If You’re a Gay Man Attracting the Wrong Guys… This Is Why

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Have you ever felt stuck in a cycle of dating men who are emotionally unavailable, distant, or even toxic… yet you still find yourself drawn to them?

You're not alone—and it's not a coincidence.

In this video, I’m sharing the raw truth about why so many gay men are attracted to the wrong guys, and how this pattern is often rooted in something much deeper—like the father wound or emotional abandonment from childhood.

I’ll open up about my own journey: 🔹 How I kept falling for emotionally unavailable men
🔹 How my unresolved relationship with my father was silently running the show
🔹 And how I finally broke the cycle by healing what was going on within me

Because here’s the truth: We don’t fall for people randomly.
We fall for what feels familiar—even if it hurts.

If you're tired of chasing love, confusing intensity with connection, and feeling unseen or unloved in your dating life… this video is for you.

📌 Watch now to begin understanding and healing the patterns that keep pulling you back.

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There are many unavailable avoidant types in the gay community. I have given up on dating as I found it exhausting and very shallow.
Now I devote my life to animal charities.

newworldlove
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Hey good to see you back making videos again!😊

AnaKarenina-cp
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very well put.

if only i knew this years ago, maybe i wouldnt have been heartbroken by douche guys who i found hot but they didnt even notice me.
uggg

TheReal_ist
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I spent 10 years loving 2 different men i was engaged to. Both of them threw me to the trash. My father and brother are both maga yahtzees. Its safer to keep people away from destroying my life that i worked hard for.

Trenton
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yo soy uno de ellos, no lo se por que siempre me toca salir con narcicistas, malvados etc, primero son un amor ya despues sale a relucir solo buscan interes, sexo etc

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