How to Say I Love You for the First Time

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If you get butterflies every time you see that special someone, learn how to tell them how you feel.

Step 1: Assess your relationship
Assess your time together. Every relationship evolves differently, but it's best to wait at least two months before saying the "L" word.

Step 2: Plan ahead
Think ahead to plan something special such as a night out, dinner at home, or ice cream in the park and seize the moment when it feels right -- but don't force it.

Step 3: Take a risk
Rely on your inner strength and work up the courage to let the other person know how you feel -- and be prepared to hear that they might not feel the same way.

Step 4: Give the person time
Give the other person time to adjust and think about it, and tell them directly to not answer until they are ready.

Tip
Be prepared to wait hours or even days for an answer. Don't rush the other person.

Step 5: Beware of digital traps
Beware of using either e-mail or text messages to say "I love you" for the first time. While they may feel safer, they are too impersonal.

Step 6: Be creative
Be creative when it comes to saying "I love you." Signs, notes, and other nonverbal cues can work wonderfully if you keep them personal and genuine.

Did You Know?
One of the oldest Valentine's Day cards written in English dates back to 1477, over 500 years ago.

[incze]

step1:say I
step2:say L
step3:say o
step4:say v
step5:say e
step6:say y
step7:say o
step8:say u
did you know love is a word

[iSkyBlitz]

Step 1: Say, "I love you."
Done
Did you know water is liquid

[kelseybug]

Why does the guy have a wedding ring?! :O

[MillieWillie]

It's harder for me though, the person I like we went out before. And now he has started talking and being nice to me, I am to afraid to tell him how I feel that I love him. Because he is in my class and he might reject me. HELP!!!

[cheekychupakabra]

i wrote that valentines day card in 1477, remember it clearly

[Sol-emvp]

I've kinda been in a relationship with this girl since 4th grade (I'm in 7th grade) and we haven't really been strong. All we do is the usual "hey what's up cya" and I feel like our relationship is like stuck or something. I want to say I love you and I want to advance in our relationship like hanging out and stuff but I don't know how.. how do I start advancing this relationship that has been kind of idle for the past 2 years? I don't know what to do next. It's more like we're friends than in a relationship.. how can I improve it? I just need advice if anyone can help

[Emily]

you will need a post it, a kitten

1. take a post it and write i love you
2. put it on the cat
3. give it to your girl
4. be prepared for scratches

did you know: the cat might pee on her?

[demiser]

@NeverWannaBeU she has a ring too so i guess they are married kinda weird they haven't said i love you yet.

[videogamenostalgia]

@Tamuz95 of course, that goes without saying...

[kodatastical]

When the woman refered to love as the "l word", it reminded me SO MUCH of a Scott Piligrim V.S. The World scene...
"... L word."
"Lesbian?"
"The *OTHER* L word..."
"... LesbianS?"
LOL. : -)

[thestarstarla]

yup they are married i saw a ring on her finger too @ 1:18

[ZzIiGg]

"I love you computer"
"I hate you bitch!"
"What the fu-?"

[Yombleflobber]

AWWW! KITTEN!!!
...wait, is she smelling the cat?

[Tamuz]

@videogamenostalgia dont forget the sandwitch making after wards

[AlexSepp]

2 months? damn, ive been waiting for 2 years now and still havent said it :D

[Elao]

step one: be ready ( wont tell you how hihi)
step two : tell her/him
DID you know we are humans!!!

[curazaissoawesome]

I've known the guy for 6 years :/

[pandaluv]

@NeverWannaBeU obviously this is a video for hopeless marriages XD

[TheWoshmc]

Step 1: Say "Blow me, bitch"
DONE :)
DId you know? Cats meow