Why Did I Start Dressing More Modestly | MY STORY

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[jamisedenari]

Modesty is the policy in my life. I started dressing modestly about two years ago.I love it. i feel more feminine.

[sonderwvnder]

Im 25 and my style has shifted drastically, i love turtle necks and big tshirts. I used to be obsessed with wearing tight clothes and showing off my body. Im in such a happier place bc i feel like i finally FEEL beautiful!

[abbyhuerta]

25 and not gonna lie this age has made me realize modesty is best and so classy! Our bodies deserve to be a mystery 💕 it makes it more exciting ⭐️

[prettyacademia]

I’m 19 going through this change. Those tight clothes are so uncomfortable! I’m tired of being sexualized. I want people to like me for me not my body.

[MissSascha]

I use to dress very sexy too and I switched my whole wardrobe because I got tired of being sexualized. I had various relationships that were damaging to my self esteem because I was only valued for my appearance. I have notice I feel so much better being more covered now.

[stacyrensburgoliver]

I’m kind of a Tom boy kinda girl and was in a phase of wanting to dress sexy because of social media influence. And I used to like positing pics of me in underwear to get attention and likes, I feel disgusted when I think of it. But now I just want to present a more authentic image of myself.

[LolaFulana]

Honestly can relate to your story. I stopped dressing sexy in my mid-20’s because I didn’t want to over-sexualize myself anymore. There’s power in dressing modestly.

[paolacruz]

I always like how your “hey girl” seems genuine every time we

[Ang_Nicole]

I’m not a Christian however, I have experienced this for myself. No amount of clothing will ever change that men will still objectify/ sexualize all women, but it certainly feels great to wear classy articles of clothing and be noticed for more than my body. 😌

[tiana]

I was always a tomboy, I drastically changed my style to classy but I always been modest my mom teaches me at a young age that no matter what you are beautiful she said you don't need validation from anyone but yourself.

[abronxnative]

Sis you’ve outgrown the social standards that society has placed on women y te aplaudo 👏🏻✨ it’s so beautiful to see your growth and see you continue to inspire other women, especially the young ones! I believe we all have more to offer as people than our bodies. I appreciate your delivery on your own personal preference and how mindful and gentle you are to not offend those who think and dress differently ☺️ but it’s important to acknowledge and self reflect. Wear sexy and be sexy for yourself don’t wear sexy for others validation. 💁🏻‍♀️ she did that y’all 🥲🤧 love you Stacy 🤍

[Leoo]

Phenomenal video. I can confirm from a man's perspective that I personally never look at a woman that shows more skin as a serious dating prospect. There is a physical attraction, but it's also a red flag. I look at a woman that dresses classy as more mature and self-respecting, and I feel like I would actually be able to connect with her.

[alexatoribio]

I like that your message here isn’t “cover up” but instead to follow what feels right for you. The meaning of better dressed is subjective. I’m in a phase where I’m trying to accept my body as a woman who struggles with PCOS weight gain and being a foodie at heart. It’s hard being told you’re beautiful when it’s not what you see, and change doesn’t come over night. That being said, I’m challenging myself to show my body more as a way to celebrate my “flaws”. I’m doing that by wearing whatever tf I want without worrying what others may think or si se me be la lonja. I hope people take your message as a way of learning to encourage each woman’s journey instead of pointing fingers and making their judgement heard out loud. 🙏🏼

[yasminaa_d]

This has always been my style but because I genuinely love fashion and looking timeless. In my last relationship when I was 18-20 I felt bad about myself because my toxic ex preferred the “ig baddie” style and that just wasn’t me. I’m 22 now and still love my style and think that people should embrace who they are and what they like always no matter which it is.

[greciareyes]

Im literally crying as im watching this❤️. I was so wrong thinking the more i showed the more men would be after me. And yes they were but ONLY for sex. I got TIRED of being sexualized, got TIRED of men taking me just for “fun” . I feel so much better, confident and empowered now that i fully understood that beauty comes from confidence! And i feel better dressing more modest! Thank you so much! And im so excited to start this journey!!! 🥳🥳🥳

[lorealdonae]

I started being more modest because Idk something happened in my feminine/ life journey when I turned 25. Like you, I was getting older and I was being more attracted to the “rich” and “modest” look. I also got my breast done at 23 so I wearing a lot of revealing clothes, just want to flaunt my stuff. As the years went by up to 25, I started to hate the attention I would get from men! They were disrespectful and I just wanted to cover up to avoid that attention because I was more than what I appear to be. I also wasn’t as put together back then. The minute I switched up my style, I started to attract older and more elegant men. I started to get into perfumes and my perfumes were heavy hitters and just sophisticated and sexy. Now (26) I really put in the effort to look polished, very modest and nice to match the scents I was wearing. I am smart, beautiful, and powerful so when you see me, my clothing and my scent will project how I want to be perceived. My relationships with my friends also changed and the men I’ve known from the past, respect me more as well.

[fibrahimfi]

Please do some modest wear hauls, I am a Muslim and I would love to have some modest wear inspiration.

[dani-zhpi]

I’m 23 as of yesterday and this is definitely something that’s always been in the back of my head but wanting to stay up to date with trends made me reconsider elevating my wardrobe. THIS IS THE SIGN THAT I NEEDED TO STOP DOUBTING MYSELF!! Thank you for the the constructive thoughts you provided Stacey!! 💕

[KassinMarie]

I’m 21 and a senior in college and I LOVE that someone is finally speaking about this. Thank you for sharing your journey and your wise words. You are helping so many young women ✨

[stephanieo.]

For the girls, gays, & theys---- Who else is obsessed with having a neutral colored wardrobe? I started buying more basic clothes in neutral colors and I feel like I can more easily put outfits together! What's your grown bishh style look like girls? I never know what shoes to wear :(