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[marlineemmal]

"They seek to punish others who do not live on the narcissist's terms." In a nutshell.

[suzannedaniel]

No contact, yet the most difficult route to take. Only when you can step away out of the confusion and craziness do you begin to see what was happening. The whole scenario is alien to you because you don't think like them ... insane and chaotic. For your own preservation and well being ... shut the door, no contact and walk away. You are not responsible for the way they think. Pull the hook out that they have on you.. Your responsibility is ONLY to yourself and your own actions.

[joshuaanzalone]

They never get over that someone completely picked their mask apart.

[pagie]

Yep. You can agree with 99% of what they say and still they will say "You NEVER agree with ME!" If you state your opinion of course "You're wrong". If you can provide facts "You're always trying to prove me wrong". Stay silent and nod "You're ignoring me because you believe I'm wrong." If you just agree with them "You're patronizing me because you think I'm wrong." blow up, yell, scream, cry..They'll (smirk) and say "You can't expect someone to agree with you all the time. That's crazy!"

[loloify]

Great insight here. Sometimes we have to understand what goes on in the narcissist's head to know that they don't think the same way we do. Their priorities are pretty selfish. Even when they do good deeds, those good deeds are often meant to serve their own reputation more than help another. We have to remember these things in order to realize how hopeless it is to keep explaining and defending ourselves to them and to realize that the best thing we can do is to stop exposing ourselves to their manipulation. Thanks.

[ccrum]

I have always been surrounded by these narcissistic people father, sister, husband..as an empath I have always felt drained..I have now discontinued any contact with these individuals...of course they think I am nuts..

[goldilocks]

That is actually a really interesting way of looking at it: that they worked SO HARD at creating the character just for you, and you don’t appreciate it - which is probably absolutely true on both sides. Yes they did work hard at it (because they have to) and no we don’t appreciate interacting with a fraudulent person.

[jesalvarj]

I exposed my ex narcissist to her, and her alone. I've been smeared to people we both know, and it did sting at first, but every wound heals. I don't feel the need to defend myself, or tear her down to others. I heal more every day, and have gained more knowledge about myself from this experience, than any other.

[uchithahettiarachchi]

Biggest thing they never get over is their Karma! )

[annetteengelbert]

This is my son's ex. She's a total narcissist and doesn't want to stop being the horrible person she is. The part about lawyers and judges is so her. She thinks that she is above the law

[pietbliksem]

What we used to call a bully, or more correctly a petty tyrant, is now generally refered to as a 'narcissist'. If you check the relevant developmental psych. info on bullies as children this isn't glossed over or rationalised by their nascent self-love or so-called inability to feel for others. Bullies are simply bullies. Once they're adult all of a sudden we're supposed to pity this malignant petty tyrant who has worked his/er entire childhood at developing a predatory vindictive mindset in order to rule over their peers. We're supposed to accept and understand that they can't help this and that their being social bullies of one sort or another is a form of neurosis or even a psychosis they have no control over. Am I the only one calling BS on this? They know exactly what they'e doing, and that its wrong, because they will never allow anyone else to treat them in like fashion. I have no sympathy for these basically evil individuals whatsoever; and I don't refer to their bullying behavior as anything other than what it is. Narcissus was a self absorbed pretty-boy who fell in love with his own reflection. Calling someone this sounds so much better than calling them what they really are.

[stevecaldwell]

Been there done that never want to go back, dont miss it at all. Such a good

[KarenGriffith_SoulfulCoaching]

Dangerous individuals especially when you have experienced being triangulated by 2 of them.

[juliahunsinger]

Wow! As I am packing to leave the two narcissistic people I live with I am nodding and identifying with everything you describe, especially the court stuff they are currently involved with concerning their family. You had me laughing as it matched perfectly. I know thanks to videos like this that I have made the right choice and I am not crazy. Thank you so much for your service.

[ThisIsMe]

Good Morning, Elizabeth. You look lovely 💐!!
I identify 100% with everything you say in this video, having been in close proximity with narcissists throughout my life 💔. Thank you for your valuable videos which spread awareness, and enhance understanding of 'narcissism' in all of its ugly manifestations.

[mrsreginajrose]

The golden child of the family can disagree with them. I’ve heard, I agree to disagree, be said to the narcissist by my middle sibling and it shrugged off. The rest of us are punished or vindictively our lives threatened if we dare to stand and say I don’t agree.

[ruffraff]

Narcissist's aren't human and cannot be assessed by human standards

[johns.]

I find your knowledge and English accent fascinating, way to go..

[janetjones]

Lived with my narcassist husband 17 years got hoovered in another 3 years, he now hates me for exposing him for what he truly is, it was only when I got counselling that I was told he was a narcassist i felt physically ill and still trying to get back to who I was. They hate it when exposed to the audience they fooled.