8 ways CON-MEN GAIN LEVERAGE over women to use them

8 ways CON-MEN GAIN LEVERAGE over women to use them
Con-men love to trick women out of things. Just like gold digging women try to con men. Men often use cons to trick women and gain emotional leverage over them. Once they get you to fall for them you become their property and willing participant to abuse. Beware of these 8 signs.

[sylviab.]

1. Everything moves fast 💨.
2. Future projection.
3. Act's entitled.
4. Inserts into your finances.
5. Overreactes to negative affection.
6. Victimizes himself with your boundaries.
7. Suggest you are un loyal.
8. He is the victim in all his stories..

[NFTeve]

Even if they are not a con, these traits are red flags of abusers, manipulators and weak men. ❤

[rachelosiria]

"He's not committed, he's a stranger." 😂 A lot of us needed to hear that part lmfao

[qesther]

I don’t tell men I’m a Christian anymore because I want to see where he’s at in relation to his Christianity.

[missdesireindependance]

If a man ask you for a dollar or to borrow something early in dating he is a con man.

[cgray]

Lol, just ran across one of these. He fit this description perfectly. 30 days he was professing his undying love and ready to get married. Then came the business crisis…Also beware of the words Power Couple. They love that one. I have a stern rule on not giving men money so he could never. He started at 5, 000 and ended up at $200. I told him I can pray with him but I can’t give him any money. He soon disappeared. Lol

[sososanchez]

He's not committed .he's a stranger... stranger danger.. This s*** took me out..
Absolutely 💯

[dnw]

A con man would be mad at me because I don't play about my money/finances.

[haleyclarke]

The entitlement is always at an all time high. And they get jealous over everything and then start gaslighting you.

[sneakytreats]

I will never forget this advice from Kev “I don’t owe you anything INTERNET STRANGER”

[melb]

Omg!!! I just got out of a situation with someone that showed all 8 signs... Thank God I caught on to it and it only lasted 5 months... The worse part about dealing with someone like this is they make you doubt yourself, and you're left feeling violated.. You also get a sense that you're being manipulated, if and when you feel that way RUN!! YOU'RE GUT FEELINGS DON'T LIE! Ladies, pleeeease be safe out there. Kev thanks for always putting out content to inform of these shenanigans..

[SouthernGirl]

After the final discard, my ex said “whether it’s you or someone else, I need to get married to them quick before…” and then he caught himself. It made me think of when we were first together and he said he’d want to get married in 6 months and I was like “well I think we need a bit longer than that.” Sheesh. You never know the danger you in until you’re out.

[cindeed]

Some of us are widows as well. But I learned the game real quick! He “became a fake Christian”! God showed it to me. He even asked me if I was saved. He told all the men in the church he was going to sleep with me! He conned Christian women. It was a game to him.

[cw]

This video is full of excellent information. The only thing I will add is that a con man boyfriend or husband can wait years to start conning you rather than a month or two like this video suggests. I was conned out of most of my life savings by my boyfriend of six years and he didn't start conning me until 3 years into the relationship. Please don't think you can't be conned just because you've been close to someone for years or they are family.

[angelicarcturianmessagesan]

Also they will tell you they love you very early on. They dont even know you and they are “in love”.
If they mention you should change your looks early on “you should stop wearing makeup ect” they are testing you to see if you will change yourself for them.
And lastly, if you ask them “what are we” they wont give a straight answer. They might be literally telling you they love you but cant clearly define what the relationship is or where its going.

[lydiapetra]

You should be teaching in highschool, college, churches, .... everywhere!!! Thanks for this very educational video! God bless you!

[ImThaReeless]

Let me tell you I’ve experienced all of the above. Was married but got a legal separation, fresh on the dating scene, and bam got hit with all of these types of men. Thank you for helping us women realize what to look out for. I only wished I had this knowledge beforehand.

[smores]

My ex was love bombing me and moved fast talking about marriage within the first 2 months. He wasn’t trying to con me per se, he was super codependent and always needed validation from others as well. But whatever the reason may be, moving Uber fast is never a good sign. As someone in their mid/late 40s we need to know the delicate balance between wasting time and moving too fast

[itzyzaza]

I remember when I started dating again. The guy was younger, and he knew I had a business and all of my own stuff. He was at my house and said, "I would like to stay here with you but I have to go to work. I could stay with you but that's $200 I'm going to miss, " and he looked at me. I said, "Oh okay, well, call me when you're free, " and I meant that both literally and figuratively. I've never been one to give men money. It's just not a part of my make up.

[jazminerenee]

I just still feel so ashamed and embarrassed. How could I let this happen to me over and over again? I’m done with dating lol 😢😢