The Fantasy Bond | Fearful Avoidant

Why do fearful avoidants form fantasy bonds?

And why do they run away from people they have limerence with?

Watch the video for the full explanation of this phenomenon!

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[Valerie_Valkyrie]

This is very true of me. I'm off to the races in fantasyland and then they blink funny and it's over!

[yuiitodoro]

Yes, i almost waited for the strong push reaction to shut things down...cause i know that will happen

[missblondie]

The fantasy bond thing is the one thing i do not have and i am certainly an FA. The limerence can happen in my teens but as an adult not so much. I am so grateful for that because it can be so exausting 😔 But once i sence rejection or abandonment doesn't matter if it's romantically, family or in friendships i shut down so quick it's mind boggling even to me 🤔

[mirrorinsideout]

Thais, how do you discern whether a long distance relationship is legitimate or a fantasy bond?

[queenbeautyceo]

This is so me I be fantasyland and then sniff things and I be No where to be found

[BaseballDadAz]

She shut down very strongly, yes. :(
Her exit and persistence just doesn’t add up, until I consider the supreme trauma of your only son hanging himself a month after filing for divorce.

Nothing I wouldn’t do for that woman (and/or deny myself), to ease her pain…

[clandestinelheiaa]

This is me right now. I sensed some rejection from somebody and then I go away.

[nicholasbergman]

Where can I find a comprehensive set of attachment styles? I feel like I keep hearing a bunch of different ones but I haven’t been able to keep up