The *Best* Ways to Reward Your Submissive | Ms. Elle X

The *Best* Ways to Reward Your Submissive | Ms. Elle X

In response to My video “The Ultimate Guide to Non-Physical Punishments,” (linked in video) many in My community asked about the opposite…submissive rewards. What are some ways to incentivize and reward your submissive or slave for good behavior and enthusiastic obedience? So, stay tuned today as I discuss THIRTY creative and effective ways to reward your submissive! XOXO, Ms. Elle

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#relationships #advice #lovelanguages

[thomascorcoran]

Since you asked - Story time works great for me with my littles - They melt when you give them a bottle with their favorite drink while you read to them. Ironically, my brat recommended I watch your videos, as did a clinical therapist specializing in Kink dynamics. Gotta love it when your submissive wants to help you grow into the person they need.

[MightyMissE]

This video makes me all subby puddly...so many wonderful rewards that just make my little sub heart bubble. Thank You for this amazing list, so much focus on punishment and sexual gratification- often times the simple little nuances get forgotten <3

[hourglasseyesflipping]

My previous relationship ended recently. It was a poly D/s type with multiple s types (me being the only 1 who lived at home with her and serviced her 24/7) long story short i did pretty much all of the tasks and received very little reward as when I would have a day off Ma'am would be spending the day with one of the other subs T_T i miss her but i always felt underappreciated and now i'm here feeling sad still....

[mojojojo]

My guy & I took the LL test when we first started dating & I've recently been thinking of having us revisit the test. Still working on my confidence to Dom, and this looks like a perfect tool with the test to help myself out ❤

[JoshuaSAlt]

I just went to YouTube to look up your 30 Rewards and it’s at the top of my suggested. Your video on 30 Punishments was fantastic and really helped me. Watched it a second time with my wife just so she knew what I could do to her and I need to make sure I punish with Love not anger. I think it might even be better to hold off on the punishment until the possible frustration subsides. Anyways Thank You.

[elinepieters]

Being rewarded is one of the best things for me

[onepunch]

You're the only one who talks about it thank u mistress 🙇

[atreyfall]

For what I experienced this is so important and a lot or people forget it. Personally I love seeing the emotional reactions and that includes the reaction to the reward. When she is doing a sexual act, that I like and I say: "good girl" and I see how she reacts to that, it arouses me.

[DrukenReaps]

Looking very vampiric/goth today. Love it! Good point about not doing these all the time or every day.

[jmatoske]

Excellent! Thank you very much. I love that you incorporate the five love languages and have separated physical touch from erotic interaction. People often get those confused. I’m a switch and I would literally pay to have someone pet my head!

[shadellehalfpenny]

I always write for my little but I show her when she’s been good in a few days we are going to write a list of rules together what she wants but we both agree on

[SunkenButterfly]

You're explanations of the dynamics within these videos are wonderful 😊
Thank you Miss Elle X ^_^

[N-VAMusic]

I find that I perform a lot of these in relationships without the BDSM context. Feels like I'm more in tune with the care side over the punishment side.

[MarciMonzter]

as a submissive guy this was very now if i just trust people again.

[Ilwonsang]

Your videos are a great service to the community, thank you! Could you please do a video on how to reward your ONLINE sub?

[aganowak]

Miss I love your content you’re spreading the so much needed knowledge in such a beautiful way! I was wondering if you could make a video explaining how to know if someone is a material for a submissive and in time could become one. I know you Miss have already made a video on how to spot a fake submissive. I’m a real newbie and I’m just stepping into a BDSM community and I’m still confused if I’m a material for a submissive or if I would like it. I’m in general a very dominating person but I love having some kind of superior power over me and someone who can guide and teach me, it was strange at the beginning to like to give up the power over me to someone else, but I can’t really stop thinking about it. Is my general character a obstacle that I can’t be face? I just don’t want to commit to someone who knows what she/he wants and then disappointing them or making them angry. Thank you so much.

[nivekzorantinez]

huh, informative. I recently met a Gal, she is a Sub and said I had given her Dom vibes.. Honestly, I always figured I was one but I only seemed to use the Dominate side, all commands and figured that if I showed my natural loving state, I'd lose her interest as a Sub. But this has helped me realize, I can still be a Loving Person and a Dom. ^^ I even learned the things that attracted her to me was due to the Affirming Words.. but I stopped using them because I just assumed I could just be a Dom, it's my first time but even I noticed something was wrong and I just had to learn how to be a better Dom for her!

[rionka]

I'm very delighted by this list and also by the fact that i am already lucky I've got a lot of these 💜💜💜 thank you

[danielbetz]

Me and my sub use your videos as our guide. I guess I would consider you our coach.

[asheshurricane]

Here’s a question
Is aftercare a reward?
Because when you look at it technically, it kinda seems like it. Aftercare is given after a scene as a way to show affection and care. So when you really break it down, it seems like aftercare is a reward, albeit a very important one.