Girls Will Avoid Men Who Display THESE Red Flags

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Girls Will Avoid Men Who Display THESE Red Flags.

When you first meet someone and you fall head over heels for them we can sometimes develop what people called ‘rose tinted glasses’ which essentially means that in your eyes your love interest can do no wrong whatsoever. But it also means that any red flags that they display will be tinted by the rose colour and just appear as normal flags.

Red flag is a term used to describe a toxic personality trait or something that somebody does that others don’t agree with. It can be as simple as not saying thank you to somebody, or as extreme as murdering somebody. Of course these are two completely different ends of the spectrum but are both bad things we don’t want to see in our partners.

So how do you know if you have any red flags? Sometimes it’s hard to spot the red flags in ourselves because then that’s admitting a flaw within ourselves that we may not have known was a bad thing, because we’ve done it for so long without consequence. But fear not, we’ve done some research and found a few flags that we can raise for you so you can check if you’re a green or a red flag. So on your marks, get set, let's get into the video…

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Jealousy, controlling behavior and double standards ARE narcissist traits.

nerifterafrnam
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Interesting video Anna.
Another red flag is her unrealistic standards copied from movies and toxic tiktokers. Texting and sending photos to other dudes is also a major 🚩. Honestly if someone is taking drugs and things like that they should not be in a relationship with someone who does not. Plus in my country you'd end up in jail and special monastery or rehab that you or your parents pay out of their/your own pockets for a long time.
Any for of narcissism is a red flag.
Looking great Anna😘 love the new thumbnails😃

oliverpetroski
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I think it's important to differentiate jealousy from control. When somebody is extremely controlling that's a way more serious, agregious mistake than simple jealousy. Jealousy is natural, it's called competition. If you're feeling jealous it's because you think you're being denied something that you want and somebody else is getting it even though they never even really tried. They're not involved, really, with the person so at that point if you're feeling jealous that's your first sign that you're probably paying attention to the wrong person.

TLH
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RED FLAGS:
1.JEALOUSY.
2.CONTROLLING.
3. DOUBLE STANDARDS.
4. MANNERS.
5. NARCISSIST.
6. SUBSTANCE ABUSE.
LISTEN TO ALL CONTENT FOR MORE DETAILS. THANK YOU CUTE JOYANIMA 😘 🌹 ❤️ ✌️ 🇵🇷 👋

RamonCruz-twcf
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Hey 😁👋🏾, you encouraged guys to mention traits that are a red flag: for me a real red flag is when a woman shows interest, yet, by the same token, seems to either "ignore" or pay scant attention to what I tell her. We all have a need to be seen, heard and accepted (among others) and "being payed half attention to" is a major turn off for me🤷🤦🏻😁

jerryzondervan
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I agree with all but jealousy which has very fine line. If a partner (woman or a man) puts himself into a controversial situation knowing that it may upset his partner and not willing to discuss and meet in the middle then jealousy is justified. Let me give two examples:
1. Jealousy NOT justified : A woman talks to her male friend or colleague, has lunch with a group of people which includes males or is just friendly with other men assuming no physical barrier is crossed. In all other cases her man is invited to be with her while meeting other men, meaning he is open about it and her man has the chance to be present.
2. Jealousy justified: Has tons of male friends and hangs out with them one-on-one, has a male BFF who is not gay and always single and shares with him everything, dinner with other men even if it's work dinner (no need to have work dinners with other man to discuss something you can do during the day), vacations with her male friends or male bff, sleepovers at other man's place unless she has is stranded in another country/city with no money or her life is at danger, keeps contact with all of her exes despite knowing they still have feelings for her...

petermaloney
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Smoking, you don't want too see someone you love slowly killing themselves

sinusgolf
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-Manners is really huge for me. Because it tells you how a person was raised.
- Controlling - there is a difference between "can you not---?" vs "Don't".
- Another red flag for me is when the guy starts talking sh*t about his previous relationship/s. Regardless of how badly your last relationship ended, I would you keep it personal and quiet. It has nothing to do with me and you. Besides, I personally don't like prying someone else's exes.
- He texts you and other girls as well. mmm.
- If he starts showing off - his money, his car, his position, - I would rather hear your plans and ambitions, where you at now in your life.
- If your friends tell you he's a walking red flag, believe them.

I don't usually trust what the guy claims he is. I look at his friends instead and how people around him regard him.

dimpledimple
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A girl I like is showing a lot of these signs. I'm compelled to ask her out for a date. Thank you coach

palm
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Red flag is going to be my Halloween costume. It's the most scariest costume, ever so

willardSpirit
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Hey Anna, it should also be noted that men aren't the only ones that would be likely to exhibit these red flags

Women can be just as guilty of this as men

karlsmith
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Hi Joy. Please what of if she's chatting with other guy who flirt with her?

razrsliq
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Treatment of strangers the shop assistant that serves you, the waiter/waitress, barista, the bar staff if you go out with them

leeklass
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Thank you so much I love your videos ❤

thomasharvey
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Yet, women will marry these men anyhow. As my Beloved deceased grandmother used to say " love is deaf, dumb and blind."

chrisdrummond
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When you take a girl out and she dresses to impress other guys, and uses the " just to prove I've still got it" excuse

Motorhead_England
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1. No money.
2. Bad credit.
3. Live at home with momma
4. Warrants out for his arrest.
5. Clothes that haven't been ironed since Moses brought down the tablets.
6. Riding shotgun in a hooptie with no insurance.
7. No job
8. Teeth with more calculus than an advance mathematics class.
9. Is on a first name basis with police.
10. Picks his nose and admires his boogers.

charlesyoung
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I'm golden I'm not saying I'm perfect or anything, I'm just saying that I have none of those red flags. I do have some flaws

jaysartori
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So basically, don't be a narcissist. 👌🏻. Also, wonder if she is married? Don't see a ring 😂.
Trust has to be developed by both people in a relationship. So for example, if your guy or girl is ALWAYS out partying and welcoming risky attention from everyone with two legs, that is also a red flag, which can easily cause the other to want to remove them from those spaces. If you're in a committed relationship, mind, body and soul, you should not, in theory, be wanting to seek attention from everyone. 🚩🚩🚩

_saltysage_
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Those red flags are on a two-way street. Women are even worse at those red flags then men.

dr.michaelr.foreman