The TRUTH about being SINGLE in your 30s! The BAD Side

Being a single womman in India in my 30s has constantly garnered a lot of attention on my social media. Whether youtube to instagram! i am often asked questions about marriage and how am i still single and don't i feelits too late already for me and dont i feel lonely!

Also! I have noticed my videos. about embracing the single life and sharing with people how there are so many positives to it has triggered quite a few people! Alot of hate comments on those videos where people called me out for sharing a philosophy that doesn't apply to women in tier 2 and 3 cities in India!

Anywho! I thought why not i come here on today's video and share with you the not so good things about being single in my 30s! The struggles, the downsides that I have faced and still face...SO yes! A REAL TALK about being a single women in her 30s in India! Letsss goooo♥️

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[sohamchowdhury]

25M here, never had a girlfriend, all my friends are already in relationships. I started going to movies, restaurants, trips alone since I was 18. Best feeling ever. No drama. No extra kharcha. I can't trade this freedom for anything or anybody ever. Lonliness is truly a state of mind.

[sonujain]

being 30 unmarried girl . i m fed up with society, no frnds, no bf. cant talk to neighbours, reletives, avoid family functions. my parents is very supportive . everyone hates me bcz i m still unmarried

[lostandfound]

I am 33, single, i totally agree with you, coz all things r come in my mind too.But still like you i also taught myself to being self dependent, and also after my break up, before 30, i realised, self love is important

[Fierce]

U know 90% of people hate u for being happy n single... They want u to be sad so they can get the pleasuee to pity u 😂

[sulmanmanzoor]

Being single and 32 ....iam more than happy with myself but toxicity that often I feel by people, and Even by family.... Sometimes their signifying statement put me into stress and anxiety... Social pressure is hard to face.
From Pakistan.

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People to single women: "YOU WILL DIE ALONE"
Single women: "DO MARRIED WOMEN DIE WITH THEIR HUSBANDS"?

[reginageorgetownuni]

Living in mumbai and being a doctor, I see many people single in their late 20s to mid 30s. Seems like people are genuinely not interested in marriage anymore... Being single is not as unusual anymore. Especially in educated circles, people are not marrying as much

[iamprisheeta]

I am almost 30. And, just got out of a toxic relationship with whom my marriage was planned. But just before marriage, I decided to call it quits as that guy showed his true Colors. He was a toxic person. I am getting over my breakup. But, i have regrets. Only regret is that i wasted my time on him. But i am happy now. And, i think, i will have this loneliness in life. But i have decided to value myself first and not be in a relationship which will be toxic and where i will only cry and cant grow. Also, when i was in the relationship, i used to practice living alone, because i had this feeling i could end up single because of this toxic relationship. So, now i am working on myself and i will only go in a relationship if the person is calm and content. That’s it. But i am really happy. And, i dont think, being single is being loser. Single women are really strong.

[lakshitjuneja]

I am going through the same phase. I hope to meet you or someone who is similar to you. Being resilient and being a motivator are two distinct things. You are both. I wish I had your mentality and strength of character. I've primarily thought negative thoughts my entire life, and I hope I could meet someone like you who can really wake you up and push you.

[xazauhitra]

You’re exactly right it’s a shame how we internalize societies stigmas and distorted social norms, when it’s normal to not find someone right away

[Shreyas_Krishna]

Im actually "Alone" lost both the parents by 25 years(Now Im 25), no siblings, not in any relationship, just being alone at home and carving out what we do. Dont give a fk about what others do in others life

Just trust yourself and god. Maa Shakti is the mother and father to every socially orphaned child with no one

Being single in life losing everyone permanently....only those who go through that would under stand

[kadambarih.a]

About loneliness, me and my feiends are all single women in their 30s, we still dont get together that much because the older we got our priorities changed so much that commonalities went away, so its not only marriage that pulls friends away, its also simply aging

[chitra]

Just because we are thirsty, we shouldn't drink poison 😅

[SDPerimal]

i am going to be 40 this year and single and at cross-roads of career and this somehow comforted me….thank you!

[apoorvpandey]

I am 36 years old male. I am still single. But I am happy because I know that married life is more difficult.

[Manjulamanjula-tzjp]

I am 29 years still single, I didn't have any relationship till and I am depressed, I can't enjoy anything, I am feeling my life is wasted, I don't have any hope for Happy life

[spreefeech]

What an amazing video, I laughed so many times with you despite being depressed for the last few days because I was able to relate with most things. 34F, single, partly due to circumstance and partly due to choice, mostly choice now. Have super supportive parents, amazing friends and mentors. I felt super validated with this video, thanks for posting such wonderful content.

Edit: oh and subbed 😅

[Nishitosh]

I am 34 and happily single. Some of my acquaintance behave like i am missing a limb. 😂 But I am perfectly happy, and don't feel like having someone to disturb my peace.

[vasavikarlapudi]

I. Literally cried watching this video at the end. Every point you mentioned is true to the core😢but the ending was full of positive vibes. Lets hope for the better life ahead❤🤞

[malavikapadmanabha]

I am glad you are loving yourself, even I learnt the same in my 30s and I am so happy and content now. ❤