]

never know until you put on someone's shoes and walk a few steps....to fully understand why they end up in that situation. Some people do it to themselves (50% of them since we came to this country) but the majority is by bad decision not because they didn't know but because they wanted something better for their family.
Life is tough but keep pushing forward my Hmong brothers; life about to change into a worst situation in 2024 + do what you can to protect your family

[oni-natsufamily]

It's hard to believe that this has occurred to so many men's out there in recent years. I think that we, as a community should understand this. If we have a brother/son/uncle/dad going through this type of hard time, we should embrace them and help them get back on their feet. Everyone is valuable, but unfortunately, they are not in some people eyes. Let's help create a better world.

[MaiMai-mq]

This video is very sad and base upon a lot of our community now days. I just wish we in the community have more helps or programs for men who are in need of helps and place to stay. Life can be hard for men and women let just not blame or point fingers at own person or help one and let the other live miserable we don’t know their stories so when they come to us as a sibling or as a community let’s be the best we can and help them and help save them life is short everyone deserves to be happy ♥️. Thank you for the video hope is a eyes open for everyone.

[hangc]

Tysm much for sharing. This story tells alot about brothers…

[junkies]

When I marry u I marry the family. Family is family. Your family is my family my family is yours too. Ill choose my family over my wife anyday if that day comes.

[dretsab]

Now it remind me that marriage only a contract. I wound chose my family and brother depending on the relationship over any women. She will get what she deserve because we all can’t predict the future

[rosemarylohr]

It’s very true whether you are Hmong or another culture. You are a capable man, living in the USA. There are jobs everywhere if you’re willing to work. You can stay with family but make sure you don’t over stayed your welcome. In this story scenario, 2 months is not long but it’s long if you have impatient sister in law like this one. 😂

[hnuyaj]

The wife should have a bigger heart. However, I do understand that there's situations where the sibling in law is not safe to live with. I know people who have taken in adult loved ones but that adult becomes aggressive due to their depression, not willing to seek professional help to avoid projecting their trauma to others, and he turned to alcohol. It has come to the point where they became afraid for the safety of their kids. They can't live life and always on guard because the loved one was unpredictable. They find themselves trapped in an emotional cycle due to their acceptance of taking him in and the emotional battle they will have within themselves if they kick him out, after all he is a brother. Hmong culture is a collective community, and people like to talk about things that are politically correct, but never being mindful to particular situations that might not fit in the politically correct lectures. It was a very sad situation for everyone involved. I say, it's ok to take family in, only if boundaries are made clear in the beginning for the well-being of the existing family. Also, when you take someone in, always make it clear to yourself that when you or your family no longer feel comfortable or safe around the individual then you have to be willing to be the "bad guy" and ask the individual to leave within a given time frame. One individual can put a whole family into emotional turmoil. It should be normalized in the Hmong culture that you can still love someone without having to take them in, and no adult is responsible for the life outcome of another adult. Love and grace can still be given without having to sacrifice the well-being of yourself or your family.

[esvaaj]

Ham tsis tas li no xwb mas, tus tijlaug twb tawm tsev lawm ne...

[fatteelor]

At least the older brother knew how to think if it was my older brother he would’ve stayed until my Life fell apart, then he would blame me, for getting married with the wrong woman I believe that as a older brother we should be idol or a role model to our younger ones no matter how hard life gets we should keep working and striving to be better human being, me as an older brother I don’t never want my little brothers and them to look down on me that’s why I work hard every day and I’m always 10 steps ahead to make sure that if they ever need anything, I’m here for them as a older brother instead of a fucking burden, The funny thing is I have a older brother that is just like this guy in the movie so since he can’t take that step to watch over us I’m next in line to make sure that my little ones are good

[Sarahfrmcali]

I been waiting for more of this movie so patiently lol and I’m still waiting and it’s 2024 already

[Gurlhmong]

A couple things to address- the brother is lazy, probably depression. There’s issues he couldn’t resolved in his marriage and that is why he’s in the same predicament. The husband needs to give the brother a time line, 6 months-1 year to move out. The wife needs to be more patient and understanding- what if that was HER brother or sister. I’m okay with helping family out as long as they are not bringing drugs into my home but again- these conversations need to be had. You can not be enablers and allow the brother to stay forever but 2 months has not been long, the wife should’ve been more patient.

[drkashmedicalandlife]

Good job,
This short film nicely illustrates the true natures of a human heart. Keep up the good work.

[domluminati]

Ua neej nrog neeg nyob tsis muaj ib leeg twg yuav pom ib chim yus lub neej yuav zoo los phem txawmtias ziag no koj lub neej zoo heev, thov txhob thuam thiab ntxub ntxaug tus neeg txom nyem ua tseem pab nws stus kheej tsis tau thiab khav tias koj nim zoo heev. Hos koj lub neej tsaus ntuj nti ziag no xam qhov twg los tsuab tsis tau, txhob tu siab thiab tag kev cia siab, yog txoj sia tsis tu, tseem muaj lub dag lub zog, rau siab nrog luag khwv, hlub thiab saib yus tus kheej kom muaj nqis, kaj ntug tag kis, koj lub neej yeej yuav rov sawv. Rau cov neeg ua siab me, siab nqaim, hlub lwm tus tsis tau, thov ntuj pab rub lub siab kom loj, dav thiab ntev es qhib lub siab nrog txoj kev hlub tiag los hlub tus neeg ua tau thov koj, ib hnub koj thiab tau txais ntuj li koob hmoov.

[yoglis]

Love it. I enjoy short movies, and I keep it coming ❤

[tubleejthoj]

one of best short clip video i have ever come across

[l-island-v]

This is why women is women and men is men… turn the table if that’s her brother, she wouldn’t be doing that… just saying

[houavang]

Muaj tseeb tiag Yog yus lub neej tsis tuav tiag tiag thaum kawg ces yuav tau ua dev thawj thiab rau luag ntxub li no mas peb cov me phooj ywg