Secretly Gathered Evidence of My Wife's Affairs for a Month Before Blindsided Her With...

Secretly Gathered Evidence of My Wife's Affairs for a Month Before Blindsided Her With Divorce Papers. Now Her Mom is Mad at Me.

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[BlackE]

I wouldn't even call this a relationship. You're paying all her bills and all she does is sit around and cheat. Should've ended it a long time ago.

[CuteDwarf]

Her cheating on OP when they were still dating was already a clear sign that he shouldn't have married her.

[nicknitro]

She's trying to make up for it by ...*checks notes*.... doing routine house work.. such effort.
It actually sounds like she manipulated him.

[scaredpaul]

"this is the second time she cheated"...you lost me right there OP, you asked to be cheated on again by giving her second chance...

[DarkEinherjar]

OP's mistake was taking her back after the first cheating.

[MegaHarvickFan]

OP was effectively her adopted parent in this relationship. Got married, moved from parents to house to his and continued the upkeep just like her parents. Now divorced, she moves right back to her parents and picks up right where she left off and sounds like that is where she is to this day. She's literally a 30 something child living off their parents. That's the parents fault at this point. Keep enabling her and she'll just be a kid forever. Kids don't think about the consequences of their actions. OP is leaps and bounds more mature and just better overall than her. It sucks he didn't boot her to the curb the first time, but hey, better late than never. She will never forge any meaningful relationships because of her immaturity and selfishness. She's is gonna be a nightmare for her parents right up until they die.

[mexicanboy]

Dude forgave her for cheating once, allowed her to be unemployed and to drop out of school. To top it all off he was paying for her student loan. Impossible to feel bad for him. From his actions it seems he will not get a respectable wife since he doesn't respect or value himself.

[arcadius]

The OP is a doofus...don't go back to a damn cheater!

If she doesn't respect you enough not to cheat the first time then wth makes you think it wont happen again!? she'll just be more careful about hiding it! 🤦‍♂

[Mchl]

Bro says she is an open book to him, when he got cheated on for years without noticing 💀

[deathberry]

That's what you get for taking back a cheater. Once a cheater always a cheater.

[gajeelredfox]

Those last few phrases made me satisfied for the ending. IMO one of the biggest issues a person can have during these unfortunate circumstance is the anger. It's completely justified, but if the person doesn't get help to move past it, it really can ruin your life. Glad to see OP moved past the hate and can think about the situation without those emotions now.

[MMC]

I don’t know why but I am addicted to these Reddit stories even if they are fake

[skyure]

I think, why people who are with someone out of their league cheat ...

(No idea if that's really the case...)
But maybe it has to do with the fact of reinforcing to themselves that they ARE desireable, that they ARE worth something, that they ARE someone who their partner should want to be with, because OTHERS want to be with them too.
A sense of insecurity that gets 'healed' by getting attention from a lot of others.

[saadkhalid]

First Mistake: Cheater was brought back into your life during dating period.

[hunterg]

OP sounds like a door mat that finally got just enough self respect to get up and leave

[gwenrichard]

15:12 I think part of being "too comfortable" is getting rid of the guilt of an imposter syndrome.

[benny]

The fact that he was out of her league was probably one of the main reasons on why she cheated. The reason being she sub-consciously knew she didn’t deserve him so her actions were unconsciously guided towards ensuring it was a self-fulfilling prophecy.

[Ghostyisgone]

That women probably didn't know that OP could get a new women any second don't cheat on anyone way out of your league you will be replaced lmao

[gregoryrainsborough]

This is the second time this has been posted by you

[mgntstr]

He took back a cheater. What Could Go Wrong???