The main reason why relationships end - Sadia Khan

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[jamesbradley]

The main reason for breakups and divorces is SELFISHNESS. It is all about what one EXPECTS from the relationship. Whereas our Patriarchal parents knew it was about GIVING, not taking. It was about sacrifices for the partner and the family. Today it is all about ME, MYSELF & I and OUR happiness. And since everyone knows over 90% of divorces are by women, its always about the woman’s happiness. She cares not about her partner or the marriage. And usually it is always about MONEY. Money SHE wants; materialistic things SHE wants; always looking for something better.

[NostraVita]

This Woman is sooo right. I love to listen to her.

[raycoss]

That is so True, personal insecurities, Trauma bonds, co dependency

[Maurice]

Best Sadia commentary ever. She can go sideways sometimes, but this is spot on.

[timpope]

When people have alot of choices, they make stupid, selfish choices, and commintment takes disipline and self controll and most people have become to lazy to commit to anything except starring at their cell phone.

[kirkstewart-vfhg]

The fact is it takes two to tango regardless of if one person has more toxic traits.
It's never ever just one person's fault.
Communication is tantamount to a healthy relationship ...

[AlexanderMuylle]

I have given up a long time on having a relationship. From the beginning I make clear I am just in for friendship ...and that I enjoy too much living my life alone. At least I am honest from the outset

[klankie]

it's our individual selfishness and emotional instability. We "want something" in a relationship without contributing equally.
We don't want to work on ourselves

[hectorconteras]

Wow! She's spot on on Manny things.

[christopherdixon-vr]

We don't want to project on ourselves because that would mean that we are broken. Easier to blame and project our insecurities on others.

[zackedward]

I was blaming myself for the breakup But now I know it was not wrong

[kimnorjaxon]

WOW ! Thank you, that was eye opening!

[gwynnielsen]

This is SO incredibly true. So many people entering relationships don't take themselves into consideration at all. This is exactly what we need to do: take a personal inventory. The problem is that by the time we work things out with ourselves, the persons of interest might have taken off with others who might be more together :). When you get to certain age, you are so messed up from life experience that you are better off keeping things platonic so that there aren't any expectations.

[MARYAM]

im not with shamile.
for ten years we were barely together.
the only reason hes stuck to me now is cause he knows im clean and a money maker.
hes going real soon anyway.

[atanasshalamanov]

Man should stop selecting a woman with higher expectations than what he can give to her. That’s the key!

[bobdon]

This is a generalisation and please dont shoot the messenger but Unfortunately some women in their youth make bad choices and pick rich boys pretty boys bad boys immature and irresponsible men men with multiple kids by different women etc and all the men that other imnature women tell them they should desire. Women crave excitement and entertainment in their youth and don't want to be bored. Some Women make bad choices until they are in their late 20s early 30s and even into their 40's and blame all men for those choices then look around and there's no one left.There were nice guys that wanted them but they were too boring or nerdy or not cool or macho enough when they were young.
Their mothers should be educating them on the kind of men they should be looking for not their immature friends. By the time they realise its often too late.
Most women make great choices and have great long term relationships based on sound practical decisions and don't judge books by their covers but look deeper.
We all often pick the same kind of partner when young and have a type and keep making the same mistakes and if you could just have guidance when young this could go a long way to leading to happy healthy long term adult relationships.
Until this dynamic shifts it will only get worse.

[TheZygomaticus]

That was like a Miss Universe ultimate answer. Clear as the sun explanation.

It’s like the masculine and feminine traits are lost. The advancement of humanity becomes its greatest enemy, in a sense.

Money comes and goes,
Beauty fades,
Character stays. ☀️

[aquadisiak]

Happiest people I find are blue collar Latin families. They have fewer options, and strong family ties. There fun is centered around family gatherings. The more you have the more you want.

[matheusstotti]

OK SENSEI - LOOKING TO PUT LIGHT ON MY INSECURITIES

[Happy-Me.]

If she's lied in her past you can't trust her no matter hiw much she tells yiu that she has changed. As Maya Angelou said: When a woman lets you know who she is believe her!!