Dr. Phil Gives Honest Advice on How to Avoid Dating Narcissists

Dr. Phil has no problem being honest with a VFF audience member about why she keeps dating narcissists and shares tips on how to stop the habit.

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Dr. Phil Gives Honest Advice on How to Avoid Dating Narcissists

[candyhumpf]

“ I find myself lowering my standards just to find someone to be with” yep! Sounds about right:(

[sparklyunicorn]

I just met a narcissist today and he was mad when I wouldn't do what he wanted. The audacity of these losers!!🙄

[lisadiconti]

That was sweet what Dr. Phil said at the end to Mary. "You don't have to compromise."

[jadeheart]

Number 1....TRUST THAT GUT FEELING It DOES NOT LIE

[susanmcmahon]

Saw the red flags when I met him but was very young at the time, ended up married to him and had 28yrs of abuse, he had NO RESPECT FOR ME CHILDREN AND FAMILY, no values if I knew then what I know now woukd have RUN, only thing is have 3 grown up children and 4 Grandkids whom I ADORE so living FREE CONTENTED PEACEFUL LIFE NOW please anyone dating an Narrisist get OUT PLEASE, look after yourself 1st. I didn't know anything about Narrisists until 14 yrs ago. Had to learn the hard way, now he can have ANY WOMAN HE WANTS and I don't give a hoot.

[yvonne]

So many of them today! Fake no self reflection….. you can’t save them save yourself. God loves you you must love you more. Healthy love

[maddiemannix]

Love love love this !! It really hit me when Dr.Phil had said nothing is worse than being in that relationship for one month and one day. It took me 3 years to learn this lesson, and I wish I heard this sooner. Always put yourself first!

[lowbrowrodeo]

Haha, I was the same. “But you haven’t met me yet...” Knowing what you want is key in being able to recognize it in someone, I think. It’s just that it takes some time for some of us to learn what it is that we want.

[gigilovesgod]

Thank Lord, I detect Narcissistic person even over the phone 📱 yes, over the phone!!! By observing and analyzing the ton of voice and the words, I tell exactly what the man wants from me and, I do not trust or believe in any man until he shows that he can be trusted, another important thing, I do check if he has or had any criminal records! My life is precious to me, I love myself First!!!

[robertmixon]

Something I read on a wall where I used to get roofing supplies. If we always do what we've always done we will always get what we've always had.

[kiraalialeeonfairythegreenone]

Distressingly, some dates present a false, deceitful facade because they want something out of you. They have an agenda. They may put on a convincing show of courtesy, kindness and warmth for a period of time and it's only later that you see the cracks in their presentation and their authentic offensive self emerges. It can be very confusing and frightening. Even the most astute and perceptive individuals can be fooled and victimised. If you encounter such a personality... leave and don't look back.

[susans]

Yes listen to what they say. And watch what they do. How do they treat wait staff at a restaurant? That's a good clue.

[beemonique]

YouTube is full of great videos on Narcissism. To be exact,
Dr. Ramini is Awesome.
Assoc Direct is too and Lisa Romano.

[gingerrogers]

No, my husband was a con and a master manipulator. I didn't know who he was until we were married. I had no clue that he lived a triple life...was with four women and with men at the same time.He manipulated all of us. He was so charming and presented himself as the perfect man....I thought I had hit the jack pot with him....so did the other 3 women.

[MonaLisaFaceMusic]

It's tough though when they lie and say they want something serious and then act a fool... then when you end it suddenly you're the bad guy...

[terravulpestarot]

I absolutely LOVE this! Pay attention, do your selfs work and the right guy will be attracted to you in the end. or girl or whatever you're into!
Dr. Phil and his final words were everything! thanks for coming on the show Dr!
and thank you Drew for touching base on this topic, I sent the clip to my sister cause I feel like she needed to hear these messages too! <3

[blackcatseye]

I felt like he was talking about how I was.

[KoolT]

You don't want a bad boy. Look for someone kind.

[AB-hqvb]

Exactly Drew, we think « with me he’ll be different »
WRONG

[rawsiebee]

I'm a survivor! Still discovering the good parts of the old me and learning and discovering the healed me!