Compromised Integrity - How Narcissistic Abusive People Take Control Over You.

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The Royal We has helped Millions to escape the grip of narcissistic abuse. Here’s a deeper look into what narcissistic abuse looks like and steps to heal from it:

Narcissistic abuse looks like:

Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often show little to no empathy for others, making it easy for them to manipulate and exploit. Narcissists use various tactics such as gaslighting, love bombing, and devaluation to control and dominate their victims.

Common Tactics Used in Narcissistic Abuse:

Gaslighting: Making the victim doubt their own reality and sanity.
Love Bombing: Showering the victim with excessive attention and affection to gain control.

Devaluation: Undermining the victim’s self-worth through criticism, belittling, and emotional neglect.

Isolation: Cutting the victim off from their support systems to increase dependency on the abuser.

Triangulation: Using others to create jealousy or competition, keeping the victim feeling insecure.
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

How to begin healing from narcissistic abuse:
Understand that you have been enduring narcissistic abuse. This awareness is the first step toward healing.

Get Help:

Establish No Contact or Low Contact:

Limit or completely cut off communication with the narcissistic abuser. This helps you gain emotional distance and begin your healing journey.
Rebuild Your Self-Esteem:

Engage in activities that boost your confidence and self-worth. Surround yourself with supportive, positive people who value and respect you.
Educate Yourself:

Learn about narcissistic abuse and its effects. Knowledge is empowering and can help you recognize patterns and avoid future toxic relationships.
Practice Self-Care:

Prioritize your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Regular exercise, a healthy diet, adequate sleep, and mindfulness practices can all contribute to your recovery.
Set Boundaries:

Develop and maintain healthy boundaries in all your relationships.

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[Traceyi]

The person I was before was a people pleaser and no way do I want to go back to that person who didn't say no and didn't listen to her intuition.

[Demebeso]

Once again..awesome video..100% truth..dont ever go back to who you once were...the seeds of your destruction are well planted there...never go back !!! Kevin!! Awesome Awesome

[izawaniek]

Thank you Kevin. It is absolutely vital to know who you are, what your calling in life is and do not Let abusive, toxic, narcisistic people to design your life for you meaning getting control over you.

[pamelarobinson]

I compromised my better judgement, integrity and wandered onto a shameful path with a mean abuser. I'm an older woman, and I thought I had better sense. By happenstance I discovered your channel.
Through your experience and coaching, my blinders have come off regarding narcissistic abuse. My empathic/codependent people pleasing psyche got slamed.
Growing up in a disfunctional home with a neighborhood of child predators and cluster B personality types abounding.
I didn't realize how effected I was
from all of that until the last few months.
Thank you and (therapy) for exposing this parasitic mayhem.

[winder]

If they never ask forgiveness (sincerely)... let them go to hell.

[kevindavis]

You're like a nice, friendly kick to the head! Thanks for bringing it back down to the structural integrity of it all. Work on your foundation and go from there!

[angelac]

Yes! I had a DEEP shame after the "relationship." I had sacrificed my integrity...serving at my church while sleeping with a man I was not married to. I found myself pregnant while he was sleeping with other women, even moving one in with him shortly after I caught him. Many, many red flags...but I do not blame him for me sacrificing my integrity. I was lonely, and in a period of spiritual immaturity. I liked a lot of things about myself at that time, but I don't want to go back to that person...sleeping with your boyfriend on Saturday night, serving communion on Sunday. Ugh.

[kayokk-]

Well put, and I entirely agree with your notes too. It's a sorrowful moment to relive every day with. Thank you.

[shawnadeyo]

You speak the truth even if you don't think we want to hear it. Thank you for that Kevin 🙏

[whiskeywine]

Brilliant point!
You don't want to go back to the old you

[timothywiebe]

Similar - don't let other people define you

[MayaNature]

IN those areas we dont love ourselves they will stab us and they will twist the knife until we notice there is actually a knife between the ribs. Simple. It does have to do with lack of self awareness when we compromise what is important, quite scary

[nancycaccioppo]

thai's right strong boundaries and no one can sway you

[momoffour]

Good stuff and very true. I would like to add that some of these people will try to guilt you by saying things like, "You think you are so much better than everybody else." or "You try too hard to be a perfect person." I have had these things said to me before. Don't fall for it. If something feels wrong about what you are doing or being asked or invited to do, that's your conscience speaking to you.

[suegable]

Thanks bro. I'm so sick of being told about the abuser. I don't care about him I can only change me f*** him.. trying to build MY skills not understand his crap

[aboveallelseguardyourheart]

What i've just realised is that a lot of us are looking for validation especially if it wasn't given to us enough when growing up, we do not need validation we are enough, its nice to get it some times but we don't need it all the time its ok not to get it. what i've learnt from your videos is that this is one thing that narcs will use to hook us, they get to us if we need something from him her and those blind spots can be different... thank you, hope you make more videos they are motivational

[ysanchez]

hi Kevin, your movtivating me to go to a shelter cause of waht your teaching...

[montelo]

This is one of those effective videos I've seen on Narc abuse addressing the deeper cause.

[bradmcewen]

Great analogy Kevin. I've always said you wanna learn about NPD, learn from someone who's been there, saw that it sucks & set out on a road to explore & strengthen yourself. Sure as hell dont want to be that pre-ex narcopath guy again. No f, in way. It's knda revenge karma to the maligned to self care. I just tell her thanks for waking me up. Hey..one other great quote I heard by Henry Rollins is when someone told him 'I've got your back' & the reply was "thanks but I want you to have your back". That's what your doing here my friend.

[khoavo]

It's easy when you're a "normal" sociable person. But as an introvert, I have to compromise.
What is the other option? Never talking to anyone ever?