Guys Dont Just Wanna Be Friends...

[juan_julianos]

Lowkey facts... Subconsciously I do this as well. Needed this.

[DoKiss_]

They are not friends, they are patient guys

[KusmaUksus]

The wolf in sheeps clothing and these women decide to close their eyes and pretend that thats not the case

[gamingwithadutchman]

7 years of having my bestfriend theres no romance or attraction. Just sibbling behaviour we do dumb stuff together we fight and we laugh. Each of us has a partner but theres never been a moment where either side wanted more.
There can be an exeption to the rule.

[edi]

Honestly at one point I thought this was true, but then I stated having friends whom are girls whom I am not attracted to

[tonydoeslifts]

Sad thing is I used to be the guy who tries to be friend with that girl. We talked alot until I found out she had a boyfriend all along. It felt sad, very. For 3 years. But I have to go. It's a sin to commit adultery and cheating. Been a month and things are going straight. Yeah she is doing good, if the guy she like makes her happy. I'm happy for them. God bless them. I'll just be going my way. I'm sad but what can I do except moving on. I hope you guys all the best of life. God bless you guys.

[piyushraoo]

The sad part is a lot of these women KNOW that these guys wanna smash . My ex literally said to me “it dosnet matter if they have feelings for me because I don’t feel the same way about them “ . She didn’t even tell some of them that she was in a relationship because she didn’t want to lose the constant validation and attention she got 💀

[liz_]

I just stumbled upon this and it sounds more conscious to me now. I have a guy friend and we've been like best friends for almost 5 years, I don't want to end that at all but at the same time I want to stop disregarding the intuition that it feels more different that how it used to feel around him anymore

[lukiso]

I used to be like that when I was a teen, now i just move on if i see its off, but from focusing on my fitness and life, I get way more "options" (it's not like you pick and choose, there is that level, but just alot more girls are interested in you) also gotta stop your mind from making fantasies and scenarios and stuff, they fart too. (Saying this as I wish I've seen it when I was younger). Build your life so you are good and then find someone to join together.

[xCestLaVie]

Women arent naive Hamza, they know exactly what is going on even before men do. Majority of women know that their male best friends have a crush or admiration on them.

[kermitsippintea]

I’m not an exception like many men like myself but there are women who are genuinely friends to me. I’ve met so many women on my college campus who I’ve hung out with got coffee with and compared notes with and then studied together who I’m not remotely attracted to in the slightest bit. I just like honest caring considerate and loyal people who I befriend and some happen to be women. So while I do agree with majority of what hamza says I think the genuine platonic female-male friendship lies in the man genuinely not being attracted to the woman and can just appreciate the great friendship qualities that woman offers. I don’t think women and men can’t be friends I do see how if the woman is very attractive to the man subjectively that can be an issue as far as the intentions of the man being questionable later down the line but to outright say every man at some point would want to hook up with a female friend someday is false.

[indrajit]

Its almost impossible to find a guy who actually sees a girl as his friend

[Suraksa_X]

Bro i really wished my girl saw this before we broke up😂😂

[TiaC]

We can't claim this as a general rule. It only applies if there is attraction.
If not, whether because the girl is not attractive or she is very attractive but simply not his style, then a true friendship can bloom between them.

I'm a woman, considered attractive and sexy, and I've been friends with 2 guys for more than 15 years. They had plenty of chances to make their move and never did, because they never intended to. No attraction. We've been there for each other through the worst times of our lives and I am so grateful for their presence in my life.

So, in my opinion, as long as there's no attraction, a friendship between a man and a woman IS possible.

[yas]

Sometimes I get like these thoughts, even tho I don’t want to. At least I have no plans for it

[dukeisme]

Most of the girls are aware that which male friends have crush on them and some even do light flirting with them

But they don't care about it as long as he is harmless or useful

[Eliamarinii]

i don’t know why, but I’m crying, this guy is fucking awesome.
I love you Hamza❤️

[Phrawstqt]

Did it to. Thought it would be better than losing her - never lose yourself, your values or boundaries for anyone boys.

I thought selflove was narcissistic and love should have no demands. But we are so lonely and craving for external love/validation, it is easy to get hooked on basic „friendly“ behavior or having someone there. But someone who puts himself first wont lose his boundaries. And someone who loves his friend would never accept the same behaviour without speaking up.

[adamz]

It dawned upon him just now 😂😂.
Actually the girl knows what's going on but she's enjoying the attention and validation

[nivethonj]

Guys can be friends with a girl if they aren't attracted to her, its the only exception