DEALING WITH BEING AN UNMARRIED MUSLIMAH

Asalamua'alaikm all, this is a topic close to heart that I wanted to share with those of you still in search of your ''better half'' and are finding the wait difficult.
I also share how I've managed to get to the point where by the permission of Allah, I am content with what I have in my life outside of marriage and hopeful that the right person will come. It hasn't been an easy journey but, Allah has proven to me, many times that whenever I put my trust in him, he never lets me down and that is what ultimately keeps me going, so I hope this benefits you all in your journeys too.
Hope you enjoy the tips and put them into practise inshallah.
We all know the value and importance of marriage in islam so approach the issue with a level head knowing that Allah will always give us what is best at his timing, not ours.
Stay blessed xxx

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[aminah]

I’m 39 n I’m not married n I try to not stress about it what ever Allah has planned for me will be .. My main focus is get into Jannah 😊😊😊 Insha Allah

[aminah]

Every thing happens for a reason if Allah don’t bless us with spouse in this world we will have one in jannah insha Allah

[salimarose]

As'salamu alaykum. I didn't get married until I was 44, yes 44! I actually enjoyed my single years, and I now enjoy my married life. The difficult part was other people constantly asking: "Are your married?", "Do you have any children?" Allah connected my Husband and I at the right time, and every thing that I experienced before him prepared me for my marriage. I now have a wonderful Husband, and two wonderful stepsons. We plan, Allah plans, and Allah is the best of planners. Make dua if your looking for a Husband but also live your life, continue to grow and become a better Muslim, Sister, Daughter, friend, employee, neighbor etc, etc. Enjoy life and count your Blessings. May Allah bless anyone who wants to get married and may Allah make it easy for you, Ameen.

[bloomscherry]

One time I wanted to pray for a husband in my Tahajod and during my prayer, in the first Sajda My lips moved with another duaa I didn't even plan!, and omg I was surprised that I actually didn't need to pray for a husband I needed to pray to become a better woman ...

[lisal]

Girl! I felt so bad being unmarried, not having my physical or emotional needs met, it was torture. Then I got married, I did not know torture until I got married! I can’t help but think that Allah protects the women he likes from marriage these days. I know no woman who doesn’t extremely regret getting married. Love and blessings to all of the single women. Enjoy your life, you have the ability to!

[deborah]

You are GORGEOUS ✨ trust me marriage is no walk in the park and I know it’s sunnah but it’s overrated as well. Live your life and love yourself and your husband will come sooner when least expected

[lilounana]

im 35 and single please pray for me .i m sure duas can change my life thanks

[sophiam]

Hang in there sisters. I am 43 will be 44 in few hours InShaAllah and I am still single....never married. Thirteen years ago, I came to the west and I got two masters and a PhD and I am an assistant professor Alhamdulillah. I am now doing research and apply for grants and stuff Alhamdulillah. I am also learning the Quran and I love it. I was unable to get married because of being too aggressive in my religion...it is actually the decree of Allah. Allah does not burden any soul more than they can bear. JazakAllah sister great advice. May Allah bless you! Aameen

[juanahalsafi]

I truly believe that if we focus on being productive every day spiritually, physically, mentally and emotionally then most of our energy will be spent on improving ourselves and enhancing our abilities wether it’s in your job, school, university, anything and marriage will come at the right time, it’s not your whole life, it’s part of your life! You will attract the right people to your life so truly focus on you and leave the rest to allah! You got this ladies♥️👏🏼

[wacanmohamed]

Make dua for me sisters am sick may Allah give evey single sister of us an excellent spouse Ameen.

[lulubellicious]

Don’t be sad ladies. Marry the right man, not marry right away! If not you’re better off single rather than sacrificing yourself for the rest of your life <3 I am happy that I meet mine, however Allah’s has plan for me. Currently TTC-ing for our 1st baby, that’s another thing that I am currently praying for. Pls pray for me ladies, as I am praying everyone who’s reading this a righteous husband aamin!

[aaisha]

The part where u said making friends with other single people who can understand what you are also going through has been a big help to me

[cookiejam]

This will sound stupid but I feel embarrassed about not being married. I’m in my late 30’s and I feel so old. I pray to Allah everyday but maybe it’s not the right time. Having sabr in one of the hardest things to practice. May Allah grant all the unmarried Muslim brothers and sisters sabr Ameen.

[renatina]

Sometimes I know for sure it’s a blessing not to be married! Allah knows what is in your path and what is best.
People think marriage is butterflies and rainbows but in reality it is an extreme trail and is very difficult. Adding a man to your life usually will come with many challenges.

[sarahbae]

I feel very unapologetic about being unmarried and I'm in my 30's.I have time to enjoy my company, travel and pursue a business venture.

I lowkey feel like the married ones are the jealous ones who try to make us feel bad about being unmarried.

[cherryblossom]

When you feel even the slightest bit of negative feelings towards married sisters in your friend circles, I think a great way to deal with that is to make Du'a for them. That Allah will keep them happy and blessed and give them more and more of goodness and harmony.

[lifewithklc]

I know that you are speaking to Muslim women in particular, but ALL single women (like myself, who is not Muslim) need to hear this. This is filled with so much truth and wisdom.

[mariamalmahri]

I pray sincerely pray Allah gives ALL you sisters exactly what you want in a husband and more Bi’iithnillah In Shaa Allah. Please make dua for me as well I'm looking for a righteous pious husband in this world and the hearafter jazak Allahu khayr sisters I love you for the sake of Allah brakAllahu feek

[Inhjhgfg]

This is the same thing with sisters that are married but can’t have children/have difficulty getting pregnant. It is always something with every situation

[SheCanSmile]

Shukrahn for this. I think getting married is easier than staying married. I am 34yo, I desire and wish to have offspring, a family, a Muslim husband and family. I make duah for and about it. And i am sabr-ing.