#1 Thing to Look for in a Husband

There's really on one question you need to ask yourself about someone that you're dating to find out if they are husband potential.

[MAYBEE]

Honestly don’t pick someone based on something as shallow as being tall or charming 😅 I’ve learned that the hard way.

The man I’m with now has all the qualities I’ve been searching for in a partner: ambitious (we’re both physicians), kind, witty, in tune with my emotions and always does what he can to put a smile on my face, protects me, gives me advice on my patients even without me asking for his help (since we both work together), plans dates and spends time together even though we’re both so busy.
He’s also super intelligent yet humble, loved by everyone he meets, and doesn’t get quick to anger. If I’m sad, he notices right away and does what he can to lift my mood.
He remembers every little detail about my life. He’s also very family oriented and often talks about our future together.

He’s not my usual “type” but I fell hard once I saw how much we both started to care for each other and look out for each other, and once I realized I couldn’t stop smiling and laughing when with him!
Now I can’t believe I only saw him as a good friend when I first met him.

Look for these things in a partner!

[Becky_Cal]

Good advice actually! This would have saved me a bit of a toxic relationship I just got out of, had I asked myself this three times early in our dating. My friend’s mom said “You don’t only marry the man, you marry the lifestyle.” So ask yourself, is his lifestyle one you aspire to? Does his lifestyle interest you and align with yours? If not, there’s your answer….

[helenbostockrolle]

This sounds like good advice but it takes time to answer that. I was married for 18 years and never became my husband’s bad habits…granted they were the reason for our divorce but still. So now that I’m on the other side of it, starting over is definitely proving to be a process. I’m learning daily and haven’t found someone I really want to date yet. So far, I’m Ok with that. I’m open but not open to just anyone.

[gabrielamartiniuc]

That’s why I’m marrying a bodybuilder!! A bodybuilder is delaying gratification left and right. I also do the same ❤

[avishill]

Glad i picked a stable kind generous funny cleaver protector handsome provider.

[gabriellazagopoelman]

My husband, I discovered soon, had a lot of the qualities of my beloved father, and his qualities are mine too. He didn't teach me( my mother too) directly, just looking at his behaviour was enough to understand his important values . Actually the same my mother shared. Only now listening to you I realize it consciously 😮

[sunnysalmon]

cool, cos the guy I like is pretty awesome. he cares about ppl and runs a few non-profits

[maribelmejia]

Too funny, what if you're a single mom with no friends, I'm only around my kids, wow... That's not good, I don't want to be like a child @45 yrs old 😅

[nm]

So the main point is that the person you marry is who you will become just like them.

[nutech]

I don't have friends haha anymore after the dumb lockdowns.

I compete and a pro natty bodybuilder. I need a guy who is like me. I get berated from women for looking for compatibility daily 😂

[LadydogC]

Nope, i never became like them and they never got like me so bye bye.

[sophiachin]

Godly character, loving kindess and stability in every aspect. Oh heavens no... 😢 I don't wanna be like this one I'm kinda with. He has to repent and conform to God's Order or GTFO my life forever.