Are You Stuck in Limbo, Because of Someone Else?

Being stuck in limbo because of someone else can be super annoying, if not tormenting. In this episode, Teal Swan explains how to get out of this state of uncertainty that is unfortunately common in relationships, and not only in romantic relationships!

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👉 Who Is Teal Swan?

Teal Swan is a New Thought Leader and a Bestselling Author who is an expert in human development and relationships. She has over a decade of experience working with people of all walks of life with a mission to reduce human suffering.

Today, she’s also become an International Speaker, having facilitated retreats and life changing workshops in large venues worldwide. Teal was ranked 15th on The Watkins Most Spiritually Influential Living People in 2023.

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Beginning and Ending Song:
Teal Swan Intro by Christian De Raco

[babetweirdgirl]

When you are married, you are essentially in limbo together sometimes. To continue to move forward yourself with an attitude of forgiveness and patience toward the other person is hard work, but worth it.

[evazet]

Wow, what an incredible timing! I've recently been in an exact situation, where another person has been stuck in their repetitive cycle and I was holding myself back in order not to lose the connection...And I have finally realized that I need to go my way, do my things, listen to my intuition and take care of myself. The limbo state had become unbearable so I pulled myself back together and asked myself what do I really want. The answer was loud and clear, it was impossible to ignore it any longer!

[theyaelizabeth]

Had this EXACT scenario happen, when I told my partner I was moving out their response was “why does it feel like you’re breaking up with me even though you’re just moving out.” Then they proceeded to break up with me because they felt so hurt by my choice to move out. Some ppl want u to stay in limbo with them and feel betrayed if you don’t. CHOOSE CLARITY ❤

[andylyon]

Courageous acts on faith with no idea how it will work but clear where one is headed is the only thing that creates opportunity.

[silversurfer]

I believe this describes secure attachment styles and how it effects your attachment style if someone that you are with is not secure. Being able to be swayed by someone else close to you is proof of how secure you are. If someone starts singing a song around you and you start to sing the same song because they are shows how influential you are. The world today believes that you both should have the same song in mind before the music begins but in reality not everyone likes the same music and in that way we would have to be able to agree to disagree about our taste in that music style and yet still be secure with our boundaries before the music starts and try to make the music somehow work together and not against each other’s music. Mindfulness and forgiveness is the key or else we can spend our whole lives going through partner after partner trying to find someone who is a perfect fit for us. Sometimes we have to compromise which is the work that many are not willing to sacrifice.

[hesitantplanet]

This popped up on my feed right when I needed it and my first words were “whatsup universe”

[mikaylakruger]

I have been keeping my mother in a state of limbo.
I have been so uncertain of my future plans and never had a solid plan of moving out.
This video helped me wake up. Thank you Teal.

[stinana]

Going through this exact scenario right now, slightly more complicated because we have children together and my solid support system is 1000 miles away.

[kCrows]

I swear Teal always somehow knows exactly what I'm going through

[anonymousbee]

This is exactly what happened to me since past few years. And I've withdrawn way back to zero. Now all my power lies totally in me

[kal]

Wow! This is brilliant. "Stuck in limbo" is my Achilles heel. This really helped me get perspective. I hope to get unstuck soon. Thank you so much!!

[maurine]

This is my story word for word. It lasted 7 years. Ended it last year and as you might have guessed he didn't try hard to get me back or try to work it out with a therapist. As painful as it was, I'm glad it ended. I took my power back!

[GrowAndThrive]

I understand my lover's frustration now. The clarity that Teal brings me to so many different thoughts, feelings, and actions is remarkable.

[ellechemize]

Been with my husband 5 years and for 2 years I have been in this state of uncertainty, and the exact word I have been using is....

I feel stuck in limbo or the void, so I got certain all last year, of what I do want in my life and where I am going. I came to the decision that we need space I moved out yesterday, we are going to try 6 month.

I am still feeling rocky within myself, but going to Bali for 3 months to ground and reset. Not ready to give up on my marriage but need to take care of me for a bit.

My situation was word for word this video. Such a beautiful confirmation, and I love how supportive and on board my partner is.

[mariammimi]

This video is definitely for me. This video was made for me. I have been given the right pill for my relationship illness.

[gederinwinter-ut]

After watching countless Teal Swan videos I realize that I am not as weird as I thought I was !!! Thanks for giving me the ability to understand myself better Teal. You're cool.

[apothecaryjames]

it's very hard in relationships where one person has total control of the finances and the proverbial scales are imbalanced. I mean unbalanced to the point where there is nothing on the other side. When one partner is dishonest over and over, it changes the other persons reality. It alters their personality, their self worth, and even robs them of hope waiting on the day you are speaking of. When one person in the relationship has ALL of the control, nothing ever good comes of it. It's very hard to walk away from any type of relationship where children are involved and lots of time is invested in the relationship. Liminal spaces can be uncomfortable and sometimes staying positive becomes increasingly difficult. Not being totally honest with the other party screams narcissim to me. I am no psychologist, but I know the feeling of someone trying to drown you. Good thing I can swim. Thank you for this video Teal. It's speaking volumes right now.

[carrinmichaels]

My husband dismissed our divorce the same day I just watched this. I LOVE YOU

[noonenooneneither]

I never lost track of my genuine self...both eks were into addictions. Don't like mediocrity neither comatose. I was in ICU once and when I came back from my hospitalisation I promised myself that I wanted to live as much as possible truthfully to myself from now on. Volk with addiction ( s ) get gaslighted themselves by the entities.

[kylesapphire]

Sometimes I wonder what the world would be like if everyone embraced teals teachings. Alas I can only imagine…