If I have to be a narcissist, I’m going to be the best I can be at it

If I have to be a narcissist, I’m going to be the best I can be at it

[Faythe]

Not only are you getting help, you are helping others. You should be proud of that.

[daviedood]

In reality, narcissist DO have some amazing skills that they've developed over the years. Those skills can be used to cause major damage, and hurt people, badly, or it can be used for good to help others.

It's like a lock picker. Professional when it comes to locks. Can either break into folks homes cars etc and Jack things, or help them if they lost their keys or left them in the car. Mr Lee is choosing to use his skill set to help others.

[thesavagereservation]

Whether npd or not-- we all need to work on ourselves and our negative behaviors. Lifelong work, my friend... Thx for what you do!

[teyuana]

Don't know you but I'm proud of you for recognizing and admitting you have a problem and you are working on it you are truly an example of a person taking ownership and working on his issues.respect

[tessalynee]

You should be proud that you’re getting help and trying to be the best version of yourself. No sense in feeling shame over something you can’t change. You’re changing your negative behavior and using your NPD to help people which is the best thing you could possibly do so I don’t understand why someone would be mad about that?

[dainese_]

Exactly you should be proud for who you are no matter what petsonality disorder you have ...you work you are helpjng others you are a great person...God bless you forever!!!!💖

[jessicamerced]

This is great to hear, I understand how you feel. I don't have NPD but I have BPD and have been getting therapy for about 4 years. All we can do is continue therapy and learn to cope in healthy ways. I can see that you cope in healthy ways and there is alot to be proud of! 😊

[triplejmom]

I’m glad you’re getting help & using your disorder to help others. If only more people did this the world would be a better place. We can only do the best we can with what we’ve been given.

[Morealiens]

heck ya! 😇 your taking ACTION!! We ALL need 2 be active n elevate! life long journeys here.... all of us 💯

[traciepratte]

Your story helps others and can help other couples withstand the confusion. I lived with one and was married to one, its no fun when they never see the repeating life of same issues over and over. Besides driving me crazy or making me think I was anyway. Helps MANY JUST hearing themselves inside another person. It helps them to see they arent alone and there's ways to help their situations. Some are uneducated because they NEVER had a person to help when in school and anger was the way out of situations. Causing more issues including leaving school.

[queenbee]

I'm BPD and bipolar with psychosis been diagnosed over half of my life. People have said to me before you act like you're proud it's never been about feeling proud it's about the fact I've accepted that I have these diagnoses and well its part of my life now... keep spreading your truth 💯🙏

[metal.queen]

Realistically, we all have some degree of a narcissistic tendencies within all of us. I’ve unknowingly displayed a few tendencies in the past, but luckily for me, it doesn’t take long for me to realizes any of my negative actions/responses and feel so bad for them, because my level of empathy runs VERY DEEP within my soul.😁🕊

[triplehelix]

You have helped me so much with identifying red flag AND acting on them.

[anyaoblon]

Right on....I needed to hear this today about being on a journey. Things have been very rough lately

[thedancelearner]

Im proud of you and admire you fir coming out to educate us. You have no idea how many survivors get validation from you !!!!

[brandydalton]

I'm happy for you and your wife and your children for what you've done and still doing. People are rude that say things like that to you.

[autumnenchantress]

I totally have respect for what your doing you are helping so many people understand this disorder I truly thank you as an empath who has delt with a lot of men who I believe had NPD you are doing a great job for humanity

[FleaAlycia]

pls note that it's a "PERSONALITY DISORDER" and it's not define someone identity. ✨

[cynthiafortier]

Your doing so good, I'm proud of you!!

[BadBaby]

And you should be proud Lee. You've surely helped me a lot....confirmed all I've known for some time. If we ever meet....dinner on me for you & the wife!