POV: being the youngest child ♥︎ vent (desc👇)

Should I make one for the middle and oldest too?

[strawberrydonut]

I relate.
Some more downsides:
- Being bossed around by older siblings
- Being annoyed by older siblings
- Older siblings taking advantage of you
- Older siblings basically making you feel dumb when they try to take advantage of you but fail
- “Just wait until you get into *whatever*
- Living up to older sibling’s standards

Just being the youngest in anything
-Never taken seriously
- Everyone being better than you at everything
- “Oh, she’s just being over dramatic because apparently younger people are always just being over dramatic and don’t actually struggle with stuff.”

Yet people always say the youngest gets the best because the “pArEnTs lOvE yOu mOrE.” 1: That’s not our fault, it’s the parents. 2: Not always.
3: shouldn’t we have learned that internet standards usually aren’t true?
4: basically having extra parents that take advantage of you, bother you, always making comments about you, and basically bullying you.

Privileged. Smh.

[lemonpie]

As the youngest daughter in my family, im not allowed to get angry or sad. Otherwise im a spoiled brat. And when i distance myself from my emotions, or im more cold towards everyone, its just a phase and im being dramatic. Im not allowed to ask for help, cause then im an attention seeker. And i cant complain about the past cause "my older siblings had it harder." My sister has bullied me my whole life, and once i learn to fight back with words, im a gaslighting asshole. Ive been called a "pussy cat" and ive been shoved around. Ive been pushed to the ground and forced to stay down. Ive been bullied and forced to do things for my siblings. Oh, and once youre older and not cute anymore, everyone just flat out ignores you. My sister says im a spoiled brat. She was spoiled her whole entire life.. SHE HATES MY AUNT BECAUSE MY AUNT DIDNT WANT TO LEND HER A HAIR TIE.. and she started saying this sob story about her "being forced to keep her hair down"

[shrekly_nehe]

I’m the youngest. My family doesn’t care about me. I’m in none of the albums. I sit in the corner of the room in the holidays. We have 3 chairs for three different people. Mind you, my family has four people. I’m told that i’m spoiled. I get told by my friends that i’m ‘lucky’ and that being the youngest child is ‘easy’. It’s not fun. It’s not easy. I get compared to my older sister all the time. I get called lazy every time i sit down. They have me as the first option to exclude while going somewhere. Apparently i’m a disgrace. I have no one to talk to. I’m left out. My fears are ‘funny’ to them. It doesn’t matter if i’m scared, or sad, or angry, because there’s no one to comfort me. I’m told to get up and deal with it. I’m not allowed to take a break. I’m only used for cleaning stuff and finding stuff, or even just putting their phones on charge. They expect me to stay silent anywhere we go. The only time I talk is at school, but even then it’s not about this, it’s about OTHER people’s problems. And I always want to cry while listening to my friends rant because they complain about the craziest things. The other day, my friend was raging about how she didn’t get her new lululemon leggings. I don’t get anything for my birthday. No one remembers my birthday. I don’t receive anything for Christmas. No one remembers…me.

I’m, the *youngest child*.

[sudhirpaloli]

The internet has normalised calling the youngest as the spoiled or the most loved, but never as the responsible .My sister is away for 2 years at the University now i do all the household work just to be called lazy and listen to my parents curse at me. Just recently got my marks and i got compared . People need to understand that not every youngest child is spoiled.😢

[Jazz_.]

so im the youngest sister in my family and tbh it's not like everyone says. Its not always the oldest that go through shit, im not saying they dont but their trauma and pain is always highlighted but when we try to talk or vent about our problems we are told that we are the youngest we dont actually go through those kind of stuff and all that shit. We are always the second best at everything because the older sibling had already donr it so its not special anymore. Always the second option. We are always accepted to be perfect when the older sibling wasn't.

In my case, my older sibling has gone through some things and that's why i thought that maybe if i talked to her about my problems she would understand but no, i am the youngest i always have to be the ''happy child'' never be sad. I can never have a bad day, and never be too upset, but also not allowed to be too excited about something. I always have to listen to my elder sibling rant about her life problems and all but she never ever tried to understand my problems.

[azura]

I'm the youngest and am 18 now, and I always afraid of growing up since I was 10. Growing up mean all the perfect family images I have in my mind shatter and I will be the one to witness the other members' death at young ages.
I have to watch my family falling apart and I always have to be the one pull them together. My older siblings seem to think that I was the best choice to hold my parents together since I am the youngest - my parents'favorite. It was difficult to keep the family and I'm scared. My siblings all think I'm the favorite, but I know they are my parents'favorite. Its just they don't realize. Mom worry about the oldest. The middle talk the similar ways as my dad's. Meanwhile, I have to please both parents. I built my outside personality as childish, energetic and optimistic. I used to show my fragile side in personality (easy to cry, scared a lot of thing, ...), but I stop when I start secondary school since I realised that they don't like that side of me much and some find it annoying (my siblings). Sometimes, I think my best friend might know even more things about me than my family.

[everstars.]

im the youngest child and im scared to ask for anything or get anything because i feel like my siblings would see me as a spoiled brat even if the thing i want/get is really simple

[therandomcoldplaykid]

POV: why you shouldnt be the youngest in your grade

- very talkative
- that means getting in trouble
- getting in trouble means ur parents get mad
- when your parents are mad, they will ground you
- when your parents ground you, you will be sad
- when you are sad, you will cry
- when you cry your eyes hurt
- when your eyes hurt you have to go to doctor
- doctor is expensive
- when doctor expensive that means no money left
- when no money left that means no food
- when no food, you will starve
- when you starve, you will die
THATS WHY I HATE BEING THE YOUNGEST -_-

[Blawie_pix]

You forgot to add that the family are hiding or not telling family stuff or something else that they telling to your older sibling cause "you're to young to understand"

[vent]

I am the youngest but I can make one for the middle and oldest too <3 if u want. Also I would love if you gave me ideas for it!

[KvPotato]

My Sister-"I'm not your friend so respect me."

All I did was give her a

[angelinaxoxo-]

I once was the youngest but now I'm a middle but although I'm a middle child now I'm compared to everyone now just my siblings

[Haru_robloxYT]

As a younger sibling it’s a pain the ass my parents make me DO ALL THE CHORES while my siblings get easy treatment and sometimes I just wanna distance my self but it feels like I can’t and lastly NOBODY GETS ME ITS SO IRRITATING

[GumpyBottom]

this is relatable
no other words just that,

[Yourgojo-n]

It’s really sad/ annoying being youngest child

[morissaprice]

Atleast someone said it. My sister and brother are scrolling through youtube and we see a vid thats like " mom: clean ur room! Then she walks into the youngest siblings room and sais ur fine. My siblings are like true. I'm like no! The internet always saus that! It's so stupid and my siblings are like no! that's not true! My 🧠:😔😔😥😥

[S_R_C]

I just realized that none of my family will be at my funeral cause I’m the youngest…….

[quagsire]

Being the youngest I was never punished but even so my older siblings when they see me cry they are always constantly saying.”your over dramatic get over it you didn’t go through what mom or dad did to us” and I am always pissed of when they say it because out of the three of us my self esteem has been thrown out the window and into the garbage not only that but all my accomplishments have never been recognized by my family.being the youngest is dumb and it sucks.

[oceandeep]

-trying to make our parents happy
-Always trying to be happy/energetic
-internet says younger sibs and spoiled
-trying to hold tears when getting yelled at butfails
-getting blamed for everything
-always everyone says your too young to do whatever
-always left out
-tryingto be perfect
-describes my life

[cloudygirl]

OK YES WE HAVE TO WATCH EVERYONE LEAVE AND DIE AND THATS THE HARDEST PART