Sex Before Marriage

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[Jesussaves]

This is why I love Ben! He is logical, sensible, rational, moral and a good role model. God bless you!

[Paustian]

I'm 28 years old and still waiting for marriage! ❤️ Thank you for saying this Ben! I love your content!

[Nightwizard]

I've never had sex before, but I'm 18 and heavily struggle with porn. I'm a Christian and I know how bad it is and I want to let go so badly. I've prayed and I've tried various methods to stop and I kind of feel like giving up. So if I could ask for some prayers from you guys that would be heavily appreciated. Again I want to let go, so badly... but like a dog I return to my own vomit

[priscillajimenez]

I'm a 33 year old virgin. had opportunities but told them I'm waiting for marriage

[optic]

HE is right. I did it the wrong way, and I will live with the consequence for the rest of my life. I have owned up to it, and continue to better my lself as i move forward.

[deeg]

Most sins we committ are projected outward, toward other people and things. This is an inward projected sin, which is the most harmful of sins one can committ. You're betraying your "self"

[inspecta]

I wish young people would listen to this, it’s so important for them to hear this!

[NotBlindfolded]

Just got back from my honeymoon and I 100% agree. Both of us were virgins and tbh while literal sex was great, don't get me wrong, it was nothing compared to the emotional intimacy we both have. I enjoyed shopping, cooking, and cleaning with him as much as sex... because I love him.

[priscillajimenez]

a few weeks ago I had a guy insult me, pushed me aside and later cut me off after only knowing him a week because he wanted to have sex and I rejected him. he knew ahead of time but said if we were to date he'd want it at least once a week. I'm Christian. he had the audacity to say we can have sex on Saturdays and I can go to church and repent sunday. no respect...

[BlockBusterBoy]

Thank you for posting this. I am grateful i have tried to wait for as long as I can without making major commitments and changes.

[thanosianthemadtitanic]

i have found that commendents are not just orders from god for no reason, but truly to protect us from ourselves.

[ormorecharacters]

Agreed. These days people treat sex as meaningless as a handshake. Makes it harder and harder to fall in love huh?

[elissa]

Well said.I am a Muslim and like your words every time more n more

[ChazeGeyer]

What has made it even worse is confused, struggling men have the immediate porn outlet which superficially gratifies them but in the end leaves them even more empty

[Drayton]

I am 14 and I hate everywhere I look and see everyone says to do sex before marriage my parents have always told me not to and I think that's awesome

[someguysomeone]

Literally the majority of people who spent their youth whorring themselves and then find love say they regret it and would rather want to have had their first time with their intimate partner.

[carolstevens]

Yes and it’s in the Bible that we abstain from sex until marriage!!

[final]

HE'S RIGHT AND WRONG ABOUT THIS.

He's right about the important value of family and marriage, but true love can exist between 2 people in a relationship, and proper level of intimacy and commitment are important part of that.

Which is understandable because he hadn't had either psychological experience (like moving in with someone) or physical experience (having a girlfriend) before his marriage, which usually goes hand in hand after a while.

-Saying, moving in isn't a commitment is false, that is a BIG commitment, that can lead toward marriage and family of course. If you don't have arranged marriage, that is how things should go in today's society: Meet-Date-Move in-Marriage-Family.
-Not having sex before marriage should be a personal choice, you won't become a bad person, just because you had slept with people in the past, you had actually been in love with and they loved you back, but sometimes things just don't work out after a while and you gotta move on.
-The biggest thing he's wrong about is, that sex can't be truly be intimate and emotional, UNLESS you're married. This is where his inexperience shows the most. You can be in a FANTASTIC RELATIONSHIP, knowing your partner truly on intimate and emotional level, which may lead to marriage, yet you don't have to married at that point. Also sex doesn't suddenly goes from bad to amazing, just because you got married of course.
If you choose to have sex before marriage, it should already be good, because of the passion and love you and your partner have or had. Marriage just shows off to the world you plan to stay together, being committed to each other and having a family.

I agree a lot with Ben, but he's wrong about a few things now. Not everyone in their 20s as lucky as Ben, and can find their life partner, so that's absolutely normal for most people having relationships for years, to find out where that could lead, and not getting married in a few months. As long as a couple is happy and truly love each other, have great sex, they work great together and plan for the future together, marriage could come up later, like before they're ready to have family. Nothing is wrong with that.

[garintj]

Recently became Christian and now my gf of 3 years and I are gonna wait until marriage.

[artisanshrew]

*So so true.... The Soul-Tie created by a Marital Bond is a gift BEYOND recognition... I would step in front of a bus for my husband to spare his life if I had to - and I know he would do the same!*

*To know someone on such a deep level... And the sex is even BETTER when you know it's reserved for only you!!!* 💜🙏